wishing every aromatic/asexual/aspec selfshipper who struggles with relationships outside of fictional ones a beautiful day/night. wishing all of you aspec selfshippers who feel like no one will understand your preferences like your f/o does, some peace and quiet and a safe place to rest. your f/o loves you and fully accepts and understands all of your needs and boundaries. they care so deeply for you and all that you are and respect you so much. they understand being aspec can come with its difficulties, and they want you to know they're here if ever you need someone to talk to about it, always.














