astrology notes on attraction based on venus/mars
• you can often get attracted to someone with venus in the same house in which you have mars or the other way around; f.e. my venus is in the 3rd house and i keep attracting and being attracted to people with mars in the 3rd house.
venus and mars as archetypes complement each other when it comes to love & relationships. venus completes mars and mars completes venus. so it’s very attractive to find someone who expresses the other half of that kind of energy in the same area and manner as you do. venus in 3rd needs mental stimulation in order to feel love for someone and expresses it through verbal communication mostly, while mars in the 3rd can release tremendous amounts of energy when they’re properly worked verbally and are driven to invest a lot of themselves into proper verbal expression. so they naturally just click together. same applies to any other house as the interpretation varies based on the area of life it relates to.
• you may often attract people with mars in the opposite house of where mars is placed in your natal chart; f.e. i have mars in the 7th house and i’m often attracted to people with mars in the 1st house. mars is always driven to become stronger and develop the skills that are necessary for your survival. that’s why we often seek out people whose mars is in the opposite house of the mars in our chart - we haven’t developed the mars archetype in that house, so we’re naturally inclined to seek out someone who embodies that energy we don’t possess. f.e. mars in the 7th house often attracts aggression from the outside and feels as if they’re the object of aggression rather than its agent so while they try to develop their abilities to express openly aggression but in a healthy way they’re naturally attracted to those who know how to assert themselves and express their anger directly (mars in 1st). same applies to any other house as the interpretation varies based on the area of life it relates to.
• people are often attracted to those with whom they have mars in scorpio in the composite chart. i’ve often wondered why i fuck around so well with mars in capricorn, then i realized the midpoint between my mars in leo and mars in capricorn is mars in scorpio. a mars in scorpio in the composite chart creates a lot of intensity and tension, usually sexual or at least erotic in some way, the drive for power play, to delve deeper into the other person, to explore them fully. so yeah, even tho leo and capricorn are inconjunct signs so they don’t go well together, their midpoint is often in scorpio which, linked with mars, creates a mutual drive for intimacy. checking out the composite sign you get with certain mars signs can definitely explain why you’re attracted to people with that mars and your dynamic with them.
• people with venus in a fire/air sign are often attracted to people with venus in a water/earth sign and vice versa. the fire/air venus provides lightheartedness, heat and initiative while water/earth is the one that contributes with nurturing, emotional vulnerability and softness. it often plays out poorly tho cuz rather than complementing each other, people with venus in a different polarity feel their needs and desires are being misunderstood. fire/air venus starts feeling suffocated while earth/water venus doesn’t get the security and care they need in order to feel loved.
• people are often attracted to those who have venus in the same modality as them. i got an aries venus and i mostly attract other cardinal venuses in my life cuz i recognize in them the same approach towards love that i have.
• people with mars in a cardinal sign are usually attracted to people with mars in a fixed sign because mars loves a challenge and to cardinal signs, whose main objective is to move forward and express direct action, fixed signs with their tendency to stand their ground feel like one. it’s basically the old unstoppable force meets immoveable object scenario.
• on the other hand, people with mars in fixed signs often go for those who have mars in a mutable sign because they feel so exotic and foreign with their ability to adapt and mold themselves any way they please and it’s kind of mesmerizing for fixed signs who usually are focused on stability and consistency.
• those with mars in a mutable sign are attracted to people with mars in a cardinal sign because they envy the people who move forward in a concentrated and focused way and don’t wear their energy thin by directing it in every possible direction.
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