Subtype Trait Structures: sx5
Fragile Body and Nonconformist Spirit
Usually, this subtype has experienced a childhood of suffering due to the affective impact of the parents, but also due to physical fragility. Despite this, there is an intense desire for potency. The sexual E5 does not accept its fragile condition.
Need of Harmony and Flee to Nature
A person of this subtype needs a harmonious environment. Nature becomes this environment; it is an idealized place of silence and tranquility, where the sexual E5 can organize his inner chaos.
The sexual E5 appears arid and distant, and yet is very sensitive. There is a very low threshold for pain, so emotions and thoughts are separated, and situations are avoided which might bring to conscious awareness extreme pain. Aridity serves to dampen hypersensitivity.
People make this subtype lose contact with his desires. External demands exhaust the sexual E5 and thus cause this subtype to retreat once more into isolation. The sexual E5 was so invaded in his childhood that the person still lives with the fear of not being able to defend him, thus the person remains in the background.
The sexual E5 idealizes the past, being unable to let themselves indulge in the present.
Existential helplessness has been present since childhood. It almost feels like having no skin, not being grounded in the world.
Separation From The World
Separating social and professional dimensions can lead to a simple, routine life. The sexual E5 can restrict himself to a systematic and rigid way of living, and compensate this with excessive fantasy. The sexual E5 is pressured by an indomitable spirit, but has difficulty finding his place in the world.
A prominent characteristic of E5 is not feeling worthy, due to a lack of vitality when facing challenges. With the sexual instinct, it coexists with excessive and grandiose fantasy. Projects thus become unreal and unfinished. Separating the mind from the body makes it difficult to take action.
Indiscipline is the result of forgetfulness, devitalization, and difficulties taking action. It is hard to move on, due to a pessimistic attitude towards change. Internal perfectionism makes the sexual E5 believe he is never ready.
Vengeful by Not Doing What is Expected
The demands of an internalized critical parent makes this subtype rebellious, which results in guilt when not doing what is expected.
Guilt arises, as the sexual E5 is aware of their detachment as a form of revenge. A vicious cycle is created: guilt leads to not having energy, and not having energy leads to guilt. Guilt maintains feelings of victimization. A childhood full of demands and messages of worthlessness is common. The parents, making the sexual E5 feel guilty, contribute to a sense of worthlessness, of not being deserving of something positive in life.
Selfishness and Egocentricity
When idealizing his partner, the sexual E5 does not see her as a person with her own emotions or needs. This subtype needs a partner who will have extreme loyalty. The other must conform to this person.
As a way of denying the defensiveness of isolation, the sexual E5 will convince himself of his special world, of being above “ordinary” beings. There exists an image of superiority. This subtype tends to present his ideas as unquestionable.
The sexual E5 seduces not with feathers, but by approaching intimately. His search for the ideal partner can lead to compulsive seduction of different people at the same time.
The sexual E5 is the most emotional subtype of the E5. Romanticism allows them to be carried away by their emotions. Romanticism can emerge not only in the couple's relationship, but also with music, art, or nature.
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