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Men love to talk about how much it sucks to be put in the friendzone but can we talk about how it feels to be a woman and realize that you didn’t have an actual friend? You just had somebody looming over you, waiting for you to agree to fuck them
POT 1st Date Conversation
I am typically very nervous and anxious before a POT date. In order for me to feel more comfortable, I came up with a script so I have talking point to avoid awkward silences.
Before a date I typically heavily research their job and look up a few current events articles that pertain to their career. This is to get an idea of not only how much they make but their job responsibilities so we can have an interactive conversation when we speak about his job.
Script Format:
Introduction
I ask how his day was
Then I ask if he has been to the restaurant before
If yes, does he come here often? What does he recommend?
If no, I heard great things about the restaurant. Apparently, the (name of dish) is to die for!
Talk about the ambiance, vibe, and decor of the restaurant
Then I have 3 Phases of questions prepared
Phase 1: Work
So you are a (his job title) that is so interesting I’d love to hear more about it.
Follow up questions
How do you like your job?
Where did you go to school?
What was your major?
What made you choose this career?
Use words like interesting, fascinating, paramount, etc. when responding. This basically inflates his ego while showing him you’re interested in what he has to say.
Phase 2: Get To Know You Questions
What do you do outside of work?
What are your hobbies?
Do you prefer watching tv shows or movies?
What shows/movies do you watch?
Do you like to read?
What are some your favorite books?
What is your favorite type of food? Favorite restaurant?
Do you like sports?
What’s your favorite sport/teams?
What type of music do you listen to?
Have you been to any fun concerts recently?
Always prepare your responses for these questions and have follow up question as well. The follow up questions and your responses help make the conversation flows and makes it seem natural. If you don’t have any hobbies make up some! Make sure it’s not a common one and RESEARCH that hobby (makes the lie seem more believable).
Phase 3: Silly/Random Questions
This keeps the date lighthearted and fun
Are you a morning bird or night owl?
What do you prefer coffee or tea?
Cats or dogs?
Do you consider yourself a pessimist, realist, or idealist?
What are yours biggest pet peeves?
If you could eat one food for the rest of your life, what would it be?
These phases typically take up the whole dinner date. Try not to sound rehearsed or robotic to make the conversation seem more natural.
Nonverbal communication is also extremely important! Almost as important as verbal. This shows you are interested and having a good time.
Face your feet and body towards him
Shoulders straight
Chest up and out
Eye contact
Flutter and bat your eyes
Smize (smile with your eyes)
Smile
Laugh/giggle
After the 3 phases I say something along the lines of “I’m very curious why are you on the site?”. This transitions the conversation towards the arrangement and allowance discussion. Then ask what he’s looking for in an arrangement and allowance expectations. I try to never say a number first (that’s the first rule of negotiation). Have him throw out a number then you counter.
Since having this script and rehearsing the conversation, I’ve had more successful 1st POT dates. I highly recommend scripts to every SB.
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survive out of spite. survive as a witness. survive as a warning to the future. survive so these stories do not disappear
I get the point but this also comes off as really ominous and i enjoy that
survive or else
men could literally listen to themselves talk for three hours while you sit n stare at a wall and be like,
“wow, you really are amazing. you’re so sexy and interesting. i feel like i really know who you are now.”
LMAOOOOO true
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Don't be a "why her & not me" hoe
Be a "if she can do it I can do it" hoe. -Cardi B
