One night's encounter - Douchebag Jerry Last year I went to a friends party, he just moved into this new place with a large backyard so everyone were to sit outside, near a bonfire, smoke weed and get drunk. They was one boy there, and yes, I'll call him a boy as he was quite younger than me ; 21, and I was 27. We started talking, conversation flowing very well in fact, and he was good looking, alcohol kicks in, bonfire next to us, everyone has gone to bed... Yes, it was a rather perfect opportunity! We started kissing, next thing my pants are off and his eating me out, doing a great job of it too! We have loud sex next to the fire, with only the stars as our witnesses. Now, this would've been a nice little story if it had just been left here.. But nah, Jerry was hooked, he wanted to see me again. He was sweet, extremely talented with his fingers, so thought why not. Two months later of fucktonnes of writing, cancelled dates and excuses, it's becoming clear this won't go anywhere. I've gotten to know him, actually started liking him, and now this? I told myself to have patience, so I waited, but all I got in return was silence and ' I'm so sorry, I know I'm being asshole '. He said he was dealing with depression etc, so you know, fair enough, I bought it. After a month of not hearing anything I assume whatever it was was dead, so I forget about him. Now, this year in March, I get a text from Jerry. He wants a chance to say sorry - 6 MONTHS LATER MATE?!? for the sake of being a nice person, and being curious, I said alright. He invited me out for coffee, cancels on the day, and next time too. Third and last chance, as we were talking me feeling slightly emotional, that time of the month sort of thing comes up, and he's like: What?? You have your period?? (let me just say again, this was just supposed to be a coffee) He then said, I know I'm gonna sound like a complete asshole, but I don't want to meet now, I can't deal with girls on their period, they are so emotional and can't be fucked dealing with that. Obviously, it turned into a fight where I essentially thanked him for showing me a second time what a douchebag he is, and what a waste of my time he was. So fuck you Jerry!