Peekaboo, here are my calves!

Vick | 17 |♏| Gender:?They/Them ==================>

[saintdri]

Commission for @grim-revolution! Thank you for giving me my first chance to work on something Breath of the Wild related! 

[falseknees]

Really glad we checked in on you, seagull.

[inkskinned]

you know what? fuck it, man. the world is held in the fists of people who like to break things. at this point i’m saying who gives a shit. wear that victorian dress you don’t have an excuse for. dress up like a witch, pointed hat and all. who cares anymore. why worry about it when there’s bigger stuff to worry on. i’m saying. yeah, this lipstick is too dark, wanna share? i’m saying go talk to her, tell her that you like her hair. i’m saying she’s out of my league but i’m still swinging, i’m saying yeah i’m in a ballgown and it’s a pta meeting. what about it. eat the extra brownie, tell her your feelings. i’m saying if nothing matters than we might as well give nothing meaning.

[hellalowselfesteem]

This is so inspiring

[antibutch-deactivated20180507]

follow for more optimist nilihism

[hotvampireadjacent]

[kestrel-tree]

Ridiculous yet effective ways to deal with Executive Dysfunction

Dealing with executive dysfunction and ADHD becomes so much easier when you stop trying to do things the way you feel like you should be able to do them (like everyone else) and start finding ways that actually work for you, no matter how “silly” or “unnecessary” they seem.

For years my floor was constantly covered in laundry. Clean laundry got mixed in with dirty and I had to wash things twice, just making more work for myself. Now I just have 3 laundry bins: dirty (wash it later), clean (put it away later), and mystery (figure it out later). Sure, theoretically I could sort my clothes into dirty or clean as soon as I take them off and put them away straight out of the dryer, but realistically that’s never going to be a sustainable strategy for me.

How many garbage bins do you need in a bedroom? One? WRONG! The correct answer is one within arms reach at all times. Which for me is three. Because am I really going to get up to blow my nose when I’m hyperfocusing? NO. In allergy season I even have an empty kleenex box for “used tissues I can use again.” Kinda gross? Yeah. But less gross than a snowy winter landscape of dusty germs on my desk.

I used to be late all the time because I couldn’t find my house key. But it costs $2.50 and 3 minutes to copy a key, so now there’s one in my backpack, my purse, my gym bag, my wallet, my desk, and hanging on my door. Problem solved.

I’m like a ninja for getting pout the door past reminder notes without noticing. If I really don’t want to forget something, I make a physical barrier in front of my door. A sticky note is a lot easier to walk past than a two foot high cardboard box with my wallet on top of it.

Executive dysfunction is always going to cause challenges, but often half the struggle is trying to cope by pretending not to have executive dysfunction, instead of finding actual solutions.

[juliansoldishacct]

would anyone be willing to make this easier to read?

[kestrel-tree]

@thatpunk-rockkid​ here’s a TL;DR version. Let me know if another format would be better.

MAIN POINTS:

Executive dysfunction makes some tasks hard to do the “normal” way.

Don’t worry about how you “should” be able to do something.

Find solutions that work for you, even if they seem silly. 

“Try harder” is not a solution.

EXAMPLES:

Extra garbage bins: If you can always reach one without getting up, you won’t throw trash on the floor.

Extra House Keys: Copies are cheap. Keep one in every bag and coat. No more time wasted desperately searching.

Impassible Reminders: Make reminders that physically block your exit so you can’t ignore them. Like a note on a big cardboard box in the doorway. Or putting items you need to bring inside your shoes.

3 Laundry Bins:

Dirty: If you know it needs washing.

Clean: So they stay clean even if you don’t finish putting them away.

Mystery: Keep clothes off the floor by having a specific bin for “deal with it later.” If it gets too full, dump it in the “dirty” bin.

[aprillikesthings]

I don’t fold laundry. I just don’t. It’s never going to happen so I stopped pretending it would. 

Things that wrinkle really bad/dresses/skirts: get hung up

Everything else: bins that slide out of a stand; they’re deeper than drawers, they’re also easy to pull out all the way and dump on my bed when I’m looking for something

[techjunk0]

things like this make me feel much better for filling up the house with wheeled three-drawers carts (basically plastic chests of drawers, they cost like $18 each.)

FINALLY the laundry does not constantly overwhelm me. I just. Cannot cope with what might be more conventional or ””practical”” ways of handling it. Finally my arts and crafts supplies are not constantly underfoot or on the kitchen table.

I feel like the takeaway lesson here is losing the shame over not being able to do things the so-called normal way.

[deadstag]

melanistic, albino and natural fallow deers photographed by Mszafran on deviantart Source here

[chillyfeetsteak]

cool palette swaps

[handsomedogs]

[banji-effect]

Glamour~

[ceasepool]

power

[mariopowertennis]

Look at this beautiful boy

[smeasel]

this looks like a traffic cone strapped to a swan

[mariopowertennis]

Blocked

[reallyreallyreallytrying]

dead leafs? that’s called yard salad now. and it’s the new food trend.

[xenso-remade]

leaves*

[holyrights-deactivated20211021]

where are you going

[dankmemeuniversity]

[moonemojii]

[alinktothecake-deactivated20160]

I SAID NO CAPES 

[hugewitches]

Tumblr, i am begging you, please stop advertising me Nutt Butter™. i promise, i am not the target demographic. I Do Not Need Any Nutt Butter™

[hugewitches]

I have no Nutts to Butter™ please stop this

[verycooltrash-deactivated201907]

i have no nutts but i must butter

[maskedgolem]

I finally got around to drawing Teba

[borealisowl]

Idqbaka Brigitte- https://www.artstation.com/artwork/Db8YR Widowmaker- https://www.artstation.com/artwork/JdnzA There’s… AS- https://www.artstation.com/idiotiquebaka/ IG- https://www.instagram.com/idiotiquebaka/ FB- https://www.facebook.com/idiotiquebaka

[l1p3k4]

Brigitte Lindholm, squire to Reinhardt Wilhelm, is a former mechanical engineer, who has decided to take up arms and fight on the front lines to protect those in need. <3

commissions are open 

[triforce-princess]