So yesterday I was on Facebook and my oldest Brothers daughters profile popped up with a different last name other than her maiden name.
She did get married to a guy who turned out to be the world's worst jerk there is and then she changed to back her maiden name.
So I text her I said "you got married and I didn't know I wasn't invited to the wedding that's okay I see how it is and I don't need an apology"
She text back and said "I don't need an apology to anyone we didn't invite any extended family members to the wedding"
While I'm not mad at her because that's her right her choice.
I am upset that at least she could have said "hey I'm getting married it's going to be a very small wedding we're not inviting family members to the wedding because we can't afford a big wedding"
That would have been the proper thing to do that way no one would be upset because they didn't get invited and they wouldn't be upset because they do the reason they didn't invited.
So I got to thinking about it obviously my brother and his wife and their other children knew that she was getting married.
but yet nothing was said to me, I bet the other siblings heard they were getting married and got the proper excuse why they are not invited.
This is also been going on with my other brother's family his daughter got pregnant you know how I found out about that?
I happen to see that she put on her Facebook page a sonogram of her baby and that was a 4-month-old picture.
I didn't get notified of it I didn't get any pictures of the baby when it was born and I saw them all on their Facebook page
I done nothing wrong to deserve this treatment from my family other than wanting to be called a name I like that was similar to the name I was given (that I didn't like).
In which they still call me by the name I don't like even though I've told him about it over and over again
Oh and also I introduced a long lost cousin of our family. who was born into the family by my dad's twin sister, who she was made to give up because her parents wanted her to finish nursing school.
I have no regrets but accepting him into the family and when I did introduce him to the family no one wanted to talk to him no one wanted to talk to me they were all mad at me because they had a cousin they never knew of and then instead of accepting and loving him for being part of family member they shuned him.
Anyway so it looks like my family is actually turning their backs on me.
That's fine I don't need the stress I don't need the drama they have I don't need the disrespect they give me I don't eat any of that I've been doing very well on my own without them far back 10 years now.
that's right ..10 years ...no one's called me, no one's asking me out to do things with,no one wanted to do anything with me, I haven't received happy birthday cards notices calls whatever from them, I haven't received Merry Christmas wishes Thanksgiving whatever.
So I decided that I'm going to block everybody's number everybody nieces nephews my sister my older brother the only one who's going to be able to contact me for anything it's my brother John I was the closest to him
It hasn't been just 10 years it's been the whole life they didn't want to do anything with me grown up .. my mother had to make them take me places with them my mother had John include me with the dungeon and dragons games he played
My sister didn't want to do anything with me never I invited her to be my maid of honor because my mother said it was a proper thing to do I would never done it.
Every single dress I've been picked out she found fault with she didn't like that she didn't like that yet when I was her bridesmaid, I accepted the dress she picked out which was no frill along ugly Pepto-Bismol pink puffy sleeve dress.. it look gross....
I accepted it because it was her wedding and she should have gotten what you wanted.
But when it came to my wedding my opinions didn't matter my ideas didn't matter what I wanted didn't it matter it was all about her
I've been happy without all their drama I used to go to Christmas dinners and Thanksgiving dinners over at their houses only because mother and Daddy were there and I did let one of them know that the only reason that I was at the dinner was because of mother and Daddy
Now that they're gone I don't go to any of those dinners why why should I go to a dinner to be disrespected ignored or picked on??
I love my parents very much and I know I'll see them in heaven but my siblings I'm barely like them I probably won't get notified that any of them died either I'm the youngest of the family.
That's fine I'll read about it in the paper I guess or see it on their Facebook profile whatever died oh she had one tear I'm going to go on and live my life
Does that sound cool to you no I'm not cold I'm a very warm loving person but when I get a mistreated when I get pissed off I turn into a cold person only to that person will I be cold too and in this case I'm cold and my sister my older brother my younger brother he's okay
I love my cousins that have in Michigan and I love my cousin down in Florida
I don't need blood related siblings I have adopted sisters and adopted Brothers ooh the best friends I could ever have.
My parents can't be replaced they are were the best parents ever they taught me a lot and I can't wait to see them in heaven
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