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Christmas Pussy

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Dominant, or Domineering?

I was scrolling back through my archives and I came across an ask from another blog where someone was inquiring about signs that a man was not a Dominant, but simply domineering. I think it’s a really important, and very interesting question, and so I thought I’d like to take a stab at answering. There are a lot of posts out there about how to spot a real Dominant, but so long as there are subs out there struggling to tell the difference I think there can’t be too many.

To be domineering is to assert your will over another person in an aggressive or arrogant way. To be a Dominant is to be a caregiver. Someone who thrives on leading by gaining the trust and devotion of someone who wishes to follow. It sounds simple to tell them apart on paper, but reality isn’t always that black and white, and some people talk a really good game, so how can you tell the difference?

A domineering man will only make his rules all about his pleasure. They may read as a list of fetishes. He’s concerned about how often you shave your cunt, but not how often you see the doctor. A Dominant man will make rules for his pleasure, and your betterment. He cares about which panties you wear, but also how much sleep you get each night. He encourages you to have goals and helps you accomplish them through his rules.

A domineering man will not go out of his way to let you know that you are loved and cherished. His praise comes in the form of “you’re so hot when you do that”, and  “I love when you gag on me”. A Dominant man will make sure you know he respects you as a person and supports your accomplishments. “I’m so proud of you for interviewing for the promotion at work”, and “I appreciate that you tried, I know that was hard for you”.

A domineering man will not want to explain his decisions, or discuss his reasoning. He may become angry when you question him, and tell you that it’s not your place. A Dominant man is open to meta-talks. He will not allow you to question every tiny decision, but it’s important to him to address your concerns. He’s not afraid to share his thinking because he has your best interest at heart.

A domineering man doesn’t show interest in making decision that don’t affect him. He’ll choose your panties, but doesn’t really care when you ask him what you should do about that friend who is feeling neglected.  A Dominant man wants to help calm your mind, and is happy to help you make even mundane decisions. He has no problem choosing where to eat tonight, or telling you if you should accept the invite to that party.

A domineering man will be concentrated on making you the ‘perfect sub’. He may be overly concerned with your ability to deep throat and unreasonably strict with your diet and exercise program. A Dominant man accept and loves the person you are, and wants to help you meet your goals. He helps you with your diet because he wants for you to be healthy, not skinny, or because YOU expressed a desire for change.

A domineering man will limit your contact with others, especially others in the BDSM community. He’s scared you’ll find out that there’s more out there than what he’s offering. He’s jealous, and resents the time you spend with friends and family. A Dominant man know he can not be your everything and encourages you to learn. He recognizes the value of other relationship and only limits them when there are red flags, or past problems. He encourages you to learn and grow in your understanding of D/s relationships.

A domineering man demands. He raises his voice, doesn’t say please, and doesn’t thank you for the things you do. A Dominant man leads by making you want to follow. He knows that trust is earned and isn’t put off by the effort.

A domineering man gives his time only when it is convenient for him to do so. Domineering man isn’t concerned with calming you before a medical procedure or exam. He cancels plans with you when something better to do comes up. A Dominant man makes you a priority. He sets aside his plans to care for you when you are in need. That doesn’t mean he drops everything because you want company, but when you’re genuinely having a hard time you don’t have to question if he’ll be there for you.

Do all domineering men do all of the things I stated? No, it’s not that simple, but they’re good reference points. It’s about intent. A domineering man is out to fulfill his own desires, and a Dominant man gains his pleasure from successfully providing for the needs and desires of both parties. Will Dominant men sometimes say the things domineering men do? Yes! But domineering men will not also behave as Dominant men do, because Dominant men have broader goals. A Dominant man will but his desires above yours, but he will never put his desires above your needs.

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Dominant men have patience, a work ethic, and a sense of forward thinking in the management of their own lives that domineering men usually lack. It’s not normally a difference that can be spotted immediately or from the surface, unfortunately. An interested submissive will have to get to know a man’s intent and maybe even some of his history instead of merely observing action/behavior/physical appearance alone. This takes time and effort. This is why vetting is important.  For instance…both a domineering man and a dominant man could be super into physical fitness. Maybe even both of them seem a little vain about it.  Through (careful, guarded) interaction with them about their focus on diet and exercise (their OWN, not yours…they aren’t your dominant yet…please don’t ask/let a man be your dominant without knowing them on at least a greater than superficial level first), a submissive can get context for why they focus on it. His replies to comments like, ‘So I guess you work out a lot,’ will reveal these things.  A domineering man wants to look good to get dates; wants to be strong to intimidate or overpower or impress. He places a heavy value on his appearance and how he presents to other people and will probably place yours at a premium too. He’ll value your surface over your substance because he values his surface over his substance. He likes showing off and outdoing other people at the weight stacks. He likes bragging about how many races he’s run and how many people he bested when he ran them. He likes comparing himself to other people to show he’s superior. He likes showing off his body for the praise of how it looks. He wants accolades for the results, even if his ‘results’ are attained by unhealthy practices like taking anabolic steroids or malnutrition or he’s using photo editing software on his selfies. He’ll be disappointed if his selfies don’t get his requisite positive attention.  A dominant man, completing the same rigid personal program, who has the same six-pack abs and bench press number, and maybe even the same penchant for taking a lot of selfies, will more likely talk about how he used to feel weak/was unhappy with how his clothes fit/had a specific health issue/has a family history of a certain health issue, and decided to improve himself/give himself more options/be proactive about his future health prognosis. He might talk about races he’s run, but he’ll say he does this half marathon every year for <charity> because his childhood best friend had <disease> and it raises money for research. He’ll talk about being driven to accomplish goals and see results and he likes the tangibility of how much weight he can lift or beating his last run time/increase his weekly distance. He only compares himself to his former self. He likes the praise he gets for *how much dedication and self-control it took to achieve the look.* The accolades he wants the most are the ones about *his hard work.* And maybe, he won’t even want praise. He might just want a document of his progress for his own reference.

Often the differences are very subtle from the surface, but they are glaring on the inside of a relationship. 

[instructor144]

I miss pleasurewhore so much.

[female-orgasm-denial]

This is an important and well written list.

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Dating a fuckpig

I’m tired of “dating” men.  I think that before I accept another date, I need to send them the link to my tumblr page, so that they know how to treat me.  I don’t want anyone wasting time or money on me, when it’s really not necessary.  So, here are some guidelines for taking me out. 1.  Don’t be on time to pick me up.  In fact, don’t even come to the door.  Arrive ten minutes late, park around the corner and text me when I should meet up with you. 2.  Don’t compliment me.  Yes, I spent a long time to look beautiful for you, I went to a lot of effort to make every detail perfect.  However, you shouldn’t have to bother telling me anything.  I’m needy and pathetic, and when you don’t tell me that I’m sexy, it makes me want to work harder to get you to feel that way. 3.  Don’t buy me a drink.  I’ve got a good job, I’ve got my own money, make me buy my own fucking drinks.  The only time you should ever bother getting me a drink, is if you want to slip me something in it. 4.  Don’t buy me dinner.  I’ll have been starving myself so that you’ll fuck me in the ass.  I’ll also want to have an empty stomach for when you’re having me gag on your cock. 5.  If you get a boner, you should cum.  Use any of my holes, or take a hand job, but don’t let an erection go to waste. 6.  Speaking of waste, your time and your desires are important and should not be wasted.  Anything that you want, is on the table.  Don’t worry about offending me, just take whatever you want.  Yes, I’ll do anal on the first date, I’ll go ass to mouth, I’ll eat out your asshole, I’ll drink your piss….I’ll fulfill any sexual desire, because I’m a worthless cock sleeve and I need to be debased in order to exist. 7.  Actually, don’t refer to any time that you spend using me as a “date”.You’re just going to use me and forget about me until you need to empty your balls again.  I’m good with that, so please don’t care about me. 8.  Don’t open my door, don’t ask me about my day, don’t treat me with respect, and don’t show me any kindness at all.  I’m a slab of fuck meat, and should be treated as such. 9.Never, ever, EVER apologize for anything.  I’m meant to be used hard, and there’s nothing you can do that would ever require you saying that you’re sorry to me. 10.  If you don’t agree with these suggestions, please move on to another cunt

[windyhomme]

Girl's tip for a perfect "date"

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@TIME

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@theladyjanedoe

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Let’s talk money. I’m not shy.

I am thirty years old and I make 50k/year. I am LUCKY to have a contract offering that much in education, y'all. Not actually lucky; I just mean by comparison… and I’ve worked my ass off to get here. I’m at one of the highest paid districts in my state. Yes, really. I have a BS in Secondary Education w/ a focus in social sciences, a BA in History, and a Masters in Educational Administration. This salary/schedule only works for me because I have no children and a hella sweet mortgage payment. But I also have student loan & credit card debt, plus my car payment, insurance and other adult-y things. The thing that helps me put the most though? I live in one of the most inexpensive areas in the United States. I get by comfortably and for that I am grateful.

I work 7am-7pm most days in the spring. Currently, I coach our boys and girls soccer team and we average about 3 games a week EACH. I also, and more importantly, teach 6 classes a day; my largest group of 8th graders has 36 children in it.

I have doubled my salary since 2014. I have taught at 3 schools. I have truly been blessed with some amazing mentors and colleagues. Most teachers have not been so fortunate. What will I do if I ever really need to change my life? I’ve been asking myself that for the last 6 years …

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+1

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This should be considered prim proper conservative attire for any cunt that is out in public.

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Inktober, Sveta Shubina

[windyhomme]

cute

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要高潮就要吃排泄物的調教

禁慾了一星期的小桃，懇求主人給小桃高潮。

主人有個想法 …. 要小桃變成吃排泄物才能有高潮的低賤廁奴 … 

這一夜，小桃先排便到鐵碟中，然後小心地準備四份「食物」。

一，將一小匙糞便掍入牛奶中…. 看上去像朱古力奶…

二，將一小匙糞便塗上餅乾上

三，準備一小匙的糞便

四，準備一大匙的糞便

小桃然後將之前排出來的尿液，大約 500ml 吧，加入 1.5L 温水，都灌進肛門，用大號肛門塞塞著。

然後赤祼的跪在地上，開始用震動器自慰。

小桃禁慾了整個星期，敏感的陰蒂很快就讓小桃接近高潮。但主人的命令是： 先自慰 5 分鐘，不能高潮。

然後小桃想繼續自慰的話，就要把食物逐一吃掉。1 和 2 可以自慰多 2 分鐘，3 和 4 可以多 3 分鐘。可以任何時間，還是不能高潮。

在高潮邊緣的小桃，一邊要忍著肚子中的絞痛，一邊被興奮的感覺迷惑著腦子，5 分鐘很快過去，小桃咬一下咀唇，一口喝下混了糞便的奶。額外的兩分鐘很快又過去，小桃為了得到一點點接近高潮的快感，把糞便餅乾也吃下了。

又過了兩分鐘，小桃也不相信自己，明知沒有高潮的機會，竟然甘願一口一口的把糞便送入口中。小桃將小匙的糞便都吃進口中。糞軟軟的，但味道很強烈。小桃一邊嘗試吞下糞便，一邊要不浪費時間自慰。小桃要差不多一分鐘才能吞下糞便。享受多兩分鐘的接近高潮的挑逗後，又是決擇的時候了。

小桃已經被脹脹的肚子和得不到的性興奮虐待得迷迷糊糊，想到肚子中滿滿尿液，胃中已經吞下了不少糞便，現在還主動申手去把大匙的糞便送到口中 … 為的是繼續去虐待挑𢭃小桃自己低賤的身體 … 

這一匙糞便真的很大，小桃花了整整兩分鐘才能吞下 …. 小穴雖然沒被抽插，但已經把地下弄濕了一大片。很多次小桃都要將震動器拿開，才避免高潮 … 

很快時間完結了。小桃沒有得到高潮。但卻被這個調教弄得佷想很想要 … 但小桃是賤性奴 …然後乖乖地到浴室，排走灌腸液，練習跟假陽具深喉 … 深喉時反胃嘔吐出來的 … 是混和了糞便的胃液 … 

小桃將慢慢地用手，無意式地將這些糞便胃液塗在乳房，肚皮，大腿上 … 好像有一點點的快感 … 

這樣低賤的小桃主人喜歡嗎？

[mai8chan]

Norio Sugiura

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Animals Dropping the Hottest Albums of the Year (via Star-spangled-Banner)

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I would buy these albums.

[femsubdenial]

The above link will cause a flurry of images I’ve reblogged to flash on your screen. If you have epilepsy, move on, do not click. Otherwise, choose a mantra you love, one that turns you on (I like “Good tease toys need to cum”), click, close the sidebar using the “close” link at the top, stare, and edge while repeating your mantra until your brain is mush.

I was going to add that if you are on edge and saying your mantra when, say, five spirals are shown in a row, then you may reward yourself with an orgasm, but then I realized how fucking misguided that is, because that hazy, desperate feeling is its own reward, isn’t it, toy? We don’t want to ruin all that fun with an orgasm when you could instead do it all over again the next day and make that hazy feeling even more intense. Let’s make it better instead of take it away and call it a reward, hmm? Save something that makes you feel even more subby, like pulling on your nipples, or the mental image of someone chuckling at your whimpers or growling “don’t cum, toy”, and only give that to yourself when you see three spirals in a row, both as reward and to better associate spirals with that feeling of dropping, down, deeper, into that aroused haze, knowing that good tease toy need to cum.

Update July 2018: Thanks to @girlsgoontoo for permission to include her tumblr in the link!

[femsubdenial]

It takes longer to load, now, but it still works!

Tell you what… if you are on the edge when a spiral comes up… not just some image that also has a spiral but a full-on gif… then you may cum if the next three in a row are also spirals AND you can cum quickly.

Either way, if you start with the intention of cumming if allowed, whether or not you cum, change your mind, or stop, from then on you’ll need five in a row, not four.

Until then, let the spirals be reminders to keep edging, giving yourself a break by gooning your mind away until you no longer notice or care if they might appear several times in a row, you just want to rub yourself into a hazy state that gets better and better when you don’t cum.

[femsubdenial]

The above link will cause a flurry of images I’ve reblogged to flash on your screen. If you have epilepsy, move on, do not click. Otherwise, choose a mantra you love, one that turns you on (I like “Good tease toys need to cum”), click, close the sidebar using the “close” link at the top, stare, and edge while repeating your mantra until your brain is mush.

I was going to add that if you are on edge and saying your mantra when, say, five spirals are shown in a row, then you may reward yourself with an orgasm, but then I realized how fucking misguided that is, because that hazy, desperate feeling is its own reward, isn’t it, toy? We don’t want to ruin all that fun with an orgasm when you could instead do it all over again the next day and make that hazy feeling even more intense. Let’s make it better instead of take it away and call it a reward, hmm? Save something that makes you feel even more subby, like pulling on your nipples, or the mental image of someone chuckling at your whimpers or growling “don’t cum, toy”, and only give that to yourself when you see three spirals in a row, both as reward and to better associate spirals with that feeling of dropping, down, deeper, into that aroused haze, knowing that good tease toy need to cum.

Update July 2018: Thanks to @girlsgoontoo for permission to include her tumblr in the link!

[femsubdenial]

It takes longer to load, now, but it still works!

Tell you what… if you are on the edge when a spiral comes up… not just some image that also has a spiral but a full-on gif… then you may cum if the next three in a row are also spirals AND you can cum quickly.

Either way, if you start with the intention of cumming if allowed, whether or not you cum, change your mind, or stop, from then on you’ll need five in a row, not four.

Until then, let the spirals be reminders to keep edging, giving yourself a break by gooning your mind away until you no longer notice or care if they might appear several times in a row, you just want to rub yourself into a hazy state that gets better and better when you don’t cum.

[666convict]

[windyhomme]

桀骜不驯的婊子

[monkeygiraffe767]

3p怎么玩？性爱达人手把手教你

       1、 参加的两个男人中要有一个自己熟悉并喜欢的男人,你可以选择男友、情人或丈夫(下面我就姑且称为丈夫),这样不光有安全感,主要是自己的丈夫了解自己、知道自己的性格和喜好,便于活跃气氛、默契配合、完美协调.另一位男士最好是个健康陌生的男人,这样安排是避免出现节外生枝,事后各走各的,不仅便于保护隐私也会避免不必要的感情瓜葛.        2、 不要刻意的单纯的追求三P性爱方式,否则的话会弄巧成拙事倍功半.在取得和自己丈夫的支持和配合的前提下,最重要的第一步是共同摆脱心理和精神方面的压力,选择轻松自然循序渐进的步骤节拍,顺水推舟水到渠成.比如真正进行之前,三人在一起吃一顿饭,一起酒吧聊聊天,一起玩一次有趣的体育运动,或一起户外游玩一次,彼此增进一些了解认识,更重要的是通过自己的丈夫将女方的要求和喜好传递给陌生的男人.        3、 选择好安全舒适温馨的三P环境;自己有一套独立的住房是首选,其次是借用朋友的住房,三是选择一个僻静的旅游地宾馆,最好是家庭式独立小店或农家小院.切忌在夜总会包间、桑那中心或普通宾馆旅店等陌生嘈杂的公共场所.        4、 酒能助兴,即便你从来都是滴酒不沾,不妨选择一些口味清淡软绵的香槟或红酒,面颊微热展露红润适可而止,不要酩酊大醉,三人在一起喝些酒聊天的同时欣赏优美的音乐或影视节目是最好的前奏之一.良好的氛围,是增强三P做爱情趣的关键.        5、 在喝酒聊天到两三个小时后,酒精的作用也开始渐渐挥发,当感觉面颊微微有些燥热的时候,最好依偎在丈夫的怀里,用自己的眼神和你温柔手提示他你此刻需要他的爱抚.      

       6、 前期的准备工作关键要看丈夫的能力和表现了,酝酿出这种气氛不是一件简单的事情,机不可失时不再来,女士应把握好这种机遇,此刻可提示丈夫到卫生间一起洗澡,注意是提示和丈夫两人一起去,不是三人一同前往,这样能自然铺垫好做爱前的准备工作.第一次与陌生男人做爱尽量避免直入正题,更不要在没有性爱前戏的情况下与第三者共浴,尽量避免一切不自然的尴尬的情况出现.        7、 先挑起自己与丈夫的爱欲,这项工作最好先是在两个人的情况下进行.当沐浴后的女人如出水芙蓉,再穿上性感暴露一些的服装,加之与丈夫两人在洗浴间的一些爱抚和挑逗,此刻回到三人世界的客厅时,双方应继续保持这种亲昵的举动,这是一种提示信号,也是在当众煽情,坐在旁边的另一个男人该有所准备了,此刻他应起身离开,最好单独到洗浴间洗个澡,是最好的选择.        8、 女士在洗浴中一定要洗头发,不要全吹干,吹七成干有性感,不要用普通的洗头液要用散发植物香味的香波洗发,洗身子也要用有自然香味的专用洗浴液来洗,这样皮肤清香光滑,洗浴前一定要大小便一次,最好用专用的阴道清洗液将阴道里面清洗好,尽可能排除一切可能异味,很多女子不注重清洗肛门里面,简单的办法是将肥皂涂满无名指伸进肛门里面反复旋转抽插清洗(也可用光滑干净的薄丝绵沾满肥皂裹在手指上深入),手指尽可能伸至最里面,直至手指无异味再用洗面奶或护肤膏之类的润滑奶质品涂在肛门里面,这样不但干净润滑而且还有香味,如果女士阴毛较浓密,也要修剪一下,最好将大阴唇两边以及会阴肛门周围的阴毛刮干净,阴部不可喷沙过多的香水,更不可将香水喷在阴道里面,因为有些男人对香水味特敏感,有的人舔闻过重香水味会呕吐的,此外,过重的香水味与阴水味道交织在一起会产生更难闻的怪味,也会破所以涂抹香水可用手指蘸一点香水点在阴毛上和会阴部即可.        9、 当一个女人的爱欲被唤起的时候也是心理防线最脆弱的时候;当与男人拥在一起相互亲吻抚摸,除了舌头深入彼此口中的深吻外,多数女士喜欢男的舔吻其的脖子和耳唇和乳房,女士上半身还有几个部位也是最敏感,最适合三P时爱抚,那就是耳朵、腋窝、锁骨窝、大腿内侧、脚趾、小腹,三P做爱一定先从女方的上半身开始.        10、 在爱抚女方上半身中其中三个方法最让女士消魂;一是女方上半身裸露身体放送两眼闭上平躺在床上,两个男士一左一右侧身躺在其两边,一起轻轻的舔吻她的耳唇和耳后根,然后两个男士再慢慢地将她的整个耳朵含在口中,开始一左一右用舌尖舔她的耳朵眼和耳朵弯穹的的沟壁,舌尖尽量往她的耳朵眼里面伸,舔吻的时候做到轻柔滚动,左右两边要同步进行,口含耳朵的时候不易时间过久,时而松开口将舌尖滑向其经部或耳后部舔吻.      11、 爱抚女士中的另一个方式是,将女方的双臂平放在其头上,男士各抓住其一边的手臂,这样既有控制感和侵略感,女方也有一种被控制感和被强暴的感觉,此时两个男士一左一右开始舔吻她的腋窝,以腋窝为中心舌尖可不断的滑向其手臂和肋骨处,这样粗暴的姿势中充满温柔,强暴的意念中充满着温馨.      12、 爱抚女士中的第三个方式;两男士还是一左一右在其两边抚摸亲吻她的乳房,一上去就直接含着乳头是愚蠢的办法,要慢慢的挑逗她,才能激起她更强烈的欲望;简单的办法就是"围攻打援"用手指轻轻滑动她的乳房边缘的同时舌头从她的乳沟开始舔动,当她的双手一边一个开始抚男的头时,正是她迫切需要亲吻她的乳头之时,此刻女人突升一种征服男人的欲望,当看着两个男人向小孩子一样伏在写入方上舔吃乳头时,这种视觉冲击比闭眼享受简单的乳房刺激更令女士消魂.        13、 以上这种双重的舌唇攻略同样也可运用到女士的大腿内侧和其双脚,不要忽视女士的双脚,舔吻女士的双脚同样令女士感到刺激消魂,方法是;其一用舌尖舔动其脚心;其二是用舌尖舔动其脚指头缝隙;其三是用整个嘴将其五个脚指都含在口中后用舌头在其脚指上舔动;其四是用嘴挨个吮吸其脚指头;与舔吻其上半身不同的是,此时可换一种方式,即两男士的嘴同时舔吻其一只脚,如可同时吮吸其大拇指已与小拇指.有过此体验的女性大都认为这比单纯地抚摸亲吻其大腿还刺激.        14、 退其内裤,分其双腿,攻其花心;首先要让她的神秘小穴自然的呈现在陌生男人的面前挑起性欲;这步棋应该安排自己的丈夫去做,当平平静静地做好这一步后,再将女方下面的事交给陌生的男士来做,为了消除女方的害羞和紧张的心理,此时丈夫最好伏在女方的上半身将其紧紧的搂在怀里,一手抚摸着她的头发一手抚摸着她的胸,一边亲吻她的嘴唇一边小声说些关爱她的话,这样她就会有一种安全感,身体会自然放松,这为陌生男人的攻击敞开了大门.      15、 赏穴是门艺术,不少淫友有很多这方面的精辟论述,但三P赏穴的却不同与普通赏穴,这里贵在评穴;评穴可不是品尝穴,当陌生男人趴在女人下面,丈夫应该扮演总指挥的角色,将她的阴穴掰开让陌生的男人伏在她的下面观赏的同时,两个男人尽情的来评论眼前的尤物,诸如丈夫可询问陌生男其女友的阴毛稀疏曲直、阴唇薄厚颜色、尿道宽窄位置、处女膜分布形状,阴蒂头大小光泽、阴道深浅松紧、子宫颈光滑圆润、屁眼皱纹漂亮程度如何等;也可询问想不想摸摸她的阴唇、想不想舔一舔她的阴蒂、想不想操她的屄等,此时评者是干柴烈火,听者是欲火中烧;然后再问他想不想尝尝她阴水的味道,届时陌生的男人一定是手揉动着梆梆硬的阴茎张着流口水频频点头应是,此时此刻女的也知道该怎么做了吧?但是一定记着自己用手指蘸阴水喂他吃的时候,别忘了下面有两个嘴张着等吃呢,聆听俩个男人评说自己阴水的味道该是另一种消魂的享受吧……        16、 舔穴最消魂刺激的是两个男人一起来舔,两人同时舔不仅要要掌握好角度,还要配合默契,用交叉轮换的方法是一人可配合分腿掰穴;用蚕食和分蛋糕的方法是一人舔阴蒂一人舔屁眼同时进行.姿势是:将平躺的女士双腿分开臀部托起,身子形成一个弯弓形,一男在臀上一男在臀下两头要交叉平行进行;不光用舌尖舔还要会用嘴来吸,不光要吸她的阴蒂头和阴道口,还要用嘴嘬住她的屁眼吸,在吸她的屁眼时,吸的越猛烈吸、的声音越响、越是要吸出来什么东西她越会感到兴奋异常,如果女的屁眼有痔疮,千万别忌讳,这是难得的刺激点,如果有内痔,可想法将它轻柔的吸出来,然后再用柔软湿润的舌头舔动痔豆,对女的来说也是极大的快感刺激方式.        17、 女的为男人们口交的最佳性爱姿势:一男在女士下面形成69式口交姿势,男的头和屁股各垫上枕头或被褥等将两部位抬高,这种姿势较常见在此不再赘说;另一个男的应平躺在对面男士的正前方,分开的双腿分别压在下面男士的腿上,将阴茎紧挨在另一个男士的阴茎,两个阴茎挨的越近越好,这样女士面前耸立着两个阴茎,对女士来讲有着极强的视觉上的冲击力,她会情不自禁的握住两个阴茎;值得一提的是,丈夫最好在女的下身位置,陌生的男士仰躺在女士的正面,因女友背对着丈夫会使其看不到女的面部而减轻彼此的心理压力,两个男人的视线也因被女的身子遮挡自然会减少两男面面相觑的尴尬情况出现.      18、 女的为两个男人口交时避免长时间为一个口交而忽略了另一个,男人在性爱时自尊心是很强的,有时也显得很脆弱,要公平分享一视同仁,即便是用嘴亲吻一个阴茎时也不要忘了另只手套动另一个男人的阴茎,女的可一手把玩一个阴茎仔细对比欣赏,也可把两个耸立的阴茎紧贴在一起舌头同时舔吻两个,也可将两个龟头紧贴在一起同时含在口中舌头在两个龟头上旋转,也可揉动两个阴茎的同时舌头在两个阴茎当中滑动,男人被口交时不喜欢女的将唾液故意吐出来,即便不喜欢男人阴液的味道可让口中的唾液自然的流到男人的阴茎上,因为女的在两个阴茎的上方,嘴只要轻微的张开唾液会自然的流到应尽的下面,这样即不失雅观又皆大欢喜.      19、 三P性交中常见的是一人插阴道,一人插其嘴,如果是真正三P爱好者,丈夫搂着爱妻抚摸着她的秀发,观赏她被其他男人抽插时的兴奋表情,聆听她淫浪叫声和呻吟也是一种极大的满足,如果她是个厌烦精液味道也从不接受丈夫在口中射精的女人,此时是最佳时机,可趁机骑在她前胸将阴茎对着她的嘴自慰,待高潮临近时命令她张开嘴伸出舌头,尽情的往她口中射精,甚至命令她喝下,请放心此时此刻她会超乎寻常的配合你的需要.因为再温柔贤惠和保守的女人,一旦阴道被阴茎插入抽动,她的意志即丧失精神恍惚,大脑会一片空白,平常夫妻做爱妻子为丈夫口交时,因阴道得不到强烈的冲击,头脑较清洗理智,会有自制能力,除非她也非常喜欢口交不忌讳精液的味道,否则妻子是很难接受口中射精的.如果喜欢看陌生男人往她口中射精,角色调换一下即可,如果两个男人分别往她口中射精,别忘了两个男人配合好,不管谁先射精,女方的阴道最好是在强烈的受冲击的状态下进行.        20、 三P游戏中另一个常见的性交方式是性交和肛交同时进行,姿势是一男在下面仰卧,女的爬在其上身将阴茎送入阴道,另一男的在女的屁股后插其菊花.这里需要注意的是,如果女士不是肛交爱好者,即便从没有过肛交经历,女人的肛门像阴道一样弹性很大,容下普通的阴茎没有任何问题,关键是要有科学的方法和技巧,首先在肛交之前要长时间多用嘴、舌、手指刺激和扩充她的肛门,这样一是为了从精神上放送她的恐惧感,二是肛门长时间被手指控重后,神经末梢麻木,肛门收缩肌松懈,便于更粗大的阴茎进入,其次是用口液或阴液(用专用的润滑液更好)润滑肛门,尤其是肛门里面要多浸入这些液体,为插入时减少磨擦疼痛,做好一切便利的条件.肛交时最困难的第一步龟头进入,即便龟头已经进入切忌一下子就猛烈插入里面,要将龟头拔出来,在龟头上再涂满一次润滑液,同时也往肛门里面再送入一些润滑的液体后再插进去,如此反复3-5次后再渐进的插入肛门深处,在真正插入肛门深处之前,插阴道的阴茎应停止抽动并将阴茎往外拔,龟头卡在处女膜处较易,此时两个龟头一个卡在阴道口一个卡在肛门外,女的突然会产生强烈的空虚感,急切盼望被插入,此时插阴道的阴茎谦让给插屁眼的阴茎,待肛交的阴茎完全插入后,再开始阴道的抽插.切记两个阴茎的活塞抽动节拍要协调频率要同步,最好是应节奏明快交替抽插进行,否则配合不当女方的小腹会有肿胀的疼痛感,而且长时间不会消除.这种性交方式最好女方来决定谁插那个部位,经过前面的性爱方式后,女方应很清楚两个阴茎的长短粗细情况,将粗大的阴茎安排插菊门,可不是明智的举措,其实办法很简单,你准备趴在哪个男人的身上就已经决定两个阴茎的各自分工.        21、 两棒对一穴是女的最喜欢的方式之一,姿势和上面的一样也可侧身躺下,男的从前后不同方向攻击,只是两个阴茎抽插一个地方,这种方式一般女的能达到多次高潮,方法有几种,其中之一是交替插入法;由女方掌握主动权,只要屁股略微一抬高压在身下的阴茎就会自然拔出,站在后面的男士可及时的从其后背插进去,当身子再往下移动一下就拔出后面阴茎又交给下面的阴茎了,每个阴茎的抽插时间最好掌握在半分钟之内,时间过长让某个男人射了精就不好玩了,当然不能机械的照搬,如果感到某个阴茎突然撞击的猛烈这是高潮前兆,应阻止其攻击马上将其拔出交给另一个阴茎来抽插,这样女方能长时间不间断的被抽插,无形中延长了做爱的时间,同时也让男的有休息的时间抑止其过早射精,为女方创造了多次高潮的机会.如果女方也是阴蒂高潮型的不妨一个阴茎在插阴道的同时,用手握住另一个阴茎来刺激阴蒂,当女性用男人的龟头来刺激阴蒂时比男士用手摸阴蒂快感更强,弄不好还会再来个阴蒂高潮.当下面的阴茎在抽插阴道时,后面的阴茎也可在其屁股沟上磨擦,同时扣摸她的屁眼或双手玩拍打着她的屁股也不失为一种强烈的快感刺激.        22、 同样是这种性交姿势插一个穴,两个阴茎也可同时插入一个阴道中;这要两个阴茎的角度尽量平行,此时的阴道会胀的满满的,如果感到有种被撕裂的疼痛感,可告诉一个男人将放在阴道中的阴茎停止抽动或适当调校一下角度,仅靠一支来抽动缓解一下,因阴道被两个阴茎填充着,阴茎明显感觉阴道比以往紧实很多,加之阴道壁的磨擦被另一个阴茎占据着,这无形中也增加了三方的磨擦强度和刺激程度,即便是同时在阴道中抽插多数女士还是喜欢阴茎交叉着抽送,即当一方刚刚抽出至阴道口时另一个阴茎马上插入阴道深处;不同于前面的是,两个阴茎不需拔出阴道便在之中交叉抽动,如果按照平时一个阴茎正常的抽动频率来抽动的话,女的此时感受的抽插频率比平时高一倍,当然这种快感程度也会得成倍提升.    女的选择此种方式让男的高潮射精是上策,如果两个阴茎同时射精更是上上之策略,这将是一次完美的三P性爱.其实做到男人们同时在一个阴道中射精也不难,这需要两个男人高度默契的配合,两人要边抽插边商量,如果一方要想射了尽量自我控制一下,用停止抽动或放慢节拍等一下另一个男的,当两人都感到要射精的时候,要打破以往有节奏的抽插频率,一起猛烈用力往里面插,女的此时也要密切配合好,将姿势校正的更容易他们抽插,不要感到出现一些疼痛就甩屁股闪屌,要知道享受这种体验可是千载难逢百年不遇的吆,当你叫床的呻吟变成疯狂的喊叫时,你是在为他们呐喊助威,下面的男人在疯狂的往上顶的同时,要双手紧紧的抓住她的头发不惜其如何疼痛也要把她的头抓起,后面的男人在往里猛撞的同时双手狠狠的拍打她的屁股,不惜将她的屁股拍出手印也要疯狂宣泄,当两个阴茎争先恐后的往子宫颈上喷射的时候,女人,此时升天吧!

[amysubmits]

My Dom Shows Me Respect By...

Hearing me out even when he disagrees with me.

Backing off when I say something is really too much.

Keeping his ego in check when making decisions for us. 

Respecting my limits.

Loving me for being me.   

Handling tough discussions with care and a calm tone of voice. 

Being my safe place. 

Staying on top of his responsibilities within our relationship.

Seeing value in my personality, including the soft, cautious and sensitive parts.

Double-checking his views or decisions if I voice concerns.

Following the D/s hierarchy. 

Recognizing and accepting our differences. 

Working hard to earn my trust. 

Holding me accountable. 

Understanding that somedays submission is hard. 

Using D/s to help me grow in ways I find meaningful.  

Believing in me.

Showing up to support, guide, or discipline me as needed, even when it’s hard.  

Trusting that I am trying even when I fall short. 

Giving me boundaries. 

Protecting my sensitive heart. 

Being patient with me. 

Setting goals for me that are achievable. 

Building me up. 

Considering his impact on me. 

Trusting me. 

Being dedicated to me. 

Encouraging me to say ‘no’ when I need to. 

Doing his best to make the best decisions. 

Staying loyal to me.

Speaking kindly of me.  

Advocating for what is best for me. 

Caring about my pleasure. 

Being clear about what he expects from me. 

Analyzing his perspectives, beliefs, and actions regularly. 

Being open and honest with me.

Forgiving me when I make mistakes.

Viewing us as a team.

Keeping his promises and commitments. 

Remembering the value of my submission. 

[windyhomme]

好s

[lewdbitchgirl-deactivated201802]

真的很欠幹，下次勾引路人回家叫他幹你好了

比較喜歡路人直接拖我去幹噎～

[windyhomme]

现实中发生过吗