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Emilie | 19 | Wales |

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Self Care Masterpost

So, I decided to make my first masterpost on a topic that I care about a lot, which is self care. I think that self care is a very important thing as we have to take care of ourselves to stay happy and healthy. This masterpost is a bit of a mess, as it is my first one, but I want to be able to include sub-headings and make it a bit more organised. So, here are the links!

Self care but not as cutesy by @crystals-and-honey

‘Glow up’ tips by @creatingbliss

APPS FOR SELF-CARE!! by @morningpetals

A note on self care by @paperconstudies

Little tips for when you feel bad and don’t know why by @aggressivelystrange

Mental Health Starter Pack for Times of Change by @postitforward

10 small things to make you happier by @yellowyoungadult

self care tips by @honeymatcha

Acne Tips by @violentdelightviolentends

self care post by @overflowxng

SELF-CARE TIPS by @almiditi

Easy self care suggestions by @bodypositiveadvocates

self care tips by @spillingwaves

SKINCARE TIPS!!!!! by @morningpetals

Tips to clearer skin by @heirofsnape

SELF CARE TIPS FOR COZY SNOWY DAYS by @samwizzlegamgizzle

Self care tips for better days by @heirofsnape

Some ideas to help you unwind by @wherelionscometobreathe

actual self care things by @folie-a-disappointment

Self Care by @mads-studies

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ways to cope: a semi-poem referential list

you are now the protagonist of a well-loved children’s movie. your suffering contributes to mere soul-ameliorating beauty to the crass, imaginary audience in that distant theatre you can’t see.

you are now a charmingly free-spirited ghost, waltzing through life with light footsteps the way only the dead may walk. don’t cross rivers unless you pray first.

all the injures and cuts you’ve borne are digging little pits in the earthen dirt of your body. but it is up to you to fill up those grooves with flower seeds and rich moist mud so good things may grow from there.

power may be loaned from objects. sunglasses strengthen, perfume comforts, books act as vehicles, and chai is pure sensation, distractive and seductive and sun-warm and sugar-sweet all at once. 

buy pearl earrings. you carry the protection of all the seas in the world now.

you think fate is cruel, and machinating your existence around like a puppet? ask your mother to loan you the trusty sewing scissors she always kept in the outer kitchen drawer. cut away the strings.

you want to be worthy? you want to be a hero? i’ll tell you a secret. you become one when you, quite indulgently, decide you are one.

[hiswordssplashedmewithstars]

I Don't Want to Waste Away into the Oblivion, Even Summer Can't Cage My Heart

1. Put together a collection of poetry that captures even a small amount of who you are.

2. Live at the library. Make sure they know you by name.

3. Clear away anything that doesn’t make you warm inside.

4. Paint. Paint envy. Paint pain. Paint the trees. Paint with all the colors of the wind for fuck’s sake.

5. Buy at least seven disposable cameras. Use all of them, or else you owe your brother ice cream.

6. Get outside. Don’t get so caught up in the beauty of the mind that you forget the beauty of the world all around you.

7. Learn all the constellations and their stories by name. Seal the wisdom of the ages in your heart.

8. Read The Lord Of The Rings. All of them. Including The Hobbit. Learn Elvish.

9. Watch films that make you question the existence of everything you know to be true. Watch them with the people who tear you apart and put you back together.

10. Don’t forget that magic used to dwell in that forest, in that abandoned field. In that ocean. In that smell. In that breeze. Do not lose the magic of your childhood.

11. You used to read like you were paid to do it. Start again. You will be paid in adventure, not cash.

12. Do not forget that the smell after rain smells alive.

13. When you are sad, write it down. When you are happy, write it down. When you are bored, write it down.

14. Go to a public place, the park, a market. Observe.

15. Talk to a sweet stranger. Soak in their experiences and wisdom. Learn.

16. Do not lose yourself. You are not your car keys, a tube of lipstick. You are the blueprint for something that is going to be beautiful. Prepare. Live. Be.

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How to feel magical every damn day.

Here’s a few ways to make every single day a witchy day.

Go for a walk where you will be surrounded by nature (whether it be the local park or forest or beach) and smell some flowers or collect some dirt/shells.

Press some flowers to decorate your journal (or book of shadows).

Light a candle.

Light a bunch of candles.

Make some natural toothpaste or deodorant to replace your regular one, feel a difference?

Sunbathe.

Moonbathe.

Put your green thumb to good use and start an herb garden in your kitchen or garden.

Harvest from your plant babies and dry/store them for using in your magic (make sure you give thanks and give them an offering in return.)

Cleanse the space with some incense or just by sweeping.

Take a bath with some herbs, petals and bath salts. Soak in all the scents and charge yourself.

Make yourself some really good tea and practice your tasseomancy.

Give your fur baby some love and do a spell for them or enchant something of theirs.

Put sachets of fragrant herbs all over the house.

Weave some magic into to your knitting or cross-stitching. Make bracelets enchanted with glamours or scarves with protective sigils woven into them for your friends or for yourself.

Volunteer at your local dog/homeless shelter and maybe add some magic into their lives. Enchant some dog collars or give out some good luck in soup form.

Bless your old clothes before you give them to charity.

Maintain a journal for everyday magic and challenge yourself to do one magical thing every day.

Read lots of fiction and get creative with your magic by letting them inspire you.

Do some magic for yourself. Whether it be enchanting you favourite lipstick or necklace, to give you a little bit of a boost throughout the day.

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How To Bring Spring Into Your Life

🥚 Use writing as a form of therapy while transitioning from one season to the next! Keep a list of ways you hope to bloom over the next few months, and recent ways in which you feel like you already have.

🥚 Boost your creative mindset by surrounding yourself with dreamy, seasonal decorations: Anything bearing images of bunnies, flowers, eggs, baby chicks… You’re probably well aware of all the cute imagery associated with this lovely season!

🥚 Make the decision to begin caring for a small plant! Even if you already have one or a few, add a new little succulent or potted flower to your realm: A fresh, sweet symbol of your own growth and blossoming.

🥚 Do something outside when the weather calls - Even if it is something as simple as basking in the sun, reading Beatrix Potter and drinking lemonade!

🥚 Light sweet-smelling candles, wear pastel ribbons in your hair, send cute and festive cards to your loved ones… Feel inspired by all that surrounds you, be it the rainy skies or the chirp of birds; the slow blooming of flowers, the laughter of children playing, the promise of picnics and bicycle rides.

🥚 Remember that Spring should serve as a positive period of renewal and growth - not only for the nature outside our doors and for ourselves, but for everything and everyone else, too - so put some good changes into the world. Volunteer, sign online petitions for animal and human rights, donate to a reputable cause. There’s so much light to put back into our world!

🥚 If you are spiritual, partake in fun activities and services which are close to your faith and good for the soul. And if not, simply embrace the festivity of the changing season… Allowing it to inspire you towards joy, vibrancy, and thriving! 🌸🐇🐣✨🌦💕

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🔥THE BIG ASS CLEANSE ROUTINE🖕🏾

So something shitty happened! Or has been happening! For a long time! Maybe you’ve had enough or your situation or made a bad decision. Whatever the case, new beginnings are needed or wanted. Never fear my friends, introducing the big ass cleanse routine.

This “routine” is a detailed list of ways to cleanse your life and soul. Complete all or some of these tasks over whatever period of time you need. -Freya🌹

🔥Clean your room. Dust and purge. 🔥Clean up your diet. Don’t eat anything processed/junk food for as long as you feel necessary. (Try to stick to plant based meals if you can) 🔥Delete old texts 🔥Clean up your social media 🔥Clean your sheets and clothes 🔥Throw out or consolidate old bottles of lotion, perfume, ect. 🔥If you have a carpet, pour a mix of herbs and vacuum. 🔥Take a shower or bath and use a scrub to gently get rid of old dead skin. (I use a home made Sugar, Honey, and Rosemary mix) 🔥Cleanse your skin very well and treat yourself. 🔥Take out the garbage 🔥Cleanse or charge one or more crystals if you can 🔥Make sure your home is full of scents you enjoy. Light a candle or two. 🔥Change out your pillowcases 🔥Move things around, furniture, items, plants, whatever. 🔥If your alter is messy, organize it. 🔥Make a new playlist and delete old ones you no longer listen to. 🔥Be as kind as you can to others throughout the cleanse. 🔥Throw out old candles that are almost finished, or burn them until they are done. 🔥Clean up your herb supply 🔥Donate old books or materials 🔥Donate old clothes 🔥Wash your shoes 🔥If you have drinkable moon water, take a few sips (at least). 🔥Make a sigil inspired by your name and burn it. 🔥Learn something and teach something 🔥If you can, run around in the rain. 🔥Cut your nails 🔥Clean pieces of jewelry that you wear often 🔥Throw or reuse old pill bottles (sometimes i put crystal in mine or paint them) 🔥Begin the process of renewing good relationships and removing yourself from bad ones. 🔥Carefully clean your crystals Delete unnecessary files on all your devices. 🔥If a favorite tree or bush could use trimming, help provoke new growth by clipping off dead branches. 🔥BLOCK!* TOXIC 1! PEOPLE!!11 :) 🔥Burn shit. Just burn it. Write all the shit down on a piece of paper and safely burn the shit out of it. 🔥If you can’t burn the shit, rip the fuckers up into tiny little pieces 🔥Delete unneeded contacts 🔥Drink lots of water and eat lots of plants

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Thank you so much you're so lovely 💖✨

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me: *is one day into summer break*

me: k so when can i go get my school supplies for next year

[sadmemegf]

glasses are cute. freckles are cute. tummies are cute. curly hair is cute. short hair is cute. frizzy hair that goes everywhere and you can’t keep up with it is cute. no makeup is cute. tons of makeup is cute. stretch marks are cute. birth marks are cute. tattoos are cute. nails that you always bite on are cute. gapped teeth are cute. braces are cute. please don’t think you aren’t cute because society says you need to be this or that. you’re cute, and i love you

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I need more stamps on my passport, books, skin care, scented candles, tea blends and lingerie. 

[cwote]

So what if you’re alone right now. Embrace it. Go get coffee alone. Shop alone. Drive alone. Watch movies alone. Get to know yourself. Nothing bad can come from riding whatever wave to self improvement you’re blessed with in the moment.

[floralheavenlyangel]

Small pleasures to cultivate: - always put small drops of perfume in your wrist and behind your ear - be more aware of the nature around you - sleep naked once a week - read a book and drink tea on your bed everyday - take shower in the dark - don’t be hurry for anything, live calmly - kiss your lover slowly - listen to dreamy songs and swing softly - remember to be present

[hunterraiehorror]

Re-blog if you're accepting anonymous asks from anyone about anything.

[krystajoice]

i would luv 2 interact with u all

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Daily Reminder:

•you are not a burden •you are loved •you are valued •what you have to say is important •you are beautiful •you are not a waste of time •your feelings are valid •you look so cute today •i love you

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self care tips 💗

wash your face, even if it’s a quick 30 second cleanse 

stay hydrated by drinking lots of water

surround yourself by people you love 

study, but have fun too

use face masks 

watch spring day mv by bts 

write thoughts down 

take a leisure walk and pet cute dogs 

read a book that inspires you 

take a nap when you’re sleepy

apply moisturizer and lip balm

[urmars]

how to really get to know someone:

- look at their handwriting

- read their favourite book and search for pieces of them within the pages

- listen to their music and let it resonate with you

- go to their favourite place

- stay up ‘till 3am and let them spill their heart out to you

- ask them unusual questions that you never even thought would intrigue you

- spend a day with them doing nothing

- look out for the things they subconsciously do when they’re happy

- watch how their smile forms

[andwhatisyourstory]

- go through old photos with them

- use their body wash when you shower at the persons place (truly, you’ll feel it)

- talk to their parents, grandparents or siblings

[urmars]

I love the ones added <3

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-Make them laugh and learn their different laughs (my personal fave to share with someone is the sleepy-drunk laugh)

- make art with them, sitting in the silence just drawing or painting, or having deep conversations while making art, both realllyyy connect them

- spent time with their pets (but not too much because they might be jealous) - notice how they squeeze the toothpaste bottle.

- let them tell you their dreams and ask if you can look it up for them, share the results.

- learn their impulse buys/decisions

[urmars]

^^^ ahhh these are so cute!!