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Hello my name is Sara and I'm a loonytoons runaway

[fadprince]

Ok, I’m seeing a lot of Barbs on Twitter defending Nicki Minaj and her bailing her brother out… and I’m struggling trying to comprehend WHY!

If you didn’t already know Jelani Maraj, Nicki’s brother, used Nicki’s name to lure a 12 year old girl into his truck, drove her around the corner and raped her. The girl was thankfully able to get away and call the cops only for Jelani to drive away and pass a surveillance camera. She was treated at Queens General Hospital. The girl was immediately able to ID Jelani, and as well as evidence from the SUV, license plate, etc. Jelani was arrested and charged. He was also posted for 100k bail.

and heres what’s fucked up: Nicki actually payed for his bail! Nicki identifies as a feminist and has actively spoken about women’s rights and issues so I’m having trouble understanding how she can think this is okay. AND Yes, I know this doesn’t mean that the charges are gonna be dropped and he’s gonna get away with rape, but currently at the moment he isn’t in a jail cell, he isn’t in legal custody, he’s literally chillin awaiting trial. AND since we are talking about Trials, Nicki is very much so capable of providing him with the best lawyers in the country, seeing that she’s been supportive of him enough to post bail, and those lawyers could very well minimize his sentencing or by some miracle help him get away with this. But let’s for a moment think about the girl who was actually raped. She’s going to sleep tonight knowing that her rapist is free. Her parents are going to sleep tonight knowing that their daughter’s rapist is free. The 12 year old girl is probably going through severe trauma and anxiety right now. but what’s really awful is the fact that she was obviously a Nicki fan, enough of a fan to get in the car with a stranger because he was Nicki’s brother, so imagine how she feels to know that the person responsible for making her rapist free is her very own idol. So I’m fed up with people trying to defend either of the two, I’m tired of barbs trying to make her seem like she can do no wrong, because this whole thing is seriously fucked up and I’m gonna be real fucking pissed if it all gets swapped underneath the rug. 

[fawnbabe-deactivated20190422]

And I asked the boy; why are you so afraid of strong women? Tell me. What is it about this term that puts you off? What is it about this term that scares you? Is it the silly belief that strength, physical as well as mental, is exclusively masculine? How come the term “strong woman” is only a compliment when it’s said to a widow, but frowned upon when it describes a female that chose to be alone? How come you think of soldiers, swords and blood, chopped off hair and disguises, but not of housewives, spatulas and the blood in our panties, bleached hair and frilly dresses when you’re asked to imagine a strong woman? There’s nothing masculine about my strength. Nothing violent unless required. Nothing dangerous unless you provoke me. I am a strong woman in a knight’s armour, holding up a burning torch and screaming my lungs out, and I am a strong woman in lacy lingerie, painting my nails and humming a pop song. I am not cold. I am not evil. I am a grown woman, and a heartbroken girl that cries over the man that doesn’t love her back. I will be a mother that’ll teach her children right, and I am a daughter whose father never showed approval. I will not shut my mouth and I will discuss and discuss and discuss and discuss until I made my point, and I can be quiet and keep my thoughts to myself. I am a beautiful, gorgeous goddess, and my reflection makes me cry on some days. I love my body and I wish I looked different. I am a rock in a stormy ocean and a silent breeze at night. I am a goddamn fucking galaxy and nothing but dust in the wind. Why and, not but? Because there’s nothing wrong with not making a choice. There’s not a right or wrong way for a woman to be one and to be strong. Boy, I could crush your skull between my thighs while you kiss me between them and beg me to let you in, and I wouldn’t be weaker by any means if I ran after you and begged you to take me. I am a strong woman. And I do not have to choose. Strength is not a final state of mind, it’s a progress. I am a warrior. What matters is the fight, and not the number of enemies that I have killed in the end. Because it never ends unless I die. Regardless if I die in a skirt or goddamn fucking combat boots. Maybe I’ll combine both! Maybe I’ll die in a protest on the streets, and maybe I’ll die knitting in the bedroom! No matter what. I will die as the strong woman that I have raised myself to be. If that puts you off, you’re probably not strong enough to accept the fact that there’s more to me than blood and hair, and that I am not a term and not a notion, nor the contradiction of a silly belief. I am a strong woman in every way that I define. But, if you’re afraid for your pride and strength when you’re exposed to mine, then, yes, maybe you should be scared.

Just Because, Doesn’t Mean / No “But” needed where an “And” helps you to understand - On strong women, from a novel that I still need to write (via fawnbabe)

[ultrafacts]

Alexandra David-Néel was a brave explorer. She also wrote 25 books and became completely fluent in multiple languages.

(Fact Source/more info on her journey)

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[chicklikemeblog]

Playboy’s catcall flowchart.  

[fenchurchdent-blog]

I’m reblogging Playboy. Somebody stop me. 

[thebicker]

Even Playboy wants men to stop screaming at women on the street. When the pinnacle of female objectification is telling you you’re being a sexist pig, maybe for real you’re being a sexist pig. (I mean, women have been telling you you’re a sexist pig for catcalling for a long time, but then again, they’re *women* so their opinions don’t count. Now a magazine for men has acknowledged it so LISTEN UP.)

[silverblueroses-blog]

Even Playboy wants men to stop screaming at women on the street.  That needed to be repeated.  Even Playboy.

[my-own-little-secret]

Jennifer Lopez at the 1997 Oscars vs Oscars 2015

[eightniine-deactivated20151021]

She’s an actual goddess!

[coffeefreak3]

Dayyumm

[unrepentantwarriorpriest]

Kurdish Warrior WomenFearlessly fighting the evils of ISIS at every turn. Made especially fierce by the knowledge of what ISIS will do to them if they are captured. And made an especially effective due to the fact that ISIS fighters believe that if killed by a woman they will be chastised in the afterlife.

[distressingdisneydamsel]

I’m really mad that this doesn’t have more notes. Middle Eastern feminists don’t joke around.

[maybeimdatingmyself]

We were a perfect match. Maybe that’s why we burnt out.

[sad--gal]

[khadlja]

when you’re in sujood and you never want to raise your head again because your heart has finally stopped hurting.

[princessesfanarts]

Real Life Princesses by Jirka Vinse

[tae-suga-r]

this is the best shit ive ever seen

[mrcheyl]

[ahmadkhader]

[blazepress]

How light can change your appearance.

[jxhxk]

[gifak-net]

[lauralite]

oh my god. wtf is this.

[acciotempus]

This would help so many people with problems of motion or arthritis omg

[islamic-quotes]

A Syrian Muslim boy.

Those who fear Allah, are fearless.

More islamic quotes HERE

[khadlja]

Can Allah be your best friend?

if by best friend you mean someone who loves you fiercely;supports you through the thick and thin; is always there for you; watches out for you; constantly showers gifts and blessings upon you; forgives you over and over and over; makes sure you’re okay; helps you grow; never abandons you; only wants the best for you; and understands you in ways you don’t even understand yourself, then yes, Allah (swt) can be and is your best friend.

وَاللَّهُ وَلِيُّ الْمُؤْمِنِينَ - and Allah (swt) is the close and intimate friend of the believers. [3:68]