cupid! 🌹

❣️the n1 minrose propaganda spreader

[xrosefemme]

hii intro post yayy!!

i'm cupid, i use xe/she, i am a femme lesbian, fawn girl, and a hannahxxrose lover :3

i rpf and break boundaries on this account!! block me if u don't wanna see that!!

i main minrosewook / minrose / leorose with a good amount of rosewaffles, poly chungpire, spokewho, zampicc, and zamrose mixed in. i ship hannah with everyone. #bigandgreedy!

i like to post clips and my writing, i'm on ao3 as xrosefemme !!

i'm very new to tumblr, please tell me if i do something wrong! my inbox is also always open!

tags:

cupid’s arrows - my headcanons/writing

cupid’s hearts - my clips

cupid’s letters - inbox/asks replies

cupid’s wings - my fics

cupid ship rants - self explanatory lol :P

art i like! - reblogs, also self explanatory^^

hannah userbox

[xrosefemme]

tbh the craziest part isnt even that minute went with hannah to mojang studios, its that they said absolutely nothing about it. Not even a ”Oh btw I took minute cause he rly wanted to go!” No mention during hannahs reaction stream or anywhere after that, the only reason ppl know is cause he posted on Ig abt it (right after hannahs stream btw im p sure)

Im looking too deep at it but idk I feel like going on a trip w ur friend would be a normal thing to mention am I wrong 😭

that's actually so true.. like if she took pangi or something she would've talked more about it? like why keep it under wraps. they didn't even post together just separately at the same place at the same time. weird.

[jmatopee]

minute op abusing in lsw to give hannah a wither rose never leaves my mind... theyre so me and my bf ❤️ my favourite ship i adore them, I love when 2 pretty people have dating rumours

[jmatopee]

minrose my babehs aww theyr so cute

[misawasfound]

@xrosefemme

[rpfwarrior69]

Hannahxxrose i lvoe u. she started playing maggots for brains as she ended stream and ofc unncescayr levels of minrose

[xrosefemme]

I believe for sure that hannah takes minutes pictures cause you could tell most of his insta photos were definitely taken by someone shorter LMAO same for hannah where alot u can tell the pic taker is taller but u see it more on minutes side

she has mentioned at some point when talking abt the recent japan trip that minute takes good pictures of her so who knows lol

plus that one clip in squiddos japan video where everyone is taking a photo of people taking a photo of minute taking a photo of hannah. her sister, lindsey, was on that trip. hannah has said lindsey takes the best photos. but minute was taking her photos. hm.

also i never noticed the heights in the photos. dude. you're so smart.

[xrosefemme]

matching instagram posts yet again + i’m 100% sure minute’s pictures are taken with hannah’s camera, i mean look me in the digital eyes and say these aren’t from the same camera

[imnotasweetie]

it's funny, because i have twitter for different reasons than mcyt, but since everything is connected, it still shows me mcyt content

twitter users really are just obsessed with the idea that the creators being IN fanspaces is normal and should be encouraged and that's just absolutely insane to me

like no, actually, i want to be able to look at characters and make shit up without the possibility of them looking over my shoulder judging if i should be shot for making them uncomfortable or not. that's not and it never has been what fanspaces are supposed to be

"oh but make a private discord" how, pray tell, is anyone supposed to find people who are also interested in these things if apparently the mere implication that something breaking said boundary exists is offence enough for it to be "reported"? literally tell me how

"oh but it was only about his mods finding people and banning them" WHY is he having people seek out the thing he supposedly doesnt like and BRING IT TO HIM. he implied his mods could get on all places, does that mean ALSO peivate spaces, meaning that people cant even feel comfortable making private spaces completely separate from them and other fans because now they have to be worried someone that claims to enjoy the same as them is now gonna rat them out?

do you really think other fans arent goint to feel like they would be "better" or like they would be "correct to" seek out this people and attempt to push them out of the fandom space, EVEN if they are trying to do so privately? will those fans BELIEVE people when they claim "oh it's platonic" about their fanworks? or will the squint their eyes and point at them as a horrible dreadful shipper because the fanart had the characters 3 pixels too close?

and FANS are doing all of THAT ^ over the hypothetical approval of a random person THEY DONT KNOW, so they feel comfortable in what should be A SPACE FOR THEM -and then getting MAD when they find out that actually other fans DONT want the creators here and actually find it uncomfortable

do you guys see what im talking about? this is NOT how you foster a healthy and safe community, it's absolutely dreadful

[fishhenthusiast]

Magical girl flamefrags !!

[xrosefemme]

maybe im delulu but on pangis short stream after hannahs first turn it looked like she was gonna give minute a hug before dapping up derap at the last second 😭

also it was cute how in sync they seemed with their guesses witherrose duo on top fr

duuuude. and his fucking arms went up. he was prepared . i’m crazy. i soooo fucking agree

also it)s withered rose not wither rose love u anon

[loudn-mcyt]

The core problem with basically every single instance of boundaries discourse I see is that nobody seems to know what the word "boundary" actually means.

Boundaries are personal and social. They are based on mutual respect. Boundaries are not orders, they are requests, intended to establish a cause and effect: if you do this thing, I will do this other thing. "If you show me ship fic, I will block you" is a boundary. "You are not allowed to make ship fic at all" is not a boundary, that is a rule.

Rules are not boundaries. Rules are based on power and control - they are imposed upon you. This is not necessarily bad, but it must come with understanding of where they can be applied. Rules only apply where the rulemaker has control of what is allowed. And these are how many creators seem to approach what they call "boundaries". Again, this is not necessarily bad - their own twitch chats, discords, and maintags on social media ARE spaces in which they have control (some spaces more than others - maintags are shakier since creators don't have moderation power there, but that can be alleviated by creating a dni tag and asking people to place content there instead), and are therefore places where they can make rules about what they do or do not want to be shown. This is fine. Creators have the right to moderate their own spaces how they wish.

Where the problems emerge is that many creators seem to assume that they have the power to apply their rules (in the guise of "boundaries") in places that are not their own. Non-main tags on social media, archive of our own, private discords - these are locations in which the application (or lack thereof) of boundaries is no longer the choice of a creator. They do not have power; thus, any choices made by individuals in those spaces must necessarily be based only on the social agreement between fan and creator, an inherently parasocial construction. And in this case, the parasocial agreement that actually exists is not "this thing must never be created", it is "this thing should not be created or shared in my spaces".

I would argue that the primary issue in how "boundaries" are approached is a misunderstanding of how all of this works. Boundaries cannot be enforced in private spaces because there is no power relationship there. They can only be requested. As a result, when creators attempt to enforce boundaries in spaces that are not their own, what will actually happen is a series of barely-controlled harassment campaigns aimed towards people who are, by and large, following the social contract of boundaries but not the power-enforced contract of rules. And that harassment is far more of a problem than any person in a private discord writing something against boundaries. One might make someone uncomfortable.

The other gets people hurt. And that's where the line is crossed.

[ferry-man-farrow]

I’m not trying to attack you or anything, just trying to get a more clear idea.

But from what I’m understanding a creator posted a boundary about something they’re uncomfortable with and you’re just deciding to ignore it?? If so, that’s actually insanely disrespectful. If not, is there possibly something more clarifying to say?

I’m actually glad you asked! This is probably the last post I’m going to be making on this subject, but let me provide you with a comparison that might make things easier to understand.

This is a bit like someone you know saying; “Hey, people listening to rap music makes me uncomfortable, can you please stop?”

And it’s like… what? I mean, I can… not play it out loud when I know you’re around. A bit of a weird request to make, but if it’s really that bad, then I don’t mind making accommodations.

And they reply with; “No. The fact that people listen to it all makes me uncomfortable. I want you to stop listening to it entirely. It’s against my boundaries.”

Which like… that isn’t a boundary. A boundary is something that dictates how people interact with YOU. Like, I can’t even listen to it in my OWN privacy? How the hell does that affect you in any way, shape, or form? That isn’t a boundary, it’s an attempt to control my personal agency and interests. I don’t even have to LIKE rap music very much for this to be a problem.

Then they say; “If I catch you or anyone else in this community listening to or creating rap music, then I will be sending people to harass and excommunicate you from this space.”

like… ??? I’m sorry, but that’s absurd. You do realize how that’s entirely absurd and unreasonable, right? In a community that is known for loving and thrives off of it? It is not our job to coddle your internet experience- if something is triggering or makes you uncomfortable then it is your responsibility to avoid those things. I am not shoving these things in your face, and at this point you’re only going to find it if you are actively looking for it.

This doesn’t even begin to address the issue of queer-baiting and internalized homophobia of the matter. A fan space ultimately belongs to the fans, first and foremost. If there is something that makes you uncomfortable, then you don’t have to interact with it at all. When you share a creation, you forfeit control over how people perceive and interpret those things, that’s just the nature of art and performance. If you truly cannot handle the way people interact with the things you make, then perhaps this is not a career you are fully equipped to handle.

Hopefully this helps explain a couple things- this allegory has been floating around in my mind for a while, and I appreciate the excuse to share my perspective on things.

[antimony-medusa]

Oh incidentally "i will perform queer affection as a joke but if you engage with it as anything other than inherently hilarious you're boundary breaking" IS queerbaiting, just so we're clear.

[strifetxt]

when ccs try to ban shipping of their characters it's always eyeroll-worthy and stupid, but when ccs then have the gall to go "don't worry, this won't change the way that i joke flirt with my friends in character haha it's fine if the shipping is clearly a joke" that's when i get incandescently angry, like ohhhh you think that queer romance is acceptable as a funny punchline but you get uncomfortable if anyone engages with it seriously? there's a word for that. fuck you.

[gremnda]

i love mcyt <33 i love having to learn what Rules ccs have before i can ever make free art that will promote the ccs characters and if anyone step out of line, they'll go on stream and say shit like ”if i hear about repeated offenses, i will send my people after them.”

[xrosefemme]

the beautiful hannahxxrose and the also beautiful minutetech :

[chair002]

what the chungpire !