Arigato, Senpai

A foray into the Sugar Baby lifestyle in NYC

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Just wondering: how do you develop such charm? Like Ive been told I'm pretty and all just that I'm so awkward and socially clumsy. How do I develop charm and confidence? Keep a convo flowing like water? I had a sd/sb relationship before and I didn't know how to talk to them☹️ pls help

I try to put myself into as many social situations as possible. The more you practice interacting with other human beings, even on just a basic level, the more you ease yourself into a comfortable and natural way of being. And from there you can gauge what works best for you.

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WYA bae? @genghiskan

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Alive?

I've resurrected.

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sora & tiana in “paradis” for antidote magazine fw15 by txema yeste

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Lanvin rtw16

[yung-maiko-blog]

Completely forgot I had this thing

For the record, I’ve still got the sweet tooth.  But many of my perceptions have shifted.  Maybe I’ll get into that, but I’ve become fascinated with the psychology behind this turbulent lifestyle.  Also, I find it appropriate to relate that I have succumbed to the biggest no-no of the Sugar Lifestyle: falling for an SD.  Never would have thought it would happen to cool and collected moi.  But you know how they say ‘never say never’.  And believe me if you all saw what this man looks like, heard the way he talks and seen his work you would too.  Maybe I’ll elaborate on that more as well but for now, sufficed to say I’ll try and make more appearances on here.

[yung-maiko-blog]

what are in the sugaring business for?

Power

[yung-maiko-blog]

tbh what even is love anymore i dont even know

I’ve been pondering that a lot this past week. One of my SD’s has hit that ‘in love’ phase and he asks me to tell him I love him even though he knows I don’t. Tells me I’ve changed his life etc. and I can’t help but laugh. I said to him 'what you’re feeling is lust, baby. Don’t let it consume you.’ I don’t believe true love is romantic at all. I think it’s much more evolved than romantic love. When people say they want to be loved by someone, they are saying they want someone who makes them happy and solves all their problems and loneliness. It’s purely selfish. I think individual ego is the biggest obstacle of true love. I think once you have surpassed ego, that opens up your ability to truly love. And it’s few who are able to even do that in the first place. Which is why it’s such a turbulent force. There is always one person in the equation who can’t do it. Rarely can two people coincide equally in terms of love.

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Dear girls who dress scantily for male attention, spends hours and hours obsessing over their fake nails/make-up/hair extension/boob jobs, are ‘do-nothing bitches’ on Instagram who live for the likes and the compliments,

…You are perfect. 

Your likes and dislikes are your own. If you thrive on male attention, I hope they are good to you. If you get validation from strangers on the internet liking your posts, I hope it brings you the greatest happiness there is. If your only talent is looking pretty then I want you to know that your prettiness adds colour to the dull world.

 I hope your ‘inflated ego’ inflates and inflates to the point where you truly believe yourself to be a goddess, worthy of only the best and available to only those who love you.

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I love this

[yung-maiko-blog]

Confidence is only gained through faking it until it's believed.

[yung-maiko-blog]

Hate the weekends.

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“Appear weak when you are strong, and strong when you are weak.”

Sun Tzu,

The Art of War

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"Let your plans be dark and impenetrable as night; and when you move, fall like a thunderbolt"

[yung-maiko-blog]

Bath time activities when I actually get the time to enjoy my condo. Despite my lack of update, I’ve definitely been playing the game. Keep at it, succubus babes. 😈

[yung-maiko-blog]

do you diet? what do you eat like? and do you specifically do anything to try and stay thin? haha sorry for all the q's xx

I try to eat relatively healthy? Kind of? Idk. Lately I've been shit bc one of the men I've been seeing is Japanese and he loves to fucking feed me. I swear the last time we did an overnight He put me in a sugar coma. But I also have a really upstanding metabolism. Exercise-wise I do a lot of walking just from everyday city living. Bikram yoga on occasion. And sometimes parkour. But no regimen or routine. Just when I feel like it.

[yung-maiko-blog]

Why do you think women who date older are accused of having daddy issues but men who date older are "the man" and only want sex, as if they don't also have some hidden issue. Why can't women also just be wanting something out of said man?

Because then the societal norm would be flipped on its head and people would actually start thinking and reasoning instead of going along with whatever beliefs they've been raised with and heaven forbid we come out of our comfort zones and actually use more than 10% of our brainpower. Preposterous.

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what are your favorite apps/websites to meet daddies?

I only use SA and have actually had pretty good luck off of it. Sometimes Craigslist. But mostly SA.

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alek wek by thomas schenk, 2000