Zarya

Hi i'm Zarya,I love to hula hoop I like colorful hair & I love to receive anonymous love! If you wanna know more just ask :)

[xforce11]

Fun with #BarbieMovie generator and #OrphanBlack

[pusheen]

[daniilune]

Dream of a Thousand Cats

[fionacreates]

A Lady and her Knight

Fanart for The Mandalorian

[smoluglies]

Dear deer 🦌💖✨💕🧚

[birdghost]

hehehe this will be a sticker

[marissasketch]

✨ 10% off prints active now! ✨

If you’re interested in grabbing some prints (and new stickers!) of my artwork, you can find these pieces and more on my print shop here 🐥💕

[marissasketch]

The (Furby) King Returns

Prints

[wvterways]

[hsgdk]

Bouquet.

[catchymemes]

[cannibalchicken]

[agnesmontague]

[catchymemes]

Language barrier? I don't even know 'er!

[saintshigaraki]

being completely financially dependent on a man is quite literally dangerous and someone warning you about that when you talk about wanting to become a housewife doesn’t make the person warning you a misogynist lmao

[fishingforunderstatements]

Extending this logically forward, it is dangerous to be entirely financially dependent on anyone, regardless of gender. Being a stay at home parent is not a bad goal, but it is also not a choice you should make lightly, especially right out of high school or something. It is terrifying how quickly a situation can flip on its head, and if you have no ability to like, afford a one nights stay in a hotel room, or buy am emergency plane ticket, things just got a hell of a lot more difficult for you.

The sort of situation where one person works and one person stays home is only functional in a relationship where the imbalance of money does not become an imbalance of power. Both parties need to communicate their wants, desires, boundaries, and expectations. Ideally, both parties should have joint access to financial accounts, with no one person being the primary account holder (this way no one gets cut off suddenly). If at all possible, you each should retain a personal account where you can save up for things you really want/ as a fall back. The household budget needs to be something you both work on together and have equal knowledge about.

Financial abuse is real, and it SUCKS to experience, so please stay safe and be smart before agreeing to anything.

[scumrunner]

When you work in the home doing childcare, elder care, cooking, cleaning, managing budgets, etc - you aren’t earning social security benefits. If you end up divorced later in life, you won’t have the same retirement security as your spouse, even if you divide all your assets 50/50.

You should at least set up an IRA or other retirement account in your name, and contribute to it as a priority, ideally as much or more than the 12% of income that is required for legal employment.

[elalmadelmar]

It’s frustrating as shit to always have to carefully distinguish between “Not earning money is bad and makes you a drain on wage-earners and you should make every effort to become Productive™️” (capitalist, highly evil, punitive) and “Not earning/managing your own money makes you vulnerable to the wage-earner(s) you rely on in a bunch of quantifiable ways and you should mitigate that as best you can” (good advice, important).

If you’re contemplating becoming a stay-at-home (for ANY reason) and you’re not contemplating going on disability*, you should negotiate with the wage-earner(s) in your household that they will provide you with a certain amount of money that can go into accounts solely in your name, on a regular basis. A spousal IRA is good if you’re married and want to plan for retirement, but you should also have regular checking/savings in your own name. Joint name isn’t good enough - in pretty much any type of joint account, either account owner can clean it out overnight without permission of the other and that’s legal and allowed. Your name only. If they aren’t willing to do that, DO NOT place yourself in a position of financial dependence on them if you can do anything at all ever to avoid it. They’re telling you they want to have power over you. Please be safe.

*disability (in the US at least) has some deeply bullshit limitations on assets. In this case, I can’t provide fully knowledgeable advice; please talk with an advocacy org to figure out how much you can do to protect yourself financially.

[hellcatofthenorth76]

Soooooo important, especially with US states where it’s all “community property”. That can really fuck a person over when a relationship goes south, and so many SOs get left with absolutely nothing, often on top of having to take care of the children and any folks that can’t care for themselves. 

[crimsonclad]

I saw a bumper sticker and thought “is that seductive Daffy Duck” and then when I looked closer I realized it was actually a fishing bumper sticker but also. also it is still very much seductive Daffy Duck???? somehow????????

[boghermit]

Vampires when they sip on your blood and catch extra strength Tylenol, at least two psychiatric meds, two cups of coffee, weed, and microplastics 

[isa-ah]

am i insane or should masks be mandated for hospitals as a permanent installation. a forever institution. always. covid is an irrelevant factor when hospitals are always full of both very sick and very immunocompromised people..?