[zeb-eb-beb]

Howdy! I've had this blog for a million years so I might as well create a pinned intro.

Call me Zack, Zeb, or just Z

I'm a 22 year old transmasc (he/him) and I really don't use Tumblr all that often

Minors, MAPs, terfs DNI

I use tags inconsistently and with complete and utter abandon

[draconym]

It's nuts how common it is to not allow children to be angry, even (especially) in households where adults are angry all the time. As a child I knew my own anger was unacceptable--not just expressing it outwardly but feeling it at all. So now as an adult my immediate reaction to my own anger is often to feel guilt instead of like. Noticing when someone is being rude or unfair or my boundaries are being violated or whatever. fucked up.

[zeb-eb-beb]

Love emailing my program director on the last day of school about a lead threatening my student 👍

[userfish]

this pride month we’re all going to be radically pro transgender. or else.

[samirasystole]

random but here is a recipe for cold peanut noodles that you can make during hot weather because i just ate this and had a fantastic time

2tbsp of peanut butter. a splash of rice vinegar, soy sauce, sesame oil, maple syrup. some chili flakes, some sesame seeds. a splash of water to thin it out. now you put in your noodles (cooled!!!! boiled and rinsed so they’re cold!!) and then some chopped up cucumber or carrot or avocado or cabbage or any crunchy vegetable. i just used cucumber

you can also put in lime juice or herbs or sriracha or grated garlic/ginger or anything like that; tofu/tempe/meat for more protein etc. noodle wise this can be ramen soba udon whatever, i used soba. enjoy homies

[fwizard]

all i need is a sweet treat. and six thousand dollars

[zeb-eb-beb]

its so cool to have a weird (positive) dad

[zeb-eb-beb]

....do I drop $50 on this kink event....

[los-copa]

her name was Juniper Blessing, she was 19 and she was just doing her laundry

[wispthicket]

From one of her friends on a Reddit post.

[rikaklassen]

Image description: Juniper Blessing taking a selfie accompanied by a a headline from Them newsletter in white text, "Slain Trans UW Student Identified as Juniper Blessing: 'The Most Amazing Human Being' by Samantha Allen".

[kuken-i-buken]

im kinda getting addicted to sandwiches

[kuken-i-buken]

death to the united states of america

[nudityandnerdery]

From the media that brought you "Millennials are killing [insert industry here]" articles for years and years and years, now we have....

"Hey, Gen Z, we're gonna relabel vacations into something else now and tell you how you really should be wary of taking vacation because it might impact your financial future."

This is a goddamn dystopia, we know this, right?

[rabid-transcendentalist]

[pinnipetal]

(absolutely haunted expression, 1000 yard stare) Do yuo want to play with me this weekend

[cristalplanetheart]

[no-reference-georg]

Oouuuhhhhh you are not majestic but you are having so much fun

[waepenwifestre]

mike’s hard past couple of months

[colorogasm]

Always Remember:

kissing can and will, get boring.

its ok to go to sleep on opposite sides.

forgetting favorites, dates and replies is only human.

you dont have to like, or be friends with all of their friends and vice-versa.

they have a right to spend weekends dedicating to their friends and family. you have the same right.

privacy is still in play.

trying simple things that they like, no matter how much you are sure you will dislike it, is a very small step you can take to show your love to them.

you dont gotta have the same taste in music, food, books etc.

saying i love you, thank you, take care, please and i missed you really helps.

you cant agree with all their life decisions and they cant with yours. keeping an open mind and having an honest and deep discussion about it helps. 

they dont need your permission to do things and neither you need theirs.

the intention and care behind the gift matters. not its price tag. 

dont try and change them. help them become better versions of themselves and get the same help and support and care from them. 

know what matters most and focus on that.

[snailune]

oooohhhh ok. the more you deny yourself the more you lose yourself

[alwayswasalwayswillbeourland]

[zeb-eb-beb]

do i try to bribe someone to go to a kink event with me in june or do I just go solo and very scared