safeword: "safeword", "stop", "red light"
check in signal: "pause", "check in", "🫨"
keep going signal: "💚", "green light", "thank you"
more/harder signal: "❣️", "ez"
my current role: submissive, bladder holder
i want: attention, praise, teasing, to be controlled
treat me like a: plaything, good girl, and cute slut
(updated may 2026) i want to be denied permission to pee 95% of the time, and controlled in some other way the other 5%. the signal that i need to pee immediately is "pretty please", but i may also pee without permission. if i do, it is encouraged to threaten punishments about it. i'll sometimes use parentheses to (talk like this) to clarify tone or intention.
about me: i'm a switch, age in my 30s, from north america. nonbinary tme bisexual & trans. this is a kink blog, so 18+ only.
pronouns: that one, they, it, or mirror pronouns. gender neutral or androgynous language is best, mix it up if you like.
i have an omo server on discord called the cuddle puddle. main rules: 18+ obviously, no age regression kinks, no incest kinks, no 'momm/y' or 'dadd/y' titles or roleplay, no sexualizing littles or kids, no art of minors. introduce yourself first, and within a couple of days a mod will grant access to the main channels.
omo challenge wheel: https://pickerwheel.com/?id=N8r9U
fict omo prompt wheel: https://pickerwheel.com/?id=eqM8h
i love interaction; anons, asks, reblogs, and replies are all good! the dm system doesn't like me, and i prefer keeping things semi-public here until i know someone better. communicate your limits too, especially titles and pet names. i love pet names 💖
B: object insertion, lingerie, dacryphilia, hard s&m, temperature play, costumes and uniforms, worship
C: petplay, feet, wax play, body writing, sneezing
top tier fantasies: being denied permission to pee, especially if it's until i beg/admit that i'm going to have an accident if i don't get permission. being told what to drink. being told to hold it all 'or else'. being told to leak a little. having to ask permission to cross my legs or hold my crotch. being told if i can't hold it/obey whatever holding rule, i'll be punished: i love funishment oh my god. i love being threatened with no toilet breaks or with lots more drinks and nowhere to relieve myself. praise! praise + humiliation! bondage predicaments!
also great: sexual omo. sharing fantasies. someone describing accidents or their own relief to make my desperation more urgent. talking about how full i must be and how much i'd love to pee. multiple doms giving me attention. multiple subs holding with me, competing for attention. sensory play. pressing or massaging my full bladder. mild intox. being told what to wear.
good: teasing about waterfalls, water sounds, etc. fantasies about consensual public stuff. golden showers. light s&m. sounding. holding contests. peeing somewhere besides a toilet. holding a long time. rapid desp. making me admit/explain what i want in detail. some watersports.
ok: 'you only want to pee, you don't need to.' measuring capacity (it's a lot. and therefore kind of a pain to measure)
ask first: 'you don't need to pee, you're not desperate, you just think you are' gaslight type teasing. unrealistic hold goals. holding indefinitely without a goal. short term no touch. pleasure denial / joi. piss drinking. overstim. hard s/m.
no: diap/ers or agep/lay. actual oppression or abuse, including under/age. orgasm denial.
i'm a fat trans person with a fat trans dick and 3 holes. i call my cunt a hole or a cunt but 'pussy' just doesn't do it for me. gender neutral, masc, or androgynous language preferred. you can switch it up, i'll let you know if i like/dislike something.
i have a wand vibe, several other vibes, several dildos, other toys and plugs, a stand to pee funnel, and a decent amount of bondage supplies that you should also feel free to ask me about
i love talking to people, even if you don't want to talk about sex or bdsm explicitly. i live in an apartment so i can't really do jumping jacks at 3am.
piss kink safety patrol! (for golden showers, drinking piss, internal pissing— anal and vaginal, holding, and wetting)
if you are being pissed on
very very minimal safety risks here
close those eyes baby! the second piss is anywhere near the face— close your eyes. that shit stings. have you ever had cum in your eye? it’s like that, but way harder to wipe off.
try not to do this with any fresh piercings, new tattoos, open wounds, or anything else that’s begging to get infected
if you are ingesting urine
what medications is your partner on? can they be passed through urine? (most likely they can be— in very trace amounts. but those trace amounts can be important to be aware of depending on your situation)
has your partner recently ingested something (medication, food, etc) that you are allergic to? or something that interacts with your meds? if they have, is it worth that risk?
has your partner recently taken any drugs? can they be passed through urine? (most likely they can be— in very trace amounts. those trace amounts may or may not be enough to cause a reaction, and may or may not be enough to fail a drug test <- has happened to people!)
on one non-safety note… you’re probably not going to love the taste of piss. regardless. you might! but most do not. it’s piss. really well hydrated piss can be very enjoyable (I like it a lot!), really dehydrated piss might make you puke. diet changes the taste— just like cum, but more directly. coffee, asparagus, lots of meat… all things that can make it particularly strong (and some people love that! some people do that on purpose! but I would maybe not… start there). lots of juice + lots and lots of water can make it very mild. medications and supplements can change the taste. lots of people anecdotally like the way beer or diet soda makes it taste. first piss of the day is considerably stronger and more unpleasant than any other time.
if you are doing internal pissing (anal)
if you are getting it straight from the tap (penis or funneled in): minimal to no risk. pee is not sterile! urine is not sterile. but you’re not gonna run into a ton of issues here. the real concern is if you’re dealing with abnormal abrasions, likely from particularly rough anal sex, you’re going to be more at risk for infection. keep an eye on it, take a shower, etc. you’re probably all good.
if you are getting a larger volume than one normal pee (bottle, etc, any amount of built-up fluid from multiple pees): this is less a safety risk and more just a heads up. chances are this will kind of accidentally enema you. and then you will shit. pretty immediately. if you’ve done a ton of anal prep (including enema) beforehand, you’re likely going to be fine.
if you are doing internal pissing (vaginal)
now we’re looking at pH balances. urine is more basic than the natural flora of a vaginal ecosystem, which can cause problems.
if you are prone to UTIs, yeast infections, or bacterial vaginosis, you should probably prepare for that. if that’s the risk you’d like to take, that’s your choice! but if your pH balance is delicate, piss is absolutely going to disrupt it.
even if you’re not prone, the risk for all of the above is there!
PEE. AFTER. BEING. PEED IN. please 😚 you’ll save yourself so much trouble. and I mean pee, don’t just evacuate the foreign piss. if you’re not already peeing after sex in general… start now!
if you’re doing any kind of holding:
any long-term holding (and I mean, like, having holding your pee for long periods of time become a part of your life for years) can result in slight to moderate incontinence (leaking) and weakened pelvic floor muscles. make sure you’re doing pelvic floor exercises! it’s best to sometimes give yourself an extended break from a holding kink, but I won’t tell you what to do.
there’s no real One Answer for “how long is it okay to hold at one time?”, but it’s better to do high hydration/stronger desperation/shorter hold than it is to do low hydration/less need to pee/longer hold, for hydration purposes. the longer you hold, the more you are at risk for UTIs and potentially bladder infections (cystitis, a kind of UTI). bladder infections have a chance of becoming kidney infections. no, there’s no One Set Time, but no, it’s not safe to hold all day either. listen to your body as best you can.
find your limits and set them. I’m prone to UTIs (and have a weak bladder), so I have different levels of “okay to hold”. I have found the maximum amount of water and its correlating hold times that work for me— and hold time is never over an hour. that’s my risk profile.
if you’re wetting
sitting in your wet mess can be fun and humiliating, but can also cause rashes. I literally cannot speak to diaper instances, I have no experience there, but most fabrics will start to be uncomfortable while wet after a while, and sitting in your piss can cause chafing, rashes, skin irritation… and again, sitting in pissed in underwear (or garments close to the genitalia) can cause UTIs + yeast infections, especially in vulvas.
AS ALWAYS, when dealing with someone else’s fluids inside your body, you are at risk for STIs. get tested, keep getting tested, take PrEP, have the conversations, know your body, and above all, be aware of what risks you run. this shit is fun and wonderful— funderful— and should stay that way. safe pissing (or lack thereof) everybody!
im way too good at controlling my bladder, someone should help me weaken my control. maybe take a day to make me leak on command, do lots of rapid desp, half-empty and then refill...
ok so I already talked about a historical omo fantasy in my last ask, so i’ll talk about a modern-day but still unrealistic fantasy
i’d love to be tied up/handcuffed/otherwise restrained in the middle of a room at a party. people can interact if they’d like — give me a drink, brush their hands over my dick — but some choose to simply mingle with the other partygoers, treating my whimpers and potty dance as white noise. as the party goes on, I get more and more desperate until I start leaking and eventually wet myself, all in full view of the partygoers
theres definitely a wet spot. but i dont think its pee. mostly probably. god that felt good
i dont. thats one of the most swollen
god that was a relief i dont know when i was last that full
i couldnt even sit down on the toilet at first. like my bladder was so full that. bending over to sit. wasn't. like i couldnt. i had to crouch a little and pee for like. five seconds. before my bladder had enough room to let me sit down
fuck my shorts are digging into my bladder bulge so hard. i shifted so my legs were open. at first it made more room but fuck. fuck thers so much pressure, fuck
please may i unbutton my shorts, fuck, i feel like im about to burst, theres no room
