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30 AFAB NB switch │soft│sharp

[whitecat-enby]

You can call me A

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★ white cat energy with a black cat streak ☆

☆ t4t ★

★ switch ☆

☆ soft dom/brat ★

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★ A, they/them, 30, AFAB nonbinary ☆

☆ Decidedly queer, decidedly t4t, poly and demi ★

★ Predisposed toward being a soft dom or a brat depending on the other person in question, but fully capable of branching out. I can be very, very good if you earn it, and very, very mean if that's what you like ☆

☆ Just hoping to cultivate a safe, kinky space and interact with like-minded people. Happy to flirt, or chat, as anyone likes. Feel free to send through an ask or strike up a conversation; I only bite when it's playful or deserved ★

★ Poly but very much taken by my beloved boyfriend, and not currently looking for anything serious or romantic with anyone else. If a connection develops there will be conversation, off anon; otherwise, please keep it casual ☆

☆ t4t predominantly but open to cis women if we vibe. Strictly cismen don't do it for me; I recommend you look elsewhere. Come back if you start thinking gender thoughts though ★

★ This is a sideblog. If we're moots I'll let you know ☆

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Please no minors, this is clearly an 18+ blog. If you don't put your age in your bio I will block you. TERFs should know better than to try.

[shieldofiron]

Many people forget when writing bdsm that the dom also wants to get a good grade in dom. And is trying so hard and is often nervous about it.

[starqueensterlexa]

If you have ever known anyone with a kink for being hit, or beat up, or raped and you're okay with them, you also gotta be okay with the people who's kink it is to do the hitting, the beating, or the raping. At the end of the day, we're adults playing pretend, and that's it.

[starqueensterlexa]

With every single sub i have the first thing we ever do is establish the safe word (stoplight system), and the non-verbal safe word in case they can't talk for any reason. If I can't tell where the sub is at, I will ask them point blank what is their color, and if they can't give a response, we stop. The goal is to make the other person feel good, including pain, and the most important part us knowing your subs limits and LISTENING to them. I will *never* hurt a sub in a way that they have not explicitly expresssed interest in.

[steve-likes-robots]

Makes sense to me. The “getting hit” kink requires a “hitting” kink. It’s like Transformers. Megatron can’t exist without Optimus Prime.

[starqueensterlexa]

yes Steve, its exactly like Megatron and Optimus Prime from Transformers

[greenticklerdreams-deactivated2]

My Dom side is funny, because I'm actually a pretty insecure and indecisive person on my own, but put me in charge of someone else who needs me to take care of them? I totally lock in. Let me take charge. Let me make all the decisions. Let me handle it. I've got you. Whatever you need. It's so much easier when it's you and not me. I know exactly what to do when it's for you.

I crave that responsibility. It frees me. That's what you give to me, my darling. Your submission is my strength. Give me that power over you, and I will commit every fiber of my being to flooding your body with pleasure and wiping every worry and care from your pretty little head.

[winged-void]

it's so funny being possessive and yandere when you're poly.

"You're all mine," I say, lying.

[winged-void]

[bratcasket]

me and my vibrator are going to have a rlly important meeting about u later

[inbetwxt]

fuck, i need to get high w him n suck his cock so good his eyes roll back in his head n his hips start bucking up into my mouth bc he can't fucking help it

[userfish]

y’all wanna see some of the amazing instagram reels I get?

[userfish]

[userfish]

[melon-bunny]

oooooooh you wanna fuck me with my face shoved in a pillow soooooo baddddddddd…… you wanna pull me up and see how much i’ve drooled soooooOoOo badddd…….. you wanna hear my muffled noises while you slam into me SOOOoooo baddddd…..

[spinnyspinny]

Need a service top situation where they keep asking me if they’re doing good and gasping and whimpering and mewling and moaning into my ear and it’s so fucking noisy and they’re really embarrassed about it and they keep apologizing so I grab their neck to tell them to stop talking and get louder for me

[dommehour]

fuck comparing hand sizes compare your hands to my tits

[subeddiediaz]

He’s got those big wet eyes and you DONT wanna see him on his knees crying??

[b-yyearns]

hickies and bitemarks on thighs. thats it. thats the post.

[riggerwu]

[darkly-entries]

[iiiiiivk]

تجهيزات

[doctordaddys]

Let’s get you dressed for the party

[xlemonhoneyx]

I wish someone really did want to send me $2500/week 😔