Sparks fly! ♥

032696. ♥ Female. Still student. Yellow. Someone who still believes in cloud watching. People watching. daydreaming. tomorrow. favorite colors. silver clouds. dandelions. sorrow. A girl who changes minds. takes chances. turns heads. listens. She is the first to arrive. the last to leave. the first to lend a hand. A girl who remembers. pauses. makes an effort. laughs. I am unique. irreplaceable. REAL. = ME. :) Birthday Countdown

[pre-party]

[oces]

[wnq-writers]

10 pieces of advice to give yourself at the age of 20

At the age of 11, you learned that perfection does not always mean a flat tummy and a thigh gap. Go on and eat that second piece of cookie that you crave so much.

At the age of 12, you learned that just because you call her “mom” and him as “dad,” it doesn’t mean they inherently know how to be that. Also, suicide poison is not the cure for everything, it’s not a cure at all.

At the age of 13, you learned the difference between giving up and taking a rest. You might have given it your all but not make it. Remember to disregard everything that comes after but.

At the age of 14, you learned that standing up for everyone else does not mean that all of them will stand up for you when you need someone. Not one of them would be the first one to defend you, that spot is reserved for your name.

At the age of 15, you learned that people rarely mean what they say even if as a writer, you deem each and every word important. Learn to know the voices that speak sincerity and the voices that are just trying to get into your pants.

At the age of 16, you learned that letting go of people that only brings toxicity in your life is never a crime. Thinking about your own peace of mind does not make you selfish. Neither does placing yourself above that last number on your priority list.

At the age of 17, you learned that giving yourself to everyone willing could only lead to one thing: your own’s deterioration. Dear, you are more precious than someone who can’t even look into your eyes in the morning.

At the age of 18, you learned that loving and accepting yourself are two different things. Placing yourself in situations you are well aware of your self distraction is never loving yourself.

At the age of 19, you learned that lovers are not the only ones that can break your heart. People stay and go for a reason. Remember to treasure the rightful ones that life allowed to stay.

You’re 20 now and life has never been what you expected and planned it to be and that’s possibly the greatest thing that can happen into your life. You’re a writer but life writes with you, know when to let it leave significant marks and know when your own pen should be the one doing so.

written by bleakfantasies,  writing prompt #62: list 10 pieces of advice you’d give yourself

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[wnq-writers]

Things that were hard to accept 1. Your expectations are just that. Your expectations. People are not obligated to live up to them or abide by them. Even if they are in certain cases obligated to do so, there is no guarantee that they will. So don’t base your plans on that. And don’t base your life on that. 2. You can walk away. But so can they. You can be hurt and you can be mad. But they will still walk away. They have that option. They can exercise that choice. People can get toxic for you. Believe it or not, so can you. 3. People have bullied you. And teased you. And judged you. But the person judging you constantly and the most harshly is you yourself. 4. They don’t respect you because you don’t respect yourself. 5. Not letting go is only keeping you sad and frustrated and stuck. They are unaffected. They are living their life wonderfully. They are free. 6. Taking care of yourself takes effort. It’s not just good feel quotes and pretty aesthetics. It’s work. A lot of work. It’s doing things that take time and sometimes it’s doing things you don’t want to do. 7. It’s gone. The past. You can regret as much as you like. But you’re only wasting more time. 8. Sometimes you are going to use the word love even though you don’t 100% want to. It’s because like is too little and there is no word in between. It’s because we use the same word for fries and for people. It’s because love means so many different things to every individual. It’s because you do love them. In one of those several meanings. 9. Sometimes you have to suck it up. It’s okay. Not every situation is meant for you to show your ‘true courage’ or real feelings.

creatingnikki  (via wnq-writers)

[youngsalmahayek-deactivated2015]

I’m uglyish but I pull it off

[rebelbeattt]

[lovelustquotes]

Each morning when I open my eyes I say to myself- I, not events, have the power to make me happy or unhappy. Today I can choose which it shall be. Yesterday is dead. Tomorrow hasn’t arrived yet. I have just one day, today, and I’m going to be happy in it.

Groucho Marx (via lovelustquotes)

[happybecauseofgrace]

that type of love where you just flow deeper and deeper and deeper, even though the feeling will be unfamiliar, because you’ve never came close to this feeling before but everything is still beautiful. that type of love that keeps you feeling grateful, eases your mind, touches your soul and opens your heart. that type of love that make you believe that dreams can become real. it inspires, motivates and uplifts. it’s comfortable.

[asoftwrongness]

[perrfectly]

[horrifying]

[bled]

[elluv]

[hipindie]

sunset

[thesecretletter]

Out of all the stars in the galaxy, you were the star hidden that I failed to find for many years. I searched through the worst stars, but settled for them because they were the closest to me, the easiest to reach. You were far away, and I finally made the reach. I knew I deserved something beautiful, not one of those rotten stars, but an alluring on that shimmers even through the darkest times. And I, wholeheartedly, am in love with all of you. While you may be the brightest star, you are not the most perfect one either. But isn’t that everybody? Imperfections make a soul beautiful, and you are by far the most beautiful one I’ve seen.

Submit your secrets here (via thelovewhisperer)

[lovelustquotes]

One of the risks of being quiet is that the other people can fill your silence with their own interpretation: You’re bored. You’re depressed. You’re shy. You’re stuck up. You’re judgmental. When others can’t read us, they write their own story—not always one we choose or that’s true to who we are.

Sophia Dembling (via lovelustquotes)

[lovelustquotes]