Aperture

Whatever God's written for me is what I want. Allah knows while we do not.

[yourchocolatemalt]

I hope you don't die before you're dead. I hope you achieve your dreams. I hope Allah forgive your sins and make you a better man. I hope everything nice for you. I hope you live a fulfilling life.

[maureen2musings]

Lavertezzo & Foroglio, in the Ticino region of Switzerland

carlo_wiewaswo

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[heylsgowt]

[ashotasfireandasdeepastheocean1]

~ water is life ~

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[pisces-core]

[overclassy]

[pisces-core]

[neverlvnd]

X

[travelingdoe]

germany, castle schwerin juli 26’

[adriela-poma]

Roses 🌹

[stuckinapril]

I think part of getting better is complete ego death. Like you’re not above setting a timer for 5 minutes and focusing on a task. You’re not above doing a very simple 3 minute workout to start. You’re not above reading for 10 minutes a day when you first get out of your reading slump, even if you used to read for hours. You’re not above starting slow and then building up to where you want to be/where you once were. What you are above is total inertia. Doing something really is better than doing nothing. Radically accept where you are, radically accept your limits, and go from there. Don’t let your ego get in the way.

[yourchocolatemalt]

I'm in lurveee <3

[yourchocolatemalt]

Deciding to be better

I was emotionally burnt out last night. Totally empty. My mom even had to feed me dinner as I couldn't bring myself to. Tears just flowed while I ate. I am better this morning. I have rested and emotionally processed. I promise to stick to myself. Because people-pleasing even if you think it's for the other person's sake, to not have friction, is a form of betrayal. Experienced that myself this morning. When they really said what they think, I felt betrayed because it's 180 degree from what they said in the beginning. Even if the truth can hurt in the beginning, honesty always wins. Always. Just be kind in saying it. Betrayal hurts way more and longer in the long run. It breaks trust and makes it hard for them to trust your words.

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[yourchocolatemalt]

Apparently people-pleasing doesn't please people. Instead it is betrayal to both parties, yourself and them. So just stick to being yourself.

[nagsyl]

[speutschlish]

“‏ما كان مقدرا لك سيأتيك ولو كان بين جبلين What is meant for you, will reach you even if it is beneath two mountains. وما لم يكن مقدرا لك لن يأتيك ولو كان بين شفتيك And what isn’t meant for you, won’t reach you even if it is between your two lips.”

— (via arab-quotes)

[yourchocolatemalt]

Whatever God's written for me is what I want. Make them clear for me, for him too YRA. I want no resentment nor hate in my heart of him. I loved him. I love him. Make us live a good fulfilling life for You, with or without each other. I have nothing else to pray for at this point. That's all, God. What are you teaching us?