xXShattered_CaninesXx

We are a Traumagenic and possibly mixed origins AuHD system, we are also a minor!!!

[pro-endo-telamon]

Shotout to pro-endo traumagenic systems.

Shotout to pro-endo disordered systems.

Shotout to pro-endo non-systems.

Shotout to them because they are brave enough to stand up and being supportive to others.

[meandmymadness12]

”I probably should get off of tumblr I have something to do early tomorrow”

I say as I scroll another 4 hours

[dear-diary-xoxo]

Look honey i either dont know and cant tell or i know and also know better than to tell you at all

[pro-endo-telamon]

Traumagenic systems are valid

Endogenic systems are valid

Willogenic systems are valid

Addgenic systems are valid

Tulpagenic systems are valid

Mixed origin systems are valid

Kingenic systems are valid

Stressgenic systems are valid

Neurogenic systems are valid

Quoigenic systems are valid

Disordered systems are valid

Non-disordered systems are valid

Spiritual systems are valid

Psychological systems are valid

Fictive-heavy systems are valid

Factive-heavy systems are valid

Low headcount systems are valid

High headcount systems are valid

Polyfragmented systems are valid

All systems are valid

[teaboot]

Please don't ask me for relationship advice unless you are prepared to receive some truly upsetting information because some people are ready for the "He's exhibiting the literal textbook signs of a psychological abuser and you need to get away from him before he successfully cuts you off from your support network" talk and some people aren't

[teaboot]

FOR WHOEVER NEEDS A REMINDER:

There is never any justification for someone putting their hands on you in any way without your consent short of immediate risk of harm or death.

If someone tells you that "the way I'm acting is your fault because you know that doing X thing would make me do it and you chose to do it anyway" is just fancy bullshit talk for, "I know my behaviour is wrong, but I don't want to be held responsible for it so I'm pushing it on you"

Nothing good ever, ever comes from someone who tells you, "I don't want you talking about our relationship with anyone". This person cannot handle accepting responsibility and processing criticism so they need you to never, ever question them. That's easier if they control the narrative and your friends aren't there to cut in.

Nothing constructive comes from screaming.

"It's not like that all the time" is optimistic and sweet, but the truth is, it shouldn't be like that at all. Sweet words and gifts and gestures don't erase being frightened for yourself or for your loved ones. That is not normal. Don't minimize it.

It is not healthy or normal to be genuinely afraid of saying "no" to someone, for any reason at all. Violence, outbursts, retaliation, anything. You should not have to be afraid of someone's reaction to your boundaries.

You are not responsible for saving anyone. Even if you love them. Even if they have nobody else. At the end of the day, if they want to hurt themselves in any way, they will, and you can't stop them forever. People need to want to improve before they can actually improve, and if they're threatening to harm themselves to keep you around, they're using your love to hold themselves hostage. You do not decide their choices for them, and they don't get to shunt that off on you.

There will always be other people who can love you better. You will not be alone forever. This will not be the last time you care for someone like this and it will not be the last time someone cares for you

[teaboot]

This applies to ALL relationships btw

[cometiny]

Being autistic and also a Hyperpop/breakcore/ect enjoyer is really funny bc the sounds of being outside in the real world are often so tiring to me but if I wanna unwind and have a good time I will listen to the the most unnatural noises conjured up by evil computers and specifically designed to make your head explode. awesome

[starfallsystemblog2]

things that do NOT mean you're faking systemhood:

having a high alter count

having very little amnesia

having lots of introiects

using sign offs and decorating your system trackers

having comorbid disorders

not knowing whether you have osdd, pdid, did, etc

having dramatic switches

being cringe

not being diagnosed

being a teenager

not remembering trauma

experiencing ramcoa or oea

not having trauma

being elderly

being autistic

being transgender

being endogenic

being willogenic

having low alter count

having no amnesia

you dont use sign offs

having quick switches

been previously misdiagnosed

being self diagnosed

[theredstargalaxy]

In case you need them, here are some gentle reminders:

Your trauma is valid, no matter how "minor" others think it is.

Your origins are all valid; trauma isn't the only cause for a system's existence.

Persecutors are allowed to exist.

Protectors are allowed to make mistakes.

Caregivers are allowed to take breaks.

Littles are allowed to swear.

Hosts are allowed to step back.

It's okay for the smart sysmates to not know something.

It's okay for the tough ones to cry.

It's okay for the nice ones to stand up for themselves.

It's okay for the persecutors forgive.

It's okay for the protectors to let down their guard.

Anxiety holders are allowed to be calm.

Depression holders are allowed to feel happiness.

Mood boosters are allowed to be sad.

Anger holders are allowed to be happy

All of you are loved.

All of you are accepted on this page.

All of you deserve nice things.

All of you deserve to have good days.

You matter.

We love you. (platonically)

[prairiemountain]

Don't panic if you can't feel your headmates. A day of them being gone doesn't mean that it was all fake. Don't let the doubt get ya

[pleasantlyplural]

It is okay to be scared. It is okay to feel terrified. Being plural isn’t always easy, it takes time to get used to it. Don’t rush your experience and journey with it. You’re valid in how you feel about it, just don’t do anything to let that hurt you.

[positivitygenic]

systems of any size can be manageable, and systems of any size can struggle with management and dysfunction. a happy life that you want to live is not inherently connected to system size, as anyone can find happiness and functionality in systems of various sizes. anyone can reach their goals; there is no minimum or maximum amount of headmates inherently needed for it.

[rocketbirdie]

guys. Guys please you're allowed to say big boy words. please we cannot keep just rolling with the sanitization of every space on the internet ok. you're allowed to say suicide. you're allowed to say porn. they're not bad words, they're just words.

also by ''censoring'' the words with silly spellings you're actually making it much harder for people to filter out. please just say Sex you don't have to call it woohoo like it's the fucking sims. i promise the Word Police aren't going to arrest you

[humanheartharmonia]

Trans fictives, factives, and other introjects whose gender is different from their source, I see you (and I am one of you!) Navigating source and fandom can be difficult and at times dysphoria-inducing, but I believe in you, and that you can do what is best for you.

[memory-gone]

the only guy who feels some sort of sexual attraction:

traumaholders:

original by @system-error-404-who-are-you !

transcript:

zero: IDK I feel like our SA trauma wasn't THAT BAD

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stel: what.

agarwood: ["How Did We Get Here?" Minecraft achievement]

stallion: kill yourself

fanta: bro...

[courtkossai]

recent rant , redone in comic form . not every large collective is polyfragmented !

while polyfragmentation is not always easy to define , and communities may adapt in ways psychiatric literature do not account for , do believe in importance of keep some kind of barrier between polyfragmentation and large population - collectives can be large even without polyfragmentation , and small even with polyfragmentation .

[starfallsystemblog2]

things that do NOT mean you're faking systemhood:

having a high alter count

having very little amnesia

having lots of introiects

using sign offs and decorating your system trackers

having comorbid disorders

not knowing whether you have osdd, pdid, did, eyc

having dramatic switches

being cringe

not being diagnosed

being a teenager

not remembering trauma

experiencing ramcoa or oea

not having trauma

being elderly

being autistic

being transgender

being endogenic

being willogenic

having low alter count

having no amnesia

you dont use sign offs

having quick switches

been previously misdiagnosed

being self diagnosed

[positivitygenic]

your existence as a fictive is not an inherent statement on your source, nor is it an inherent act of fandom. this even includes when you are source connected. your identity is your own in every regard, especially when it comes to pronouns. how you are is also not an inherent statement on how you feel about your source. it is very much fine to have different pronouns or other different aspects of yourself in comparison to your source, and who you are will never take away from your source and what your source does.