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@we-all--have-secrets
So proud of everyone who has left abusive, toxic, or unhealthy relationships. It’s not easy to do at all, and if you did that, you should feel so proud of yourself, instead of blaming yourself for how long it took you to. It’s an incredibly strong, brave and resilient thing to do.
when Charles Bukowski said "and when nobody wakes you up in the morning, and when nobody waits for you at night, and when you can do whatever you want. what do you call it, freedom or loneliness?"
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Love & Other Drugs (2010)
Stop blaming yourself for other people’s shitty doings to you.
They fucked up, not you.
warning signs of toxic, abusive friends
given events in my personal life, I made a list of red flags showing that one of your friends or several might be manipulative and abusive.
when you express the ways in which they have hurt you, they blame you, yell at you, and make you out to be the “problem”
they get upset for things you do but do those same things themselves, ie: hypocrisy
they treat you differently than other friends, ie: they’re meaner
if you’re always the one that reaches out to them and they tell you that you aren’t trying hard enough if you ever stop
they bail, ditch, or ignore events that are important to you
and get mad at you if you call them out on it
they use you to get things (money, gifts, attention) but never return the favour
they knit pick the smallest of issues and blow them out of proportion
they twist situations where they wronged you into you wronging them
they “team up” with other people against you, meaning they turn others against you
they never say sorry
when other people in your life don’t understand why they are angry with you, or actively tell you that you’re not doing anything wrong, ie: only the toxic friends are the ones that have these issues with you
they use your weaknesses to their advantage to harm you or win a fight
I know it’s hard, but run. they are not worthy of you, no matter what they trick you into believing.
you are not a broken mistake. you are not unworthy. other people will love you. they have convinced you of otherwise.
Because I toootally felt like collapsing in the middle of training today.. my body fucking hates me.
Having a mental breakdown because getting anywhere in life requires so much energy and knowledge and levels of functioning that I just don’t have.
i hope i make it. im rooting for myself.
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Sometimes I need everyone around me to validate that what I went through was in fact traumatic because I might feel like it wasn’t bad enough to still be so affected by it.
And that’s really fucked up.
“They turned her into a weapon and then complained when she learned to defend herself.”
—unintended consequences
