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If your boy is insecure, just make him sit in front of a mirror and say nice things about himself while you jerk him off from behind

angelnumber27

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do i really need to put us thru the emotions of a breakup when i could just back off, maybe even..slowly ghost you?

in the depths of my ‘blah y we bringing this up’ thoughts i acknowledge that would probably feel safer to u than any semblance of stability we’ve ever had.

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in the hard to admit truths, buried surprisingly close to the jealousy ones- i replay the visit recording of my therapist telling me to

“try and find relief in the fact that * would be like this with whoever, unless that person was matching the energy- which would most likely result in their disinterest anyways. not much about this is you specific”

followed by some gentle praise.

do i really need to put us thru the emotions of a breakup when i could just back off, maybe even..slowly ghost you?

in the depths of my ‘blah y we bringing this up’ thoughts i acknowledge that would probably feel safer to u than any semblance of stability we’ve ever had.

Emotionally unavailable people seem inviting and warm at the beginning, crushes form very easily. and then when you get just a little too close, a little too much: they can't be invested, they can't be present, maybe even they don't want to.

Okay so now like what am I supposed to do with that? So what to we do?

A date with the truth

Hi. I wasn’t sure if i wanted you to come. I mean I did want to come if you know what I mean ;) Sorry, lately my humour has been quite juvenile, even mean. I dnt have a handle on it. I dnt kno if it’s bc I have been letting my attitude and frustration control my actions or bc I am horny all the time (haha get it? frustrating;). I think, it might just be a 30:70. but, yes, I did not want to answer, I was “going” to stand u up. try to again. but i’m too nice? subconsciously curl those emotions up into a ball. i stumbled onto a list of ‘anti-love language’ (aka what not to do to your partner with X luv language) “examples”? weird thing to come up on my tumblr feed tbh…and i’m not all too keen on LL or Attachment theory, but anyways you know that sinking feeling u get in ur chest when you’re wildly anxious?? reading the bullet points under my two primary love languages- quality time and touch, i took an ativan. funny bc i already knew that? just a lovely random confirmation that i am essentially and very knowingly allowing myself to be neglected bc idk? love? bc fuck it? bc i really don’t actually care that much about structure anymore? do i really need to put us thru the emotions of a breakup when i could just back off, maybe even..slowly ghost you? in the depths of my ‘blah y we bringing this up’ thoughts i acknowledge that would probably feel safer to u than any semblance of stability we’ve ever had. in the hard to admit files, buried surprisingly close to the jealousy ones- i replay the visit recording of my therapist telling me to “try and find relief in the fact that * would be like this with whoever, unless that person was matching the energy- which would most likely result in their disinterest anyways. not much about this is you specific” followed by some gentle praise. knowing this about you doesn’t change how (much) i love you.

i dnt kno. It's been a while since I felt like I kno all there is to know about me, and how i am as a person, and how i would react in a given situation. can’t expect u to know much about urself too.

was this really a date?

nevercured

Are you crying?

Did I scare you? I really didn't mean to. It's just you look so beautiful when you're afraid and I thought everyone should get a chance to see you.

I want everyone else to see how scared you are of me. Make everyone feel bad for you. Show everyone your tears, put on a show. That way they'll get scared of me, too.

Give me your fear. It's intoxicating.

reblog for healthy polyamory ignore for unnecessary heterosexual love triangles

cerberus-butch

Thinking about body worship and praise in the context of trying to feel good despite pain. I have chronic pain/ illness and my body hurts a lot . Sometimes that looks like wanting to be hurt , because then I have some control of the pain . Other times , I think it might fix me for a little while if someone were to run their hands over my body , telling me how beautiful and perfect it is for them . Even though I feel like it’s useless sometimes in my frustration and internalized ableism , it’s not with them. When I’m having a bad day where everything is painful , just being held and adored , another reminder that I’m worth something even if I hurt would feel amazing. I think that might help remind me to have a little more compassion for myself , and that I deserve to feel good .

bobbysox

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hailhailsatan

I've been thinking more about how soft dom's use questions as a way for their sub's to feel that soft control? And to encourage communication? Especially if they already know the answer, and give you that look 👀👀

Are you sure about that, sweetheart?

Can you show me?

Is that too hard for you, darling?

Do you need help?

Are you excited?

Could you do one more for me, baby?

Are you going to sit nice?

Are you going to behave today?

Do you need to hold my hand?

And then, followed up with "well done, thank you, so good." because being praised for using your words is ❤️🤭🥰❤️