Residency Agreement for My Wife's Boyfriend:
As I've mentioned in several of my posts, my wife's Boyfriend moved in with us, on a full-time basis, not too long ago. He wanted some legal protections before deciding to do so. So, I had legal paperwork drawn up outlining his residency status, along with our living arrangements. He is granted FULL legal rights as a resident of our home for a period of one year, at which point his contract will be renewed in 5 year increments thereafter if things are still going well with them. My wife and her Boyfriend have legal rights to our Master Bedroom suite, while I'm assigned to one of our guest bedrooms. In this contract, I must knock and receive permission before entering the Master Bedroom suite. My wife agreed to remain sexually exclusive to him while he lives lives with us (with sexually exclusive being defined as penetrative sex). She is permitted to engage in other sexual activity with me at her discretion. She is also permitted to have sex with other men, with his approval, just not me (as one of the residents of the home). I agreed to be kept in chastity for as long as he continues a sexual relationship with my wife. Her Boyfriend is designated "Head of our Household" and given full authority for making all major household decisions, to include the assigning of chores, etc. I will pay for all normal household operating expenses, and must seek his approval before spending more than $1000 for any given personal expenses. At the end of his one year of residency mark, he will be added to our deed, 3rd in order, for as long as he remains in a sexual relationship with my wife. I agreed to this because he's going to be the biological father of our children. Our contract gets pretty detailed, but He and my wife wanted it that way. We also have a procedure that outlines out to handle any disputes that may arise. If any given matter cannot be agreed upon by all parties, the matter is decided by the "majority rule". This is a REALLY weird/odd situation for me, as I'm an Alpha male, too...but now I must submit to his authority in OUR home! That said, with my background, I understand order, structure, and "place". So far, everything seems to be going great, and I've never seen my wife more happy! He HAS gotten a lot more possessive of her since moving in with us, full-time, but I guess that's bound to happen. I'm still in shock that I just got through agreeing to an arrangement that will put my wife's Lover on the deed to our home when the one year residency contract is renewed on a 5 year incremental basis thereafter. It's an interesting dynamic, but so far, so good! O the lengths we'll go to, to see our wives needs fully met in life...Wish us luck!
