safeword: "safeword", "stop", "red light"
check in signal: "pause", "check in", "🫨"
keep going signal: "💚", "green light", "thank you"
more/harder signal: "❣️", "ez"
my current role: submissive, bladder holder
i want: attention, praise, teasing, to be controlled
treat me like a: plaything, good girl, and cute slut
(updated may 2026) i want to be denied permission to pee 95% of the time, and controlled in some other way the other 5%. the signal that i need to pee immediately is "pretty please", but i may also pee without permission. if i do, it is encouraged to threaten punishments about it. i'll sometimes use parentheses to (talk like this) to clarify tone or intention.
about me: i'm a switch, age in my 30s, from north america. nonbinary tme bisexual & trans. this is a kink blog, so 18+ only.
pronouns: that one, they, it, or mirror pronouns. gender neutral or androgynous language is best, mix it up if you like.
i have an omo server on discord called the cuddle puddle. main rules: 18+ obviously, no age regression kinks, no incest kinks, no 'momm/y' or 'dadd/y' titles or roleplay, no sexualizing littles or kids, no art of minors. introduce yourself first, and within a couple of days a mod will grant access to the main channels.
omo challenge wheel: https://pickerwheel.com/?id=N8r9U
fict omo prompt wheel: https://pickerwheel.com/?id=eqM8h
i love interaction; anons, asks, reblogs, and replies are all good! the dm system doesn't like me, and i prefer keeping things semi-public here until i know someone better. communicate your limits too, especially titles and pet names. i love pet names 💖
B: object insertion, lingerie, dacryphilia, hard s&m, temperature play, costumes and uniforms, worship
C: petplay, feet, wax play, body writing, sneezing
top tier fantasies: being denied permission to pee, especially if it's until i beg/admit that i'm going to have an accident if i don't get permission. being told what to drink. being told to hold it all 'or else'. being told to leak a little. having to ask permission to cross my legs or hold my crotch. being told if i can't hold it/obey whatever holding rule, i'll be punished: i love funishment oh my god. i love being threatened with no toilet breaks or with lots more drinks and nowhere to relieve myself. praise! praise + humiliation! bondage predicaments!
also great: sexual omo. sharing fantasies. someone describing accidents or their own relief to make my desperation more urgent. talking about how full i must be and how much i'd love to pee. multiple doms giving me attention. multiple subs holding with me, competing for attention. sensory play. pressing or massaging my full bladder. mild intox. being told what to wear.
good: teasing about waterfalls, water sounds, etc. fantasies about consensual public stuff. golden showers. light s&m. sounding. holding contests. peeing somewhere besides a toilet. holding a long time. rapid desp. making me admit/explain what i want in detail. some watersports.
ok: 'you only want to pee, you don't need to.' measuring capacity (it's a lot. and therefore kind of a pain to measure)
ask first: 'you don't need to pee, you're not desperate, you just think you are' gaslight type teasing. unrealistic hold goals. holding indefinitely without a goal. short term no touch. pleasure denial / joi. piss drinking. overstim. hard s/m.
no: diap/ers or agep/lay. actual oppression or abuse, including under/age. orgasm denial.
i'm a fat trans person with a fat trans dick and 3 holes. i call my cunt a hole or a cunt but 'pussy' just doesn't do it for me. gender neutral, masc, or androgynous language preferred. you can switch it up, i'll let you know if i like/dislike something.
i have a wand vibe, several other vibes, several dildos, other toys and plugs, a stand to pee funnel, and a decent amount of bondage supplies that you should also feel free to ask me about
i love talking to people, even if you don't want to talk about sex or bdsm explicitly. i live in an apartment so i can't really do jumping jacks at 3am.
any tips for how to show my full bladder that its not in charge of me? i'm getting fidgety but i want to show my bladder whos boss! just because its full doesn't mean i have to stop and pee dance. its just gonna have to hold it!
Well, if you're still holding, then I would suggest you REALLY show it who's boss by listening to some trickling water sounds. Put mind over matter. Are you really going to let some tempting water sounds win? I don't think so! You can do it, your bladder just has to wait! 🤭
Thinking about bladder inflation, with massive bladder bulges!! How lovely would it be to poke and prod a sub’s massive sloshy bladder while they have to pee?
Just imagine.. rubbing circles on it, squishing it, giving them a tight hug…
Maybe their all tied up, so they can’t try to swat away your hands as you massage their bladder.
It’s full to the brim, heat radiating off of it because of the warm piss trapped inside. But it’s also more like a water balloon, you can’t help but play with it! Jiggling it, even giving it a few kisses.. they’re such a good sub for holding so much! And they’ll keep holding until you say they can pee.
thinking also about the way it feels, that first leaking spurt. the way it rushes out. thickly or disappointingly weak. the guilty relief that it happened. the instinctive clench. the catch in the back of your throat
A full bladder feels so urgent, but it’s lying to you. When you have a bladder that’s so so full, you need to relax into it, let it be huge and heavy, run your hands over the bulge of your lower belly, and feel how perfect it is. You need to force all that pee that’s screaming at you to let it go to be still.
Because there’s no release coming. You’re never going to pee. You’re just going to hold it and hold it and hold it and get fuller than you ever thought possible. It’s no use squirming or being impatient. You’ll just have to learn to love the way your bladder swells, the ecstasy of pressure, the maddening spasms that will only get worse the longer you hold. You have to love being desperate like it’s the best thing in the world.
I have a numbers and statistics fetish. Let’s measure your bladder capacity by making you drink and drink until you can’t hold it anymore and make you pee in a beaker like you’re being tested for drugs. Would it be less embarrassing for you if I had scrubs and a lab coat on or more? What if we had to do lots and lots of trials to make sure we find the absolute most you can possibly contain? What if I made you hold until it hurt and you were scared you might literally burst a seam?
