call me anything you'd like, any pronouns. i'm a 17 year old. i'm going to post about whatever.
i heavily suspect i have npd, along with a whole concoction of other things i'm not qualified to get into.
i am bigender. the url is ironic.
in the way of dni's, i don't want people who find themselves seriously divided by people's identities to interact. be normal and stop basing your validity on another person's lived experience. the cishets won't hate you any less if you bitch on tumblr about neopronouns and bi lesbians. grow up.
this blog is an experiment for myself. not anything that should matter to anyone reading.
I think I've seen maybe one post on this in the three years I've been on tumblr, so here's a shoutout to all the people with personality disorders - yes, including npd, aspd and szpd - who have been abusive or hurt others in the past but are trying to do better. I've been there and I see you. You're doing the best you can and I'm so proud of you for working to change that behaviour.
If you're seeing this post, you will be blessed with SUPPLY in the near future! There is no further actions needed to redeem this; feel free to scroll past.
May you receive as much validation, attention, praise, love, and other things of that nature as you rightfully deserve <3
as someone who has multiple run-ins with covert narcissists, i understand the importance of being able to spot signs of covert narcissism before you can be hurt. they can be tricky to spot at first, but once you start noticing these patterns, you will be sure to weed them out of your life:
they invite you to take a dip in a nice, warm hot tub. this is to create a sense of intimacy, in which they will use against you later.
there's a fire under the hot tub. no hot tub should operate by fire, and if there exists a campfire under the hot tub, this is a sign that they might not be sincere about their motives.
they cut carrots and celery into the hot tub while you aren't paying attention. this is a little talked about sign of covert narcissism which can be a glaring issue if not addressed.
they begin to season you with garlic powder, onion powder, etc. now be careful here: salt and pepper are customary seasonings to use in the day to day hot tub. but if they begin to use advanced seasonings like garlic powder and onion powder, this could be a sign of covert narcissism rearing its ugly head.
they pull out a fork and spoon, but do not put it in the hot tub. this is the biggest sign of covert narcissism and their ultimate sinister plan. run, especially if they wear a bib and hold up their fork and spoon menacingly.
be sure to spread this post to people you suspect might be dealing with a covert narcissist. this can save lives.
