wasn't going to do an intro post - now i'm doing an intro post. funny how that works out. hi! i'm eli. i'm over 21 and have only very recently come to fully embrace being transmasc. i've lurked for a very long time in a lot of public tags but i'm a real shut-in when it comes to private conversations or communities.
mostly this is just a blog where i can post about a lot of the stuff that relates to my trans experience. prior to id'ing as a trans man i've spent a lot of time being vocally open online about being nonbinary, and while that umbrella is not necessarily something i fit under anymore, it was a very intrinsic part of my development as a person and still carries a lot of influence over how i see the community and world at large. i absolutely don't have patience for people who minimize nonbinary and/or intersex voices in trans spaces in service of binary trans voices.
i'm also on the aroace spectrum, but you might see me talking about or reblogging things about sex and romance because i'm a little odd in that respect, hahaha - i really love to think about both of those things, but only in hypotheticals. i have no desire to actually engage in anything like that with anyone.
i'm white and american, so please feel free to correct me if there's ever things i say that come off badly because of that.
anyway ! here are some things you can expect to find here ...















