I don’t wanna say anything nasty, but imo (Euro/semi-Anglosaxon/German/open) this is so typically USA style :(
Why? Why make stuff go either black or white? The black/white thing doesn’t help you, doesn’t help the world, and only rarely sits near the truth, let alone practical use and true daily life. Why make it us-them so heavily? Why, why after 100’s of reasons for feeling and knowing Christine is a ‘us’ make Christine a ‘them’ and block this person? That is too dumb of a reasoning, dude… Nic, in this case.
I don’t really blame you - and I shouldn’t, hey I’m propagating for less black-n-white!!!- but I do ‘blame’ your country. The USA is weird. Sad. In quite some respects. Mainly, for me, in the black-n-white thing:
* Let’s throw the 18 yo dude who had sex with a 15 yo (okay, not too cool perhaps, but having NOTHING to do with pedophilia… heck I dated a girl 2.5 years younger than me at that age) in jail for six years, and have him, even 10 years later, live in a street where only offenders live, and keep an eye on him forever.
* Let’s order the LARGEST pizza with the LARGEST Coke and MOST greasy shit on top of it and then complain about the world being such a bitch when looking at the scale saying 360.
* Let’s forbid euthanasia as a whole, just like abortion. So for the so many people for whom the situation is real, honest and terrible, for the people surrounding them, for the possible child being born 7 months later having hardly a chance for a decent future, let’s just judge them and not respect them.
* Let’s … be super-Christian and forbid tv, yet put it upstairs to go watch it real sneaky.
* Let’s say nothing out loud about sex, keep it taboo’d, so that our kids think oral sex is JUST ANOTHER HOBBY when they’re 13 yo, and so that we allow or even force a humongous world of porn vids and stuff be built.
* Let’s forbid drugs as a whole, so that there will be 10+ million heavily addicted in the USA.
* Let’s drooool over Oprah, dr Oz and dr Phil, yet kill 10 burgers and 20 hotdogs a day and kill each other or make life miserable.
* Or let’s go totally nuts and go vegan, anti-carbohydrates and anti-fat and go eat like a sick chicken.
And so on, and so on… Makes me sad. And I seriously can’t believe this is ‘the promised land’. -rofl-
Dear USA peeps, all 310M of you, please, I beg you: won’t you just go try live with grey scales more often, on more topics and more levels. Merely either black or white might be morally easier for you -awww, that’s cute- to handle, but practically stupid and counterproductive as hell.
SO, WAKE UP, drop the stupids among the extremes in thinking (like: ALL OF ‘EM!!!), and go utilize and practice respect, space, normality, empathy and logic!!!!!! And yes, next time I will go shout at my fellow-Dutch. We have our own, more nasty, tendencies over here. Calling ourselves tolerant and social…