calloused fingers and soft hearts

fuck. twitter’s fucked so here i am :) non-binary | they/he/she | 23

[fobosgs]

Bellice doodles 🫣💕🍂✨️

[wosymin]

i can’t remember the last time i seriously used tumblr

how does this app work again???

[wosymin]

twitter’s fucked so perhaps i’m back baby

[wosymin]

lol people still use tumblr

[ilohvtae]

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[miseducatedmelanicmuse]

[adamsmasher]

hi I’m a therapist some people come to me to break down severe childhood trauma some people come to me because their job is super stressful some people come to me because they’re worried all the time about stuff that they know they shouldn’t be worried about but they worry anyway some people come to me because they’re bad at focusing some people come to me because their mom said they should but they’re enjoying the experience anyway what i’m saying is there is no wrong time, reason, or explanation to come see a therapist. we’re ready for you.

[starfire003]

Reblogging because someone probably needs to hear this.

[cordeliacornsnake]

Slurp

[04pjm-deactivated20221128]

bangtan + fancams → Park Jimin

[uservik]

so dan just came out

what we’re not going to do is bombard him with conspiracy theories about how he’s dating phil and how the two of them are secretly dating uwu

you still aren’t entitled to any part of his private life just beacuse he’s a man with a following

give him the respect and privacy he deserves. don’t be creepy.

[itskenickie-deactivated20250609]

fans better respect dan and phil and not bombard them with phan.

[dip-the-pip]

it’s what he deserves

[evermoredan]

hi.

i have been following dan for years now.

and i have to say, to this day, he continues to make me the proudest person on earth. he’s shown me love and acceptance to myself and others. he gave me hope, he gave me phil.

so, today, i want to thank him for all of that. and i’d like to let him know that he’s loved, accepted and cherished for who he is and will always be.

so, thank you, dan. thank you for being brave, thank you for being you. thank you for reminding me that everything is going to be fine. thank you for making me feel safe.

i love you, moonlight. i am forever proud of you and extremely glad i get to call you the biggest inspiration i have. thank you for showing me a bit of you, so i can be a better me.

[waterdnp]

moving forward

after watching dan’s newest video and hearing his story, i’d like to share a few things i want us all to remember going forward.

nothing is changing unless he asks us to change it. he clearly feels comfortable in this community, which is something to be proud of, and we’re solely here to support him.

phil is not a part of this. unless he chooses to bring it up himself, we’re not to draw him in. this is dan’s coming out, not his.

we shouldn’t shame anyone who was in the phandom during dan’s rough patch; it was bad, but there’s nothing to be done about it now, and these people have grown into modern times. most of them probably feel bad enough about it already, and hell, we don’t even know if they were the problem in the first place. respect each other.

now that we have a “canon” for dan’s sexuality, this doesn’t mean any fanworks are “invalid”. nothing that was generally “disproven” by this video is now invalid. again, nothing needs to change unless dan (or phil) says it needs to.

this video is not something to argue about. this video is not something to speculate about. this video, and dan, is something to celebrate. that’s ALL it is.

the most important thing is RESPECT. this openness is truly the beginning of a new era, and that’s something to celebrate, but do it RESPECTFULLY. we still don’t know a lot of things, and clearly dan (and/or phil) doesn’t want us to. that’s okay. we need to respect them, and we need to respect each other. that’s true of now and of before the video.

beyond everything, i’m so proud of dan and so happy for him being willing to live his truth; he’s absolutely worth it.

[allthesepurplelights]

yes yes yes!!!!

[ieshavevo-deactivated20200108]

also kudos to dan for calling out so much of his fan base for trying to invade his privacy like damn yes dan go off

[danandphilnews]

[phandictioned]

Watching Dans video and him saying how he was “homophobic of himself’ makes me realize how damaging it likely was to be shipped with Phil for so long. I’m so sorry Dan.