btw if we're on a car journey together and I tell you I need to pee, its always okay to tell me to hold it, in fact it's preffered
actually this applies to all of the time. its always okay to tell me to hold, I should be expecting it, I should never be sure that I can pee when I want
"no you're not" should be the default response when I say I'm gonna go pee
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