Flannel and Floral

Queer. Crochet. Cats. Babes.

[sosuperawesome]

Fingerless gloves by nbGlovesAndMittens on Etsy

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[secretlesbians]

Jean Alphonse Roehn, Two Women in Bed Disturbed by a Cat

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who else feels like a spider web sewn between two branches that is only visible when the sunlight hits it from a certain angle

[awesome-picz]

Cats That Don’t Care About Your Personal Space

[dkljfdsajflsdkjf]

Too fucking real.

[fuckyeahandrogynousgirls]

[the-library-and-step-on-it]

I know that if women wish to escape the stigma of husband-seeking, they must act and look like marble or clay - cold, expressionless, bloodless; for every appearance of feeling, of joy, sorrow, friendliness, antipathy, admiration, disgust, are alike construed by the world into the attempt to hook a husband. Never mind! well-meaning women have their own consciences to comfort them after all. Do not, therefore, be too much afraid of showing yourself as you are, affectionate and good-heartened; do not too harshly repress sentiments and feelings excellent in themselves, because you fear that some puppy may fancy that you are letting them come out to fascinate him; do not condemn yourself to live only by halves, because if you showed too much animation some pragmatical thing in breeches might take it into his pate to imagine that you designed to dedicate your life to his inanity.

Charlotte Brontë writing to a friend who had been kind to a man she thought was married, only to have him fall in love with her because he thought she was flirting (letter dated April 2, 1845).  (via fatinspiration)

[diyncrafts]

Free Crochet Pattern: Adult-Sized Mermaid Lapghan to Keep You Warm on those Chilly Nights

http://www.diyncrafts.com/11807/fashion/free-crochet-pattern-adult-sized-mermaid-lapghan-to-keep-you-warm-on-those-chilly-nights

[myfavoritedemons]

neednothavehappenedtobetrue

[disabledpaladin]

you know what… this might be handy for wheelchair users too, if youre going to be in a cold environment for a long time (id personally figure out how to shorten the flippy fin bit but thats cause of how my wheelchair sits)

[lemonpixycat]

PERFECT FOR BEING A MERMAID I WANNA BE ONE TOO

[hollowedskin]

FIRST thing i thought was “i need to share this for my followers who use wheelchairs” BEST.

[daunvaliant]

ohflattery

[beescream]

hauntedtesty PLEASE MAKE ME THIS I’LL PAY YOU also my sister wants one too IM SERIOUS THO

[jhameia]

rubato! 

[rubato]

oh god this would take forever but yes!!!

[fempersephone-deactivated201804]

I’m here for the girls who unwillingly consented to sex or sexual acts because they were in a situation where they didn’t feel as if they had the right to say no and now feel violated but don’t feel like they can say they were raped or molested.

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this is probably one of the most important text posts i have ever seen because i feel like this is a HUGE issue among teenagers especially young girls in today’s social culture and nobody talks about it. nobody tells you that you were in fact abused and sometimes it takes you years to finally realize what happened to you was wrong, and it’s really scary and confusing! we need to teach each other that “rape” or “molestation” can happen in many circumstances and not just the ones we are taught!!!!

[mostlycatsmostly]

(via top-monk)

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[yarnramen]

I love these (except the weird victim-blaming ones)

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Daddy versus daughter: Beatbox Battle Pt. 2

[dirtylavendar-deactivated202206]

Okay yo I have NEVA heard ANYONE be SO DAMN vocal while beat boxing WHAT THE FUCK, yo she murdered you pops but you taught her well.

[fxbulousss]

THIS IS SO FUCKING WAVY OMDZ

[iliveonfashionave]

BRUHHHHHHH torreyashanti

[habeshabeautymark]

Im glad i came across this,i hope she gets discovered

[5tacks]

well damn she shitted on him lmao

[jangysprangus-blog]

What in the cottage cheese

[saturdaymorning]

You can tell when she starts feeling it more and she’s slowing standing up.

Holy shit this girl should be famous

[atlanxic-deactivated20250205]

sometimes you say or do bad things while you’re in an awful mental place. sometimes you say things that are rude or uncalled for or manipulative. and i’m not going to hold that against you. mental illness is hard, and no one is perfect. but once you’re through that episode, you need to take steps to make amends. you need to apologize.

“i couldn’t help it, i was having a bad episode” is a justification, not an apology.

“i’m so fucking sorry, i fucked up, i don’t deserve to live, i should stop talking to anyone ever, i should die” is a second breakdown and a guilt trip. it is not an apology.

when you apologize, the focus should be on the person you hurt. “i’m sorry. i did something that was hurtful to you. even if i was having a rough time, you didn’t deserve to hear that,” is a better apology. if it was a small thing, you can leave it at that.

if you caused significant distress to the other person, this is a good time to talk about how you can minimize damage in the future. and again, even if it is tempting to say you should self-isolate and/or die, that is not a helpful suggestion. it will result in the person you’re talking to trying to talk you out of doing that, which makes your guilt the focus of the conversation instead of their hurt.

you deserve friendship, and you deserve support. but a supportive friend is not an emotional punching bag, and mental illness does not absolve you of responsibility for your actions. what you say during a mental breakdown doesn’t define you. how you deal with the aftermath though, says a lot.

[tragiccottonball]

[cruxandcrowvintage]

Handmade spiderweb crochet dress…

https://www.etsy.com/au/listing/231388002/crochet-dress-vintage-lace-spiderweb?ref=shop_home_feat_3

[animal-factbook]

Once again, cat sibling rivalry is seen at its finest. The older brother cat cleverly wiggles itself out from under the couch in order to annoy the younger sibling. This behavior is frequently seen in many varieties of felines. 

[yarnramen]

that wiggle

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