[amour-nourriture-deactivated201]

i was toxic to some and a blessing to others. im willing to admit i wasn’t always in the right.

[queerlove]

me: *catches myself being judgmental* me to me: i did not raise u this way

[viinnttaaggee]

you lose yourself trying to hold on to someone who doesn’t care about losing you

[academic-vampire]

𝔱𝔥𝔢 𝔩𝔦𝔣𝔢 𝔬𝔣 𝔱𝔥𝔢 𝔞𝔯𝔱 𝔠𝔲𝔯𝔞𝔱𝔬𝔯

[gentlewordsdaily]

You don’t have to fix someone to be worthy of being liked.

You don’t have to stay up late solving everyone’s problems, giving endless advice, or carrying emotions that aren’t yours just so people won’t leave. Your value isn’t measured by how useful you are, how available you are, or how much of yourself you give away.

You are allowed to just exist and still be cared about. You are allowed to be liked for your personality, your humour, your presence, your honesty; not just for the help you provide.

Real connections aren’t built on you constantly proving your worth. They are built on mutual care, respect, and comfort. People who truly value you don’t keep you around just because you are helpful, they keep you around because you are you.

So it’s okay to rest. It’s okay to say, “I can’t fix this for you.” It’s okay to set boundaries and still expect kindness in return.

You deserve relationships where you don’t have to earn your place every day. You deserve to feel wanted, not just needed.

[overclassy]

[hitopslou]

you know what’s fun? letting people enjoy the things that make them happy

[faustique]

[stricatul]

Intimacy is not just physical closeness; it is the foundation of emotional safety in a relationship. It is the ability to be seen, heard, and understood without fear of judgment. True intimacy is built in silence, in honest conversations, and in shared vulnerability. It strengthens trust and transforms connection into something deeply meaningful.

When intimacy is present, communication becomes more open and conflicts become easier to navigate. It allows two individuals to grow together while still being fully themselves. Without intimacy, even love can feel distant; with it, even simplicity feels complete.

Because real connection is not just about being together, but truly being present for each other.

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[l1amaani]

maturity is when you want peace more than revenge

[n0thingbutme]

I don't know why poeple find it boring, when i just wanna sit quiet.

[inkpressedpetals]

[rizzmargiela]

Yall normalize weird shit

[1617]

sometimes life puts you in the same situation again to see if you’re still a dumbass

[cheshmenoor]

[thoughtcascades]

i want someone to look at me like they already decided i’m a problem worth keeping