oh hi dahyun

lol

[jonghyuns-husband]

(CW // Dec 18th, suicide, victims of harassment, violence, mental health talk)

Since I want to spread this hashtag more, I would like to talk about the Shawols that I lost over the years and bring their voices up.

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[naegashutyoassup]

Hey guys! I made a picture of Jonghyun!

It has been a while since I drew something and I’m lowkey proud of it! Yes this is his Sailor Moon form because it’s my drawing and I can do whatever I want. Also, he’s so cuteee!

[taeminscoconuthead]

You know what, this makes so much sense.

Whenever people send those nasty messages, it seems as if they’re not actual Shawols and instead trolls trying to harass us.

I have a screenshot of an account who has harassed me in my art blog and as you could see, they don’t even look like a Shawol at all. (I could be wrong, but they tend to look exactly the same — also I didn’t save the message since it was very triggering)

Which makes me wonder, why are they ONLY doing this to Shawols and not other fandoms? I don’t see them doing the same with TechnoBlade, XXXTentacion or even Michael Jackson. I could name someone who has also commit suicide but NEVER gets treated like this. Etica. I’ve heard NOTHING from them and apparently he doesn’t get treated well by his fans. Never did I see a post telling them it’s “disrespectful to a deadman” but when Shawols try to celebrate his life that works for us, then all of a sudden we’re doing a bad thing.

I feel like this also plays on with the whole “terrorising K-pop fans because I’m edgy” trope. Yet, that doesn’t give you the excuse to harass someone who just want to grief in their own terms.

If they are a K-pop fan and they’re saying shit like that then, how would it make you feel if you bias passed away and then everyone treated you like shit because you’re expected to mourn and then pretend they never existed in the first place.

What if a member of Loona passes away and you’re not even allowed to say your favourite quote from them without people harassing you to “stop talking about her?”

What if a member of Stray Kids passes away and you have to pretend he never existed just to gain the approval of people around you.

What if a member of Enhypen passes away and there are people spamming his funeral pictures and clips that you can’t even go onto YouTube or Google anymore without it being shown to you.

What if a member of BTS passes away and you can’t even celebrate his life because “oh, you’re disrespecting the dead.”

What if a TXT member passes away and you have to constantly check every single person just to make sure they are comfortable to talk about him.

You could apply any group to this, and would you still like it? But oh, you was just telling people, right? No. You go up to them when they are vulnerable and start to harass them. For what?

Sorry, that was a vent here…

No, you’re totally right. It seems as if the messages are an attack on K-pop fans which makes sense due to the fact that people love to make fun of them for their music taste. This has especially been happening since the early days of when K-pop went worldwide and it has became this “alternative pop world.” I think it’s also the fact that since he’s the first idol that has killed himself, people use that to harass and terrorise others that may be otherwise trying to cope with no longer seeing their idols on vlive anymore and even music without them. You don’t see people doing the same to Sulli or Goo Hara. It’s only Jonghyun that gets this treatment.

People need to start being considerate and stop thinking that they have the rights to control how people grief and cope. Regardless if it’s a Shawol or not, they should really keep to themselves and focus on what coping mechanisms works for them. And if they’re not a Shawol and they’re harassing people for coping with death, they should be ashamed of themselves for terrorising them just because they do something that you don’t like that you’re otherwise not even a part of. They need to really shut the fuck up and know their place. They are NOT a Shawol mourning over the death of Jonghyun by referring to him as “dead man” and mentally harassing other grieving Shawols in their vulnerable state because they think they’re doing something “right” or they’re the “hero” in their story when really they’re making it so much harder for those people that they become traumatised and may need to go to therapy because of those people.

I’m not going to let that comment on hyunjin gf’s blog slide. The fact that they have the audacity to harass someone who is MENTALLY not in a good place by gatekeeping other ways to cope with FUCKING DEATH because they expect us to not treat him like he ever existed. For most people, that’s not how they cope, and it’s such a fucking unhealthy coping mechanism for most people since it could cause depression. Some people can do that whilst most can’t, and they need to understand that this is a thing that they can’t gatekeep for their own sake.

If any of these dumbasses decides to challenge me, I’ll screenshot their ask and I’ll report them to Tumblr because this terrorisation of K-pop fans needs to end. I would even bring them to the wall of shame so they can’t take back their words.

If you guys had gone through something like this, please note that you’re not alone and you don’t need to change how you cope with Dec 18th for anyone. You are allowed to grief, mourn and cope in your own terms. Remember, this is YOUR experiences and not others so YOU figure out what works for YOU and don’t cater to what those stupid delusional idiots like them say because most likely, they aren’t even Shawols themselves or even if they are, they cope with death differently than you and you don’t have to copy them just because they told you so. Please look after yourselves and make sure that you guys are putting yourselves first since mental health was the thing that killed Jonghyun, and he wouldn’t want you to be next in line.

[jonghyuns-husband]

I’m so glad this is getting more recognition. There are so many inconsiderate people harassing us for no reason at all. I do agree with the fact that they are definitely not a Shawol and if they are a K-pop fan they definitely give me toxic girl group twitter stans with the memes they put out.

[rensneko]

Shawols, we need to start fighting. This is WAY too common and it needs to stop. We can’t let anymore victims being claimed. Share this with as much Shawols/K-pop fans as you can to tell them that we’ll be fighting back and turn into a great big army.

If you have a message similar to what we’re talking about, let @taeminscoconuthead know and we’ll put them in their place. If you can, tag them. This may be scary, but we’re warriors. You just relax and take care of yourself.

[taeminspussylips]

BOOST!

[wowimadeakpopblog]

BOOST THIS SHIT UP!

[jonghyuns-husband]

2:34

[jeunnie]

Wonyoung ♡ VOGUE

[jonghyuns-husband]

What your K-pop fandom says about you!

BTS - You’re either under the age of 18 or this is the first ever group you got into.

TXT - You only got into them because BTS mentioned them.

BLACKPINK - You’re either under the age of 21 or you definitely ship Lizkook as a joke.

TWICE - You’re either male or a lesbian/bisexual woman that makes jokes about Dahyun literally hooking up with the other members.

Monsta X - This group either helped you to come out or you’re just whipped for Wonho like the rest of us.

Seventeen - You’re sick and tired of telling new fans why there are thirteen members instead of seventeen.

SHINee - You’re either over the age of 25, a parent, or thinking about having children in the future when the time is right. Or you’re probably a minor who is whipped for Taemin!

Stray Kids - You’re under 25, single and happy with your life. Also, you (will) have a mind of a teenager in your 20s and may possibly follow through in your 30s.

NCT - You have more than one bias. Ain’t no way you have only one with this many people in one group-

The Boyz - You often wonder what could be their chatroom name could be called due to their group name.

Loona - I’m not going to be mean with this one — You’re probably a kind hearted person who loves dresses and skirts because they’re cute and that’s it. Probably even shop for yourself or someone you love and is VERY good at designing outfits.

Red Velvet - J-just say it… they’re hot, isn’t it? Also you girls probably only like them because of that meme of Taemin getting beaten up by Seulgi and Wendy.

Girls’ Generation/SNSD - You’re DEFINITELY a guy that faps off to them or a girl that loves their concepts and probably feels nostalgic even hearing about them.

Super Junior/SUJU - You have daddy issues.

EXO - You’re probably between the ages of 16-30 and you also have daddy issues. Also if your biases are Kai, Baekhyun, Suho, Lay, or Chen, you’re DEFINITELY an adult. If you guys were old enough, you had also DEFINITELY had simped for Lu Han and had played Lu with the speakers on loud because you was an idiot who thought your parents weren’t home. Also yes, I have friends.

BIGBANG - Listening to them is just nostalgic to you just- ALL THE SONGS ARE SO- UGHHHHHH THERE’S NO WAY YOU HAVEN’T HEARD ANY OF THEIR SONGS IF YOU HAD BEEN A FAN AROUND 2010-2014

DAY6 - IF THIS IS YOUR GROUP, THEN YOU’RE PROBABLY BRAGGING THAT WE STARTED THE KOREAN ROCK BAND TREND FIRST NOT XDINARY HEROES OR TXT (also we’re better — kidding I love the others too)

2NE1 - Nah, you know this is one of the best and most nostalgic group on the list I don’t care if people hate it I love it and that’s all matters-

Aespa - You probably stanned this group because either because they give the same vibe as BLACKPINK or because you just like their songs.

Shinhwa - You’re probably wondering “when will they disband” in the most non toxic and disrespectful manner possible. Also you’re probably like over the age of 25 if you stanned them for more than a decade.

P1Harmony - You probably stanned them just for Keeho, or something related to him. I mean, who doesn’t love this guy?

TVXQ/DBSK - DAMN- YOU LIKE THIS GROUP? Well you must definitely living your best life and I do hope that both sides of your pillow is cold. Share your pride with your fandom please — I’m so proud of you honey. Especially if you’re under the age of 18, ily.

ITZY - You’re definitely under 18, and probably a girl group fan. You have a bestie that is a Loona stan and probably wants to have a pink aesthetic for your room.

Dreamcatcher - Definitely a real feminist and cares for other male survivors as well as the female ones. Also seggsy af-

SuperM - Your bias is definitely Taemin and your bias wreckers HAS to be either Baekhyun, Kai or Ten. Also you have daddy issues.

TREASURE - You dumbasses are probably going to ask me “aM i A mEmBeR oF tReAsUrE” just because one of the members has the same name and (coincidentally) is Japanese.

IKON - You’re sick and tired of 8 year old boys dancing and singing “Love Scenario” and saying that it comes from Fortnite and not from the K-pop group itself.

Block B - You’re sick and tired of people making fun of your fandom name… J-just stop it… that’s not it…

Mamamoo - Where did y’all go? They were only known for that one song and that’s it. They seemed like a cool group to get into, probably still making nice music. I’d have to listen to them eventually.

OH MY GIRL - Bet you loved the dolphin cult era, right? The only time people can remember that your fandom exists. Anywho, you probably spam in every comment section that annoying ass “DA 🐬 DA 🐬 DA 🐬” song on Tiktok, YouTube, Instagram- EVERYWHERE-

Let me know if I missed anyone out!

[sugurugetos]

WALLY (2014)  UN HAENG IL CHI (2017)  SUKYO (2018)  CHEERS (2022)

[jonghyuns-husband]

why tf did i thought he was he was giving that mic a handjob until he came on his mouth on the first gif 😭

[wowimadeakpopblog]

AYO- 💀

[nikismissingtoe]

POV: You’re blogging during your honeymoon

[wowimadeakpopblog]

Man’s gonna know what part of the honeymoon is this 😏

[jonghyuns-husband]

OMG HAPPY BIRTHDAY TAEMINNIE MY SWEET BIG BABY! CONGRATS ON FINALLY BEING A WIDOWER MY BABY HAS GROWN SO FAST 🥹

(not my gif haha)

[nihaojj]

“CONGRATS ON FINALLY BEING A WIDOWER” PLS 💀

[theokimurakk]

I’M DYING- 💀💀💀💀💀

[wowimadeakpopblog]

PLSSSSSSSSS-

[theokimurakk]

Jongtae’s wedding be like:

[wowimadeakpopblog]

NOT THE SHINEE COLOURS 💀

[naegashutyoassup]

Fr- @staff @support you better do something about this.

[wowimadeakpopblog]

honestly, the password protected feature should be used AFTER the blog has been made and should be available for BOTH pc and mobile.

also, if you had changed your username, can it stop leading us to our account? not sure how to fix it…

[doodlingjjongie]

I really love this drawing style whenever I make SHINee’s Kim Jonghyun. 💙

[naegashutyoassup]

I made him kinda hot…? hahaha

[wowimadeakpopblog]

OMG AWWWWWW

[doodlingjjongie]

This took me 4 hours to do lmaooo

(Please don’t repost unless you give me credit!)

SHINee’s Kim Jonghyun

Now watch me hate it tomorrow 💀

[jonghyuns-husband]

THIS IS SO AMAZING WOWOWOWOSOWOWWOKSSKSK

[wowimadeakpopblog]

THE DETAILS-

you’re literally an artist wth-

[naegashutyoassup]

When did K-pop started to get “boring” or “annoying” in terms of music, content, fans, etc?

[wowimadeakpopblog]

Everyone’s right when they said around jonghyun or even sulli’s “goodbye” date lol

2018-2019 was alright, but kpop has really started to hit different around that time. Even with the fans, they aren’t as fun as they used to be. ;(

As for the content/songs/etc, it’s alright ig. Still feel like the golden years of kpop was 2012-2014 but even 2015-2017 was pretty alright then. We had some iconic hits but other than that, it was fine until about the 2020s.

Maybe game shows are starting to be a little dry due to their constant rinse and repeat things they do but there’s still iconic moments coming out of it but not as much as it used to.

So yeah… kpop is dying but it’s also getting bigger at the same time-

[peridoxxx]

[naegashutyoassup]

I’m sorry but-

that first gif be looking hella sus tho

[taeminspussylips]

You be saying that but I’m trying to figure out who is he giving that handjob to y’all

[nikismissingtoe]

Ayo Jonghyun’s back!

(dances lol)

[jonghyuns-husband]

Yayyyy let’s dance together!

(plays replay by shinee)

[naegashutyoassup]

I wanna dance too!

(plays ring ding dong by shinee)

[wowimadeakpopblog]

I’m dancing along because why not-

(plays lucifer by shinee)

[wowimadeakpopblog]

here’s a new blog haha