Zeiky be SUS

     Hi, I am Zeiky. I am not as active on tumblr but I still blog from time to time. I don't update my art tag much but you're welcome to check it out if you're curious. ; u ;   Alternatively, if you want to see more recent doodles, feel free to follow my Twitter!  

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🎂 Birthday Boots

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zenos yae galvus

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[nyaa]

[fair-fae]

the current ffxiv "drama" on twitter is like... what is there to even say, women have been talking about how we're treated in gaming especially competitive scenes for like the past decade or two now lol

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the funniest interaction I ever had was in Overwatch when some dudebro heard my voice and kept trying to troll me about being a woman playing a healer and asked me "why do women always play healers?" and I responded "because we're used to baby-sitting incompetent men" and he laughed and told me "you sound like you're either super cool or some kind of awful feminazi" and I was just like "yes"

[recentgooglesearches]

2000s forum emoticon gif guy dancing OWNED

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collab with @zeiky! We made this as a part of an art trade with an guildmate featuring their OC Camilla

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i owe this to @fair-fae for suggesting the meme to base it on

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@zeiky and i were wondering about an AU where her character is a bit...wider

(also cameoing @ange-vie's and @mpregnateyourocs's OCs in that meme image derivative)

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BIRFDAY GIFT for @ange-vie that @zeiky and I collabed on \o/

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nophica

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(NSFW) collab art with my wife

we were going to do something mild for valentine's but it got spicy

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nophica

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the duality of my art collabs with @zeiky for our OCs

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Alright, I need to have a chat with the teenagers that follow me, specifically regarding lying about your age and nsfw content. This isn’t directed at anyone, but I think it’s a convo that needs to be had in general.

I was a teenager once. I get it. Everyone lies about their age online. Maybe not to other people, but I’m sure every minor has clicked a ‘yeah, sure, I’m 18+” button at some point in their lives. I’m not here to shame you for that.

What I am here to say is it is vital that teenagers understand the difference between engaging in sexual content independently (ie, entering a fake birthday to access 18+ content), and lying about your age to engage in sexual activities with others online (joining discord servers/using nsfw channels intended for adults only/lying about your age to talk to nsfw content creators/commissioning nsfw art/etc).

Lying about your age to a website so you can look at porn is one thing. It’s an entirely independent experience, where the only consent that really matters is yours. Nobody has any power over you in this situation, and there’s about no chance of legal consequences.

However, lying about your age to other human beings is extremely different. If you’re engaging in nsfw roleplay with a friend about the same age as you, talking about sex with other teenagers, sharing nsfw fics among friends, that’s one thing. But do not lie about your age to engage in sexual activities/discussions. Not only is something that could have actual legal ramifications, and very serious ones depending on what’ going on, but it’s a violation of the other people’s consent. The moment other real people are involved, you need to be respectful of their boundaries & what is and isn’t appropriate for you to be engaging with. If they say no minors, I don’t care if you’re 17.5, you stay out until you are 18 years old.

Examples of situations where it is never okay to lie or mislead anyone about your age online include:

Joining/accessing nsfw channels or servers on discord.

Yes, I know it’s very easy to just click that little red button on discord that lets you access the channel you’re so curious about. It looks just like the one you see on adult websites that you click without thinking.

Don’t do it.

If channels are 18+ then you stay out of them. There are other real life human beings involved who did not give consent to have a minor in an adult orientated space.

Engaging with nsfw creators/content directly

ie, commissioning nsfw artwork, following or talking to nsfw creators who’ve asked for no interactions from minors/flagged their accounts as 18+ only, subscribing to nsfw creators on patron, nsfw roleplay, etc.

Joining/engaging with adult only communities, like Fetlife or cam sites.

Engaging in romantic and/or sexual online relationships

Any time you are talking with one or more other real human beings, particularly any adults, in a sexual context.

I know that adult websites have basically trained teenagers to just say they’re 18 and move on, but it is vital that teenagers understand that it is never okay to lie about your age when directly engaging in any kind of sexual activity. Knowing people’s age is a vital part of consent, and if an adult is found to have been engaging in sexual activity with a minor, they could face life long legal consequences. Not only that, but a basic facet of consent is clear, honest communication. If you are lying to a partner, then you do not have consent. Lying about your age is a huge violation of consent.

That’s not to say you can never mention sex around adults online. There are times and places where you may be asking for advice, or even just making jokes about sex or whatever. That’s all well and good, so long as everyone is on the same page. It’s on adults to make sure that we are behaving appropriately around minors online, and make sure that we’re setting boundaries in those relationships. But it’s on minors to communicate that they are minors, and respect those boundaries that are set.

So, tl;dr,

Lying about your age to access a porn site is fine. Lying about your age to engage in sexual situations/adult-only spaces where other real human beings are involved is not.

[beckstriad]

Pls the tl;dr

[aelia-likes-monsters]

When I and other 18+ content creators post things about not wanting followers who aren’t legal adults in their countries… this is why. Not only is it something that can get us in a lot of trouble (like, prison time trouble)… you’re completely violating our consent. 

I write dirty stories. They’re intended for adults. If you’re not a legal adult, please unfollow me and don’t come back until you are an adult. For my sake. 

[thelaundrybitch]

All of this 🙌

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I was in a Discord server with someone who was having a rather explicit conversation with me while brainstorming fanfiction. It was an 18+ server, so I assumed this was fine.

Until she let drop that she was 14.

I was 32 at the time.

This child was less than half my age.

I ended up leaving the server. I informed the mods and they took appropriate action, of course, but I was horrified. Not only did I feel violated, I felt I’d violated someone else (this was absolutely not a conversation I would have been having if I’d realized the 25 years old she first claimed was a lie), and if the information in that server had been released to law enforcement, I could have been jailed and put on a permanent sex offenders’ list. I could have ended up banned from conventions, never allowed to attend my niblings’ gymnastic tournaments, fired from my job because I worked next door to a school.

All because a teenager just had to have access to the server that wasn’t for her.

You aren’t “hurting nobody.” You could be taking away someone’s ability to live their life.

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substantial

(feat. FC leader Faye Covington)

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