Heaven's Fox Fire

[zowiemadison]

Nobody

Me waking up at 3am:

Showers, eats, still cant sleeps

[26yearsofstories]

How Did I Get Here?

Why howdy everyone! My names Cassy and I’m a 26 y/o female who often reflects on past experiences and just thinks to myself…”how did I get here?” Thought I could maybe share some funny, sad, and everything in between stories with you and maybe some of you can relate or get something out of them! If stories on weird coincidences, lost love and relationships, sexual exploration, mental health, work stories, and all together randomness peaks your interest then by all means stick around.

[lousydrawingsforgoodpeople]

[kosmickreations]

Do you even care

That another years gone by

I'm sitting here alone

And still I cry

This hole in my heat

hasn't closed at all

I know that you don't think of me at all

Why would you care

About the pain you caused

You don't have to see

And you've moved on

You've made a new life

And your happy with him

Left me out in the cold

Threw away with the trash

And I've got nothing left

No warm place inside for my heart to call home

Just a pillow of memories

A bed made of you lies

You where my hero

So honest and brave

Blinded by love

You took all that I gave

Now you're the hang man

Digging my grave

[lyzbrown]

all that remains

one of the hardest things i had to learn is that you can’t love someone into being good for you, or good to themselves. you can’t make the pieces of the jigsaw fit if the other person keeps blindly knocking over the table, and if you set yourself on fire to keep them warm, all you end up with is two piles of ashes.

[recoverr-deactivated20220605]

if there is one kind of dating advice i could give to anyone in this planet is to not go for the person who gives you all the butterflies or makes you nervous all the time. the best kind of love is the slow and steady, reliable, calm one, when it feels like coming home instead of riding a rollercoaster.

[mauxanhduong]

[ID: two closeups of the new official Yuri on Ice art, zoomed in onto Victor’s right hand. In the first one, he isn’t wearing his engagement ring. In the second one, he is. End ID.]

PLEASE THIS IS SO FUNNY TO ME FOR SOME REASON. do u think they posted it and then were like. oh shit

[notesfromtheabyss]

[copperbadge]

Advice for handling breakup? I got dumped after 5 years.

So -- before we start, and Anon this isn’t personal to you, it’s just you’re giving me the opportunity to say this -- I want to put it out there that requests for advice are starting to creep back up again. I stopped doing Sam Advises for a couple of reasons that still hold; if I don't set a boundary now it'll be harder to later. So the asks currently in my inbox will get answered but I'm not answering any further advice asks for a bit.

The problem I think with dealing with breakups is that it really depends highly on the person and the situation. Most of my breakups have been either mutual and amicable, or I've ended it for really good and solid reasons. So I don't have a ton of experience in losing a relationship with someone I really loved and was committed to being with. I also don’t think I’ve ever had a romantic relationship that lasted as long as five years, so I’m of limited use I’m afraid! 

But I think as with any life tragedy the best possible thing to do is to remind yourself that this is passing; emotions are for the most part very temporary, and getting through the worst of it generally leads outward into a much less painful life. Lean on what support structures you have, be kind to yourself for a while, and remind yourself that there's better days coming, if only because the current ones are so awful. And good luck!

Readers if you’d like to offer advice in comments or reblogs, please feel free!

[fallintothefloor]

[lousydrawingsforgoodpeople]

[sa-dnesss]

“There are some things about myself I can’t explain to anyone. There are some things I don’t understand at all. I can’t tell what I think about things or what I’m after. I don’t know what my strengths are or what I’m supposed to do about them. But if I start thinking about these things in too much detail, the whole thing gets scary.”

—

[chuckdrawsthings]

tired

[stay-close]

“I stopped sending paragraphs, stopped begging, stopped telling people how to treat me, and started walking away, blocking, and distancing myself. Life may be lonely, but it’s becoming peaceful.”

— Unknown

[theselfcarelifestyle]

How much of you ‘protecting your energy’ is a healthy boundary and how much of it is a defense mechanism?

[north-infinity-deactivated20221]

"self diagnosis isn't valid"

ok then give people the money they need. pay for their diagnosis. go on, ill wait.

[lousydrawingsforgoodpeople]