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[prettiestpear]

[21istoomanypilots]

“I hope this message finds you well”

how the message be finding me:

[inthesensethat]

[hexthelex-deactivated20250420]

This is true btw

[letmeliedown]

the podcast If Books Could Kill has a really great episode on the original book and its legacy! just a bunch of misogynist evangelical bullshit really

[cherishedproperty]

I want to clarify something kind of important because this kinda used to be my field. The concept that people express and feel love in different ways, and that this might lead to misunderstandings, IS something with scientific merit. The idea that there are just five and we know what they are is NOT. The idea that people have a primary love language is NOT.

In science, we have a saying. All models are wrong, but some are useful. That’s how I see the love languages framework. It is inherently flawed, but some of its concepts are useful. Communicate with your partner what makes you feel loved and understand what makes them feel loved. Understand how your partner shows love. There is immense value in that. But don’t over-index on which one of the five you are. That part doesn’t matter.

[thesunflowersqueen]

#love languages#really reblogging for that last comment though#“all models are wrong but some are useful”#the concept is sound but the specifics are uhhhh not (via @mad-madam-m)

[f4yelosophy-deactivated20260411]

does it ever drive you crazy

just how fast the night changes

[ms-demeanor]

this made me laugh so hard that it triggered an asthma attack.

[ciel-lapine]

When the sun filters through the trees in a magical way

[tyjumpsuit]

his ass is NOT listening!!

[gvbrielleart]

oh mercy

[blossomedsloth]

No but seriously imagine it:

You’re seeing fall out boy on a concert. Everyone is having a great time. Fall out boy seem a little excited. “We have a surprise for you guys.” Partick says. All of a sudden P!ATD come out and start singing “this is gospel.” When Brendon gets to the chorus, someone else starts singing… “When I was a young boy my father took me into the city to see a marching band.” Lights flash everywhere, and you see FOB singing “this is gospel” along with P!ATD, while MCR is singing “Black parade”. Everyone in the crowd is going wild and crying. Then if things couldn’t get any better, Dan and Phil walk onto stage and kiss, holding the gay flag.

[nightnaut96]

[g0ff1k]

i js think the contrast is funny lol

based on this

[soul-stiice]

How thing’s should’ve gone

[breachyaoi]

looks at you like O_O

[yagoodoobee]

keep thinking about how in middle school (2016-18) my (somewhat offline) best friend asked me about dan and phil and said something along the lines “aren’t they gay?” and because i wasn’t sure how to explain the Conspiracy Of It All my first and only response was “…yes.”

my fault

[crabussy]

sighing really long and loud. they should invent an essay that does itself

[crabussy]

(horror drone sound effect in the background getting louder) (remembering it is 2025) but not like that

[coughdropsandsoftspots]

[yagoodoobee]

We (Almost) Had To CANCEL a SHOW (NOT CLICKBAIT) (WEATHER GONE WRONG)