friendsim vol. 69

it just takes a little patience, takes a little time. ✪ inactive as of 03-01-2021

[yourfriendsimf-o]

blood and heart players know what's good 😎

COME GET YOUR JUICE BLOOD/HEART PLAYERS 

[yourfriendsimf-o]

HEY DAMIAN LET ME GIVE YOU A MATCHUP!!! Based on my super awesome analysis of your personality i have determined you are deserving of all the love and affection you desire and your troll buddies are on their way right now to bring you hugs and kisses and snuggles. It's your lucky day!!!

it’s my lucky day! i re-read this yesterday and 

*that one emoji that has the big shiny eyes followed by the two pointer finger emojis that are facing each other*

yeah. that’s me 

[yourfriendsimf-o]

Do you know what happened to @mx-prez? He hasn't posted in over a year and I'm worried about him... (I'm asking you since you're friends with him haha)

hey! you know as much as i know -- we haven’t talked in over a year, i believe.

[yourfriendsimf-o]

quicky (and badly) edited

Standing Galekh, enjoy him

[yourfriendsimf-o]

Yoooo why are so many of us lime-bloods? Also I’m very happy that you matched me with Marvus! I love me that big ol’ clown.

it’s because lime-bloods fuckin slap 

and !!!!!!! im so glad i could make you happy! it was the ‘not being good at conversation’ bit that had me go for marvus surprisingly? idk what it was about that line but YEAH. marv

[yourfriendsimf-o]

matchup for @pichu-chu​ ( @friendsim-more-like-lovesim ), who submitted her matchup to me. 

(i saved the best for last. let’s go out with a bang...!)

your sign is CANSCES - you are lime-blooded; you are a derse/life player. 

as a lime-blood, you experience life with great emotion. you are quite caring and you have a tendency to draw others towards you. as a derse player, you live life with varying degrees of skepticism and a relentless desire for rebellion. you are quite self-aware and much of your identity is built on having control of your surroundings. as a life player, you are committed to bettering yourself and others for the sake of it. you are a healer and are quite resourceful; you’re knowledgeable when it comes to bettering the ailments of others.

with this, the information you have provided me, and what i know about you personally, i match you with TYZIAS ENTYKK 

like you, they also hold themselves to incredibly high standards. they’ve got the world on their shoulders: many injustices to defend, people to protect. there’s just so much. equality, equity, and human/troll rights are so important to her; good thing it’s important to you, too. tyzias might not be the most artistic individual but they’re not gonna turn you down if you want to have an art night. it might be nice for them, actually. you both seem to be quite independent, relying on yourself so you don’t have to rely on others. you would work together to bring each other out of your shells in that aspect, remind each other that it’s okay to ask for help. remind each other to breathe, to unclench your jaw. tyzias deeply resonates with your mental illnesses and she’d be lying if she said hers weren’t debilitating, as well. 

you provided a lot of detail in your matchup... i have not posted your submission, but i can if you’d like. both you and tyzias can see yourselves in one another. if anything, you’ll learn to provide yourself with the same affirmations and care as you provide to tyzias and others. for some reason, we have been wired to be the hardest and meanest to ourselves, but we don’t deserve that, do we? you are deserving of creating amazing things and are deserving of living each and every day. it’s okay to rest. you are loved! 

(and with that, matchups are done! i have completed all of them! thanks for sticking by me even when this was sent back in NOVEMBER)

[yourfriendsimf-o]

matchup for @teatimetroubles, who submitted their matchup to me.

your sign is TAURLO - you are bronze-blooded; you are a prospit/heart player

as a bronze-blood, you can be rather withdrawn at first and it’ll take time for you to open up. you crave validation even if physically, you might not come across that way. you tend to seek out animals as companions. as a prospit-player, you carry yourself in an optimistic light. you tend to live in the present and are rather intuitive. your thought processes are everchanging and fluid. as a heart-player, forging your own identity is the most important thing to you; it is your primary focus. you are very self-aware of yourself and how you understand the world around you.

with this and the information you’ve provided me, i match you with MALLEK ADALOV

you provided a lot of detail about your hobbies, mental illnesses, and personality in your matchup and mallek literally vibes with all of it. (particularly the ‘radiating cosplayer tiktok energy’ part). mallek loves going with the flow of things and is easily able to read and match your social energy level. he doesn’t mind one day being super energetic and the other super laid-back. what matters to him is that you’re together. he loves to observe the way you carry yourself and how you interact with the world. he tries to promote self-care as best as he can although it can be hypocritical when he himself isn’t doing the same. he empathizes with you, and he understands you, and he will validate and reassure you of this. all he asks is that you reciprocate it back.

i didn’t post your matchup, i can if you’d like, though; you’ve been through a lot and i am so proud of you. i deeply empathize with your experiences regarding depression and i thank you for trusting in me enough to share it with me. you’ve been through a lot and i am proud of you. keep going.

[yourfriendsimf-o]

👉👈 Looking for a matchup please. So, I'd describe myself as pretty bubbly, but I'm also chill sometimes. I'd also say I care somuch about the people in my life, and I tend to be hella patient with everyone. I usually hand out gifts and hugs to friends and partners alike like it's nothing. I like to crochet and draw a bit, but I also play some video games. For my sign, standard zodiac is Aries, but extended is Arcer.

your sign is ARCER - you are rust-blooded; you are a prospit/blood player

as a rust-blood, you are extremely adventurous and aren’t afraid to stir the pot a bit if you are needing some excitement. you are rather energetic and crave new experiences. as a prospit-player, you carry yourself in an optimistic light. you tend to live in the present and are rather intuitive. your thought processes are everchanging and fluid. as a blood-player, you gain your strength from the bonds you have with your friends. you thrive in settings with mutual trust and commitment to a shared vision or idea.

with this, the information you have provided, and what i know about you personally, i match you with TEGIRI KALBUR 

like you, tegiri craves nothing more than someone to love, a suitable companion. your outlook on life can teach him a lot and if anything, it’s refreshing to be around such a calm optimism. nothing too strong, nothing too eccentric. he is also quite patient and it’ll take the both of you time to warm up to one another. when he does, he’s loyal and dedicated all the way. together, you both can work together to combat and recognize insecurities you both share. he also loves latching onto fictional characters and creating content for them, as well as going into long-winded discussions regarding headcanons. he also seems like the type to find and gift you trinkets that remind him of you. 

he’ll be there to remind you that you are deserving of companionship and a partner. while your loneliness might seem like it’s all that exists, you are still so loved and so cared for, even if you can’t see it. the world is grueling and difficult, it’s nice to have a consistent person. 

[yourfriendsimf-o]

If you're still doing the match ups, I'd like one

I'm 20, 5'3, chubby, and female. I love art, spending time with friends and family, and reading. I'm quiet at first but once I know you, I'm a massive chatterbox. My partner's gender doesn't affect my attraction at all. I adore children and if I can, I want to adopt a baby with a mental disorder as they tend to be skipped more.

hi! i answered this last night, as well. but i am no longer doing matchups

the ones i am currently filling are back from november. apologies! 

[yourfriendsimf-o]

Hihi friend!! Okay so you do know me personally but I'll still give some fun details! Personality wise I tend to be pretty calm on the outside but pretty chaotic in my head. I love reading books and playing casual video games. I'm also a writer too! I listen to a mix of punk music, indie music, and broadway soundtracks. I tend to be a little shy when you first meet me but get a lot more social and open once you get to know me pretty well. I hope this is enough info (also ps. I love you!!)

your sign is VIRCEN - you are jade-blooded; you are a derse/life player. 

as a jade-blood, you are a natural caregiver. you can be non-confrontational and be particularly picky when it comes to details. as a derse player, you live life with varying degrees of skepticism and a relentless desire for rebellion. you are quite self-aware and much of your identity is built on having control of your surroundings. as a life player, you are committed to bettering yourself and others for the sake of it. you are a healer and are quite resourceful; you’re knowledgeable when it comes to bettering the ailments of others.

with this, the information you have provided me, and what i know about you personally, i match you with ELWURD 

elwurd can be rather rambunctious and enjoys socializing and being around others but it can get exhausting after a while, wouldn’t it? she’d be down to vibe with you; if anything, you calm her down a bit. you help to ground her and you remind her to take things slow. that being said, she’ll push your buttons (gently, of course) to get you out of your head. you both collaborate to balance each other’s energies out and what activities you do, whether it be independently or together. there’s plenty of mutual respect and reciprocation here. she also shows genuine intrigue in your stories and what you write; she’ll campaign to make things as queer as possible. 

elwurd, if anything, will help remind you to get out of your head a bit. it’s okay to live in the present, it’s okay to be in the now. she’ll remind you that even though whatever is going on in your head is valid and that when you’re ready, someone is ready to listen to what you have to say. your words are important and you’re deserving of someone who will listen. 

[yourfriendsimf-o]

Matchups you say? Well, I'm a 20 something year old, 5'7", chubby brunette with brown eyes! I like to draw, write, sing and paint!

I'm introverted but I make friends really easily, laid back and flirty but easily flustered too! I usually get very attached to Bastards™ because I see the good in everyone!

I already know the answer but I wanna see what you've got in store! -Modi 💜

(i did not plan for this. i genuinely did not plan for this. for the individuals who i know their f/o’s - i put extra effort into trying not to match them up with the f/o? but honestly? this one fits. i have “I DID NOT PLAN FOR THIS CHARACTER FUCK” written in my notebook?? i did not plan this)

your sign is AQUALO - you are violet-blooded; you are a prospit/heart player

as a violet-blood, you are very personable and are up for most anything. you build your own drum and you create your own beat to march to. as a prospit-player, you carry yourself in an optimistic light. you tend to live in the present and are rather intuitive. your thought processes are everchanging and fluid. as a heart-player, forging your own identity is the most important thing to you; it is your primary focus. you are very self-aware of yourself and how you understand the world around you.

with this, the information you have provided me, and what i know about you personally, i match you with ZEBRUH CODAKK

zebruh is more than willing to let you create your own beat to march to; to forge your own identity in the ways that work best for you. your energy and commitment to yourself eludes him, it makes him curious and it draws him towards you. he’s quite observant of you and if anything, he can learn a bit about creating his own person from you! not only is he willing to let you take the lead, but he’ll follow you wherever you go. he supports, and encourages, you to be the best version of you you can be. 

he’ll be there to remind you that despite everything, you’ve got this. life has been particularly grueling and rough lately; zebruh can help remind you that it’s okay to take a break and rest. you don’t always have to be doing something, you know? it’s alright to set things down when they’re a bit too heavy to hold. 

[yourfriendsimf-o]

Can I have a matchup pls? 👉👈 I'm Pansexual, and I have adhd! I'm a calon (heart + prospit lmao), I'm introverted and shy at first but I love joking around with my friends and teasing them (basically I'm bastard), I like reading, drawing, spending all day watching anime/series, and sometimes writing, I get angry easily, and I would 100% thrown hands with someone for my friends, I'm also pretty affectionate with people I like, thank you! 💕💖 ur blog is great btw :*

your sign is CANLO - you are lime-blooded, you are a prospit/heart player

as a lime-blood, you experience life with great emotion. you are quite caring and you have a tendency to draw others towards you. as a prospit-player, you carry yourself in an optimistic light. you tend to live in the present and are rather intuitive. your thought processes are everchanging and fluid. as a heart-player, forging your own identity is the most important thing to you; it is your primary focus. you are very self-aware of yourself and how you understand the world around you.

with this and the information you have provided, i match you with AZDAJA KNELAX

azdaja loves (and i mean loves) teasing and playful banter. it is absolutely one of the primary ways he’ll show affection and admiration towards you. it’ll take time for him to warm up to you (as it would for you to warm up to him, as well). azdaja is ridiculously observant and over time, he would be able to pick up on your body language as you’re becoming upset. he’s very logical but emotion can be hard for him to calculate and understand. that being said, he also absolutely indulges in anime and creating fan-content; he will go off about particular characters and debate their actions with you. 

azdaja, if anything, is content with being by your side in all that you do. if you’re there for him, he’ll without a doubt be there for you. you seem like a very self-driven, imaginative person and azdaja thinks so, too. 

[yourfriendsimf-o]

Hey! Apologies, this isnt a request. I just want you to know that konyyl, galekh, and tyzias adore you. I know this because when i talk to konyyl, she always gets so hyped up and excited about you, gishing about you until she cant even think of the right words and ends up punching a wall, because god she adores you and she doesnt even begin to know how to show it. I know galekh loves you because he literally doesnt shut up about you. Hes memorized your favorite color, your favorite smell, how you take your coffee if you take any at all and every little detail he can file away because he wants to be able to make sure youre happy. He absolutely likes to show off that he knows so much about you too, getting you things before you need to ask for them and watching with a smile when he finds that he was right. Tyzias is a little more low key with her love, i imagine she doesnt show it as much outwardly, but ive seen her sigh and draw a little hesrt in her notes before erasing it. Ive seen her smile when she gets a notification from you. She hears about something youre interested in and goes through and does as much research as she can so she can be good conversation. I hope this ask isnt bothersome, but i couldnt help but notice that your f/os adore you with all their hearts and all the ways it manifests (but genuinely let me know if this bugs you!!! I do this with my friends in a self shipping server but i dont want to make you uncomfortable!!!)

i can assure and affirm you with every fiber of my being, this does not make me uncomfortable at all ... ! 

this means so much to me. thank you. this is literally so important to me. i do not have the words right now. but i will be reading this over and over for the next couple of days. thank you so much. 

[yourfriendsimf-o]

Could I request a Match-up? I'm 5'7 and use They/Them pronouns. My extended zodiac sign is Cango and god damn I sure am here. I love singing, character and clothing design, and writing. I feel like I have too many choices for a major in college, I want to learn so many things! I wear a lot of hoodies, have pretty long hair, and tend to stick in my bedroom. I constantly switch between touch starved and touch disgusted. I forget things, space out a lot, and don't do conversation very well.

your sign is CANGA - you are lime-blooded; you are a derse/space player

as a lime-blood, you experience life with great emotion. you are quite caring and you have a tendency to draw others towards you. as a derse player, you live life with varying degrees of skepticism and a relentless desire for rebellion. you are quite self-aware and much of your identity is built on having control of your surroundings. as a space player, you are a master of choosing your battles. you are known for your ability to create and redeem; you are more focused on the bigger picture rather than the details that create it. 

with this and the information you have provided me, i match you with MARVUS XOLOTO:

it’s your lucky day because marvus is great at conversations. it’s easy for him to find mutual topics of interest for the two of you to discuss. that being said, he’s perfectly chill with silent moments, too. like you, he’s also very eager to learn and learn about perspectives that differ from his own. he’ll teach you if you teach him, and he’d love to discover new topics with you. he values your input in his outfit choices, too. he also looks forward to leaving little sticky notes for you to help you remember things 

both you and marvus would have a very reciprocal relationship, one with a lot of learning and observing the other. learning what each other likes, observing anxious tics or nightly routines. you two would be very patient with one another, taking things one day at a time. you are a very intelligent, bright-minded person and you light up marvus’ day. 

[yourfriendsimf-o]

hihi if youre still doing matchups,, i’m a 5’5 bisexual nonbinary maid of light. my sign is leo & i’m an ENFP, & if i had to describe myself i’d say i’m ambitious, hardworking, sensitive and sarcastic & i love poetry (both reading & writing). i tend to set really high expectations for myself, i am often moody, and though i hate 2 admit it i have self-destructive tendencies

OOPS MAID OF LIGHT ANON HERE i forgot to mention that i’m a derse dreamer & my true sign is lepia!!!

your sign is LEPIA - you are konyyl olive-blooded; you are a derse/light player.

as an olive-blood, you find comfort in what is familiar and you are quite agreeable. companionship is very important to you but if it is not working for you, you have no qualms with leaving it behind. as a derse player, you live life with varying degrees of skepticism and a relentless desire for rebellion. you are quite self-aware and much of your identity is built on having control of your surroundings. as a light player, you are driven to learn about the world around you. you excel in taking info from multiple sources and putting it together to understand it as one whole. 

with this, the information you have given me, and your myer-briggs type (which it took all of my power to not go into a MBTI-induced analysis with this one), i match you with SKYLLA KORIGA:

you said it yourself: you’re hardworking and ambitious. these two words coarse through skylla’s veins. she values these traits in you and is always looking forward to the projects you two decide to take on together. but also, skylla will ground you and remind you to take it easy in a firm but gentle way. she has no problems remaining at a baseline in times of high emotion. you both are quite intuitive; she’ll still encourage you to verbalize how you’re feeling and if you need anything. 

skylla, if anything, will be there to remind you that you are worth it and that you are more than the expectations you set for yourself. that you are capable and deserving. of what? anything, really. all she asks is that you remind and affirm her of the same. 

(AAAAAAAAAA I’VE BEEN ON SUCH A MYER-BRIGGS/PERSONALITY TYPING HYPE LATELY SO RE-SEEING THAT YOU’RE AN ENFP MADE ME REALLY HAPPY????? AAAAAAAA BUT THIS ISN’T BASED ON THE MBTI!!! also i am an infp hello my friend)

[yourfriendsimf-o]

Hellloo! I hope your day going great.

Can I get a matchup ? I’m a Demisexual; girl. I’m a Maid and my sign is CANCEN; Sign of the Nexus. I am short, 5’3 but striving. I can be feisty and protective-but very very silly. I tend to cope a lot with humor and crack jokes. Poke fun and tease. I like to make my friends laugh. But I also can be very awkward and guarded at first, especially to strangers. I am very nurturing to my friends. Big mom friend at some times lol friendship and bonds mean a lot to me. But I am also spontaneous and a little impulsive. Tend to be more of a creative person. Expressing; creating myself through the artsy field and with how I dress. I’m like a grounded chaotic good.

hi! it is 3AM and well. i am here, ya know

im really sorry, but im not taking matchups anymore. the ones i am currently filling are back from november 

[yourfriendsimf-o]

For the matchup, I am almost always tired and have bags under my eyes. After a lot of rough relationships it's hard for me to trust people. I'm down to earth, caring, and kind of a himbo. Overall a bi disaster. I'm interested in marine biology, tall ladies, and technology. I'm a derse, blood player and my true sign is Vircen.

your sign is VIRCEN - you are jade-blooded; you are a derse/blood player

as a jade-blood, you are a natural caregiver. you can be non-confrontational and be particularly picky when it comes to details. as a derse player, you live life with varying degrees of skepticism and a relentless desire for rebellion. you are quite self-aware and much of your identity is built on having control of your surroundings. as a blood-player, you gain your strength from the bonds you have with your friends. you thrive in settings with mutual trust and commitment to a shared vision or idea. 

with this, the information you have provided me, and what i know about you personally, i match you with GALEKH XIGISI: 

you’re hurting, and you’ve been hurt. you thrive on the strength of the bonds you create, and yet, so many of them ended up scarring you, you know? you need someone who is consistently there to affirm you that you are valued; that you are capable of loving others and being loved. galekh is there for that, no doubt. you both are blood players with similar struggles in the relationship department. how are you both to thrive when you don’t have strong connections to thrive from? he will work with you to trust in him (as well as have you work with him to trust in you, too). he very much appreciates your attention to detail and the intricacy in the topics that interest you. he’ll fill the silence between you both or he’ll make the silence bearable, whatever you need. 

you are an individual who has been hurt and who despite that, deserves love and to be loved. to be safe. to trust in others. i deeply empathize with this, and galekh does too. 

(this was literally one of my favorite matchups to construct - you know who you are. hope i could soothe you a bit with this. much love!)