How to Revise Any Situation with SP —
Hello dolls! Major yap session ahead. I was looking through my feed and it seems a lot of people are discussing SP revision for some reason. I’d like to add my two cents in as well, maybe it’ll help someone!
Before we begin, let’s chat a bit…How are you feeling? Are you okay? You must acknowledge how you feel first before moving forward. Many people fake it or try to use repetition but it sometimes backfires on them because they still have a bad mindset deep down. It’s not even the mindset that really matters either, it’s the denial. That’s why I ask…how do you truly feel about yourself? If you feel bad, guilty, or anything negative, you must first accept that feeling. Accept it and then understand you don’t have to continue feeling this way. That’s the first step to achieving your goal. You can’t move forward if you don’t actually think you deserve to. It’s truly about how much you want it.
So how much do you want them? If it’s not that much, then I mean you can move on now and they’ll just chase back if you detach, all roads do in fact lead to you. However, if you’re not that great at detaching so quick, you can use these tips to get some clarity or even fix the situation itself. Whether it’s getting them back or even talking to them again, it’s all a possibility as long as you truly still want it for yourself. I also keep making this about you because it is! We often obsess over what the SP is feeling, how they’re thinking and what they’re even planning to do. We worry so much about this that we over complicate the desired outcome. Now everyone is different, but we are all still human so it’s okay, understand that these feelings are fine but these feelings aren’t permanent. Nor is the situation at hand.
You two may even be fighting, you could think they absolutely despise you the way they’re yelling or reacting…but that’s not the end. Not unless you want it to be. When you take a step back behind the chaos and take a few breaths, grounding yourself back, you realize how much control you still have when all you think is you’ve lost it all. Even if they’re yelling at your face, stare back blankly and ground yourself. Think in your head that this isn’t real, you will come out of this successful no matter what and how. Don’t worry about the details unless you want to sit there and script, that also works for many, but if you’re in a time crunch or you’re anxious, as most get, the best thing you can do is regulate yourself.
Don’t let things bring you down. Easier said than done right? Yes, I know, but would you rather double down on yourself and be your own enemy or would you at least give it a shot and see how it ends up even in the worst case scenario? Do you not deserve that shot? Or do you truly hate yourself that much. If so, then that’s another conversation and we have to go back to building back our self concept.
My point is, it’s quite easy to regulate any situation or revise something. An angry SP can turn into a loving one the next minute and apologize for things they just said they wouldn’t apologize for. Anything can happen, that person can come back, they can reach out or they can even fix things themselves and you don’t even have to lift a finger. It’s just about how much you want it for yourself and how much you think you deserve to live your desired life. If you doubt yourself, your power and your place in this world, then of course the results will be lacking, just as you lack in loving yourself. When you are so sure of yourself, your outcomes and your worth, you have no choice but to attract the attention and goal you desire.
So please, as you move forward and read through the endless advice on this app, as you listen to the subliminals and script…whatever you end up doing, just also remember that it’s about you, that you are whole with yourself and you’re meant for it, whatever that may be. I know everyone always says the power is within you and all that fancy stuff, but it’s true. I’m saying that too, but I’m also asking you these thought provoking questions because you should be as well before you begin anything. You should always truly be sure of yourself. It’s all about you! Now as you go on, keep this in mind and see how easily and fast things progress.
Here are a few affirmations from me, I’ll continue to affirm for every single person who needs, the more the merrier. Happy Tuesday <3
- You are so very worth it, you’re beautiful and perfect, simply amazing and thoughtful.
- You are one of a kind, irresistible and unforgettable.
- You are deserving of the life you want, a good life, full of love and fulfilled desires.
- As you continue along, your mental health is on your side, your anxiety is under control and you are your own fan!
- All outcomes are healthy, positive and meaningful to you.