[anancientheart]

ok universe, i’m ready to feel good things. make me feel good things.

[turntoturnover-deactivated20250]

hey it’s me: a huge fan of attention and validation

[invocator]

[heroincowboy]

[dirtbagbarbie]

Loving yourself is not (necessarily):

Thinking you’re gorgeous

Not wanting to change anything about your body, personality, or life

Loving yourself is:

Knowing you have inherent worth regardless of your physical appearance or life circumstance

Knowing you deserve good things

Wanting to take care of yourself because you deserve good things

[animalsnaps]

[monbebez-deactivated20201019]

LITERALLY MY FAVORITE

[quiet--batpeople]

THE QUOTE OF THE DECADE

[gangsters-wife]

[aliens-bro]

Do you ever just look at a guys hands and think yes

[permanentbutter]

[euph0rictulips]

nerdy college boys with messy curly hair and dark eyes and lazy dimply smiles are my aesthetic

[hilderhier]

[monet-be-cray]

Southern France vibes

[belovedbane]

Concept: I finish school. The job I work isn’t my dream job but I enjoy doing it greatly still. It pays enough to cover everything I might need. My bills are never overdue. Money is not a thought in my head. I have a place to live. So do my dogs. It is nice and warm, I have some plants, my bookshelves are full, my sheets are always clean. There is time to read at the end of a day. I read a lot. Thinking is a good thing. I meet up with friends regularly, old and new. They love me. We make memories. I have nothing to be ashamed of. I travel a few times a year, always different places. The places I see steal my breath away. The people I meet teach me of life. They are good. There is no war. The sea calls to me and I pay visit. I am independent. I am content.

[aptxx4869-deactivated20160504]

my traumatized ass: do I have a crush or am I just idolizing this person for being vaguely nice to me

[saturdaygrace]

[unvixenly]

struck by lightning

[flightless-wings]

if a guy is hitting on u and he is clearly the alpha in his group of guys.. go for the third in command and undermine their whole power structure

[imperfectkreis]

Oh god, I used this tactic so often. Because in most cases I was trying to pull dudes for my friends, rather than myself. You figure out who their leader is, go for #3 or #4 in the group, who is generally much cuter and a bit more shy. This is why he ranks high, but not too high. You go hard on this dude. You hold his hand and smile at him. You don’t even have to go further. Dude #3 is just bewildered you brushed off #1. This makes the dude at the top antsy. It causes dissent in the ranks. Your friends can now swoop in, picking from the remaining dudes as they start to scatter in the wind. They have lost all sense of self. You have secured free drinks for the rest of the night. And whatever else your genitals desire.

[187misfit-deactivated20190714]

🤔 interesting

[psl-deactivated20161231]

did you lot just dissect the male ego 😰 damn