What color is your character? What color partner is the most suitable? What colour bosses do you get along better with? Le Jia helps you unravel the mysteryColour and Eye See People: Lejia Helps You Unravel the Mystery of Character.
Red： Free and Happy,Blue：Perfect and Rigorous, Yellow：Resolute and Firm, Green： Harmonious and Tolerant
People's initial nature is "color", and their personality is divided into red, yellow, blue and green.As we all know, there are four types of ABCD personality. Do you know that there are four types of personality: red, yellow, blue and green?Lejia first introduced that according to color psychology, people's personality is divided into "red, yellow, blue and green" four kinds, red and yellow publicity, giving two kinds of extroverted personality, while blue and green introverted, allocating two kinds of introverted personality.Red is free and happy; Blue is perfect and rigorous;Yellow is decisive and firm; Green is harmonious and tolerant. Of course, each personality has its shortcomings: Red disorder, Blue stubbornness, Yellow tyranny, Green weakness and procrastination.
Knowing the "red, yellow, blue and green" of personality color is of great benefit in life and work. Knowing your spouse's personality color, you can know how to get along with him or her; knowing your child's personality color, you can know how to educate; knowing your boss, subordinates and colleagues'personality color, you can get along with them in harmony, and so on.Start with toothpaste squeezing and see what color your personality is.
Let's start with a question. Do you tend to squeeze toothpaste with a "squeeze" from the top or roll it up from the bottom to keep the shape of the toothpaste intact? We call the person who grasps hard "puff" and the person who rolls up from bottom to top "um". "Po" tends to be more casual. They pursue a free, natural and comfortable way of life without restriction on details. This character can be called red. But "Hmm" tends to be strict in living habits, focusing on order, rules and order. When dealing with any problem you may think is minor, they are meticulous and strive for perfection. This character is blue.
Le Jia gave us the following examples:
Rockefeller, the oil magnate, taught his grandson how to do business. He said to his grandson, "There's a treasure chest in the attic. You take it down." Just as his grandson climbed the ladder to reach for the box, Rockefeller pulled the ladder away, and the child fell down and cried. Rockefeller said calmly, "Today is the first lesson I've taught you. It's to tell you not to trust anyone, including your grandfather!"
And a kid from a friend's house. Mother brought the fresh bone soup to the table. The child was clamoring for it. Mother said that she would drink it when it was cool. Children don't do it. Then Dad said to Mom, just let him drink. The child couldn't wait to take a bite and screamed loudly. Father then calmly said to the child, "Just taste is called hot!"Rockefeller and the boy's father are both typical yellow characters. Yellow personality pays attention to goals and results, and is very strong. They tend to be straightforward in educating their children: if you don't bother, you'll have a long memory if you experience the pain yourself.
Then, there is another kind of green personality. Take my brother for example. He's very "meat" in nature. I've never seen him get angry, but he's very lazy. Once I went to my brother's house and wanted to drink water. My brother said that the refrigerator Water filter was broken. I said I would fix it and call the after-sales service. But every other month, I went to my brother's house again, where the refrigerator Water filter was still broken. My younger brother said that when I had enough at work, I would not have to drink at home. It makes me laugh. I scolded him, but what he should be or what he should be.
I think of a couple who came to consult me again. Whirlpool water filter 4396841 broken at home, wife said you should change it, husband said good. But several times, my husband did not change. The wife had no choice but to buy and replace it herself.
My brother and this husband who is too lazy to change the water filter are obviously green characters. In life, they don't like to argue with others, but focus on the pursuit of harmony in interpersonal relations. The main characteristics are that small things become small and small things become small.
Which character is the best and which one is not?
In Lejia's view, there is no right or wrong character. Character can't decide fate. What really decides the fate of a person is personality. He believes that personality is innate, and personality is acquired. Character also does not have a single color, often red, yellow, blue and green, but a certain color in your character will play a leading role. Le Jia said that he was a red + yellow character.
You may say that the green character is the least ambitious person among the four personalities, lazy and slow, and out of time with the society, but the highest happiness index of the four personalities is green, such as Hong Qigong and the old naughty boy in The Heroes of Archery. Have you ever heard of couples who never quarrel? Some people say that it is impossible, in fact, it is entirely possible, this is the "green" husband "green" wife. To describe the love between husband and wife is to mention that they have the same eyebrows and respect each other as guests. The yellow character pursues perfection, makes the most money, but dies the fastest.
Some people read a lot of books to teach you how to get along with others. Why can't they solve practical problems? It's because you don't really know yourself and have no real insight into others that you don't step on the "dot" in interpersonal communication. Don't know what other people really need, often impose your own will on others. Although they dig their hearts and lungs, they do not exchange their understanding.
To cultivate one's personality, a key to unlock a lockWhen asked questions on the spot, a male audience asked Le Jia, "I get up early and greedy every day, in order to make my career more prosperous, but my wife has not understood me." When it comes to the choking voice in the emotional zone, to be frank, men shouldn't cry.
Le Jia enlightened him to say: It is an old idea that men should not flick with tears. Men can not find a way to vent, and may have more distress. You have to think about your lover, whether the current life is what she wants. For example, you now have 100,000 people, you want 10 million people, and your wife may feel that 100,000 people are already satisfied with their lives, so the differences between dreams and reality create conflicts. Maybe your wife wants 10 million dollars, but there's a lot to pay to get there. She'll think it's not worth it. So, you need to communicate with her more and understand what her inner needs are. To tell you the truth, I'm under a lot of pressure every day. I always wonder if all I'm doing is what I really need.
Lastly, Le Jia concluded that no matter how complex people are, there are always rules to follow. Learning personality color can help you see through yourself, see others, and cultivate personality. People with different personalities can cope effectively and get along with people with different personalities in harmony, so as to improve life and live happier.
