LGBT YOUTH

Advice and information for LGBT Youths

[youthlgbt]

heyy i need more gay friends, hmu if you want :)

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[youthlgbt]

Can i still join the whatsapp group?

Yes of course! It’s very inactive at the moment, but we need new people to join to bring it to life!

[youthlgbt]

LGBT+ INTERNATIONAL

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LGBT WHATSAPP GROUP

Two years ago from an anonymous ask on here I started an LGBT WhatsApp group, there is some lovely people currently in the chat and we’d love to meet some new people! That chat isn’t as active as it once was but we hope to get it more active soon. Please feel free to join!

[youthlgbt]

LGBT WHATSAPP GROUP

Thanks to an anonymous message I received on here about making an international LGBT Whatsapp group, I have decided to do so! The group will be a space to interact with other LGBT people easily and make new friends, as well as finding your support. I have attached the link below, or if you’d like to join send me a message with your number and I’ll add you!

https://chat.whatsapp.com/3Lwn7SbdPbIINTkmfXlwkd

[youthlgbt]

I'd like to meet some lgbt+ people online to chat on a daily or somzthing. Do you have any idea where I can meet some people? I read a lot od stories about friends meeting each other through tumbrl...but no one texts me and I'm too shy to text someone

I set up a WhatsApp group about 2 years ago, it’s not as active as it once was but we’re hoping to get it more active! Everyone in it is super friendly and we talk about a variety of things, here’s the link! https://t.umblr.com/redirect?z=https%253A%252F%252Fchat.whatsapp.com%252F3Lwn7SbdPbIINTkmfXlwkd&t=YTVjMWQ0YWQzZWY5ZTY2YTZiZWUxNmIyOTIwMmYxMGZiODY4ODRmZiw5N2RhMTM4NDg4OTU1ODVjYjZiYTU4MDZlMWRiNjY2OGQ1ODQwNmVh

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[youthlgbt]

I've been questioning for around a year and a half now and I know I find the same sex attractive but I feel invalid due to my lack of experience with both genders and I don't want to come out as bi because I am so unsure about myself any advice?

You don't have to feel invalid at all, it doesn't matter if you've experienced every gender or just one. You know within yourself who you'll be attracted to and you'll know which label makes you feel comfortable - Map

[youthlgbt]

Hi! My name’s Rissa, I was just stopping in to ask if you could maybe help my girlfriend and I with our fundraiser, we’re in a tight spot financially at the moment & we’d appreciate the support no matter what! Whether it’s a reblog/donation/ share on any social platform! It’s featured on my blog a few times as well. Thank you! Have an amazing day and we appreciate any support you can offer us! ❤

[youthlgbt]

Ive been in a relationship with a guy who I love for 3 years now and have been out as bi since I was 14. But recently, I've found I'm less and less attracted to men? I don't find any guys attractive anymore, bar my boyfriend. But I've really been feeling an increased attraction towards women. Especially in a romantic "I want a relationship with you" kinda way. I'm questioning whether I might be a lesbian? But I really do love my boyfriend? I don't know what to do 😞 any advice ?

Keep in mind that bi isn't always 50/50; it can be 10/90, 70/30 or even 95/5. You might have gone from say 50/50 to maybe 90/10 or such- Map

[youthlgbt]

Hi i was wondering if you could help so I'm panromantic And the thing is I am attracted sexually to all genders but if someone say had a really bad personality I could become instantly unatraked like, demisexual but kinda backwards and half the time I'm really super sex repulsed unless I really am in the mood I guess?? Then it's almost like free game (im in a relationship so I mean not really) idk there had to be a name for that I just don't know it

I think this is just preference, but followers can correct me if I'm wrong - Map

[youthlgbt]

Hi I'm a bisexual girl and questioning whether I'm bisexual or pansexual. I just feel kind of sad right now because I came out to my boyfriend recently and he said he was ok with that. I could still sense a bit of uneasiness from him though... We're very happy together but I have a feeling that he doesn't completely accept me. It's hard for me to admit this to him because I have terrible anxiety and..I'm just scared to talk about it. Do you have any ideas on what I should do to tell him??

I would start by assuring him that being bi/pan does not mean that you are going to cheat (a lot of people think this way, for some reason) and go from there. If he truly does love you, he'll accept it 100% and be willing to look past his own uneasiness - Map

[youthlgbt]

I asked a bisexual guy out and he said he wasn’t ready for a relationship with a guy yet because he’s not out of the closet, what do I do in the meantime?

Go on with your life in the mean time; if he's not ready, he's not ready- Map

[youthlgbt]

Hey I'm 14 year old lesbian and I've completeley fallen with a girl im 99% sure is straight. I've known her for a some years now and when I met her I instantly had a crush even though I didn't know at the time that I liked girls. She was THE girl that made me realize I was gay. We have a strong friendship and I already came out to her but being around her hurts because I know she'll never be mine but I really value her friendship. What do I do? Do I tell her? We hang out in the same friend group

I know exactly how you feel...you're still young and you'll be in love many many times through life. Go with the flow; thing is, you can't change a straight girl's mind about who she likes. Maybe you can tell her later in life. The right girl will come along and she won't give you any doubts- Map

[youthlgbt]

How do I experiment?

Depends on what you want to figure out; if you want to figure out your sexuality, kiss who you think you’re attracted to

If you want to figure out your gender, do things that make you feel like the gender you might be and ask people to use those pronouns

If you want to figure out a chemistry experiment...yeah sorry I suck at chemistry XD

- Map

[youthlgbt]

So im bisexual and im dating a boy but i have an attraction to a girl right now. What do i do

If you like the girl more then leave your boyfriend and go for her but whatever you do, don’t break the boy’s heart 

- Map

[youthlgbt]

Okay so first of all I'm a bisexual girl. I just learned to accept and be comfortable with my sexuality and I'm only out to my best friends. Okay so a few days ago my best friend told me that she might bisexual and that there's a girl she kinda has a crush on but she's confused. I don't know like I'm happy for her but i also kinda feel like she has taken away something from me. Bein bi was my thing and I don't know why I'm so sad about the whole situation. But I feel like she's betrayed me.

I understand that you feel betrayed but there is no need to; there’s a hella lot of people on this planet that are bisexual. I understand that it felt like bisexuality is your thing but you know it isn’t a choice. Maybe she felt comfortable enough to tell you after you told her

- Map

[youthlgbt]

Is it rude if - even though i love everyone of the lgbtq+ community and literally want to protect all of them - i feel uncomfortable dating bi girls? I'm lesbian and due to some major heartbreaks, i can't bring myself to date bisexuals. I feel guilty about it and i want to change it but it just doesn't feel right. Am I a hypocrite? Am I discriminating them?

I understand how you feel; my most painful heartbreak was by a bisexual girl but I’ve recently gotten into a relationship with the most amazing girl ever and she is bisexual. Remind yourself that not all people are the same and bisexuality doesn’t mean anything bad; it simply means that you are able to love both genders. You are simply uncomfortable due to a bad experience. It’s going to take a while to get over it but in that time, talk to bisexual girls and get yourself used to the idea. It’s difficult for someone who only likes one gender to imagine liking two or more genders and that makes sense, but it doesn’t mean that we should shun them or be uncomfortable around them; treat them like you would treat any other person

- Map

[youthlgbt]

Hi,I'm a lesbian 😁

Same here 

- Map