Why People Verbally Attack You
Just realized that a lot of time when people verbally attack you out of nowhere is just to protect their self-esteem. Yesterday I sent out a post on my personal WeChat account in Chinese talking about the oddly cold May in Manchester that needs some heating. At evening time, got a comment from a British guy, saying in English: "Don't like the weather here? Fuck off and go back to China! See how the weather in China treats you!" Just found it hilarious. First of all, it seems to me that complaining about the weather is the most common thing that British people do in their daily life. Scientifically speaking human are all from Africa. So does that mean every time if any one complains about British weather, that gentleman will need to tell them to 'Fuck off and go back to Africa!'? That reminds me that I've been told to 'Fuck off and go back to China' a few times while I'm in the UK, and all the verbal attacks are from a few British males, and those guys all have something in common: They want Chinese women but can't get one themselves. So I suddenly figured out, those people who verbally attacked me were mainly out of the needs to protect their self-esteem. I still remember that there were a few British guys said to me:"How can you refuse me?! I'm so damn good looking / fit / rich / British. Fuck off and go back to China!" So for everyone who doesn't live in their home countries, if there is anyone else tell you to 'Go back to your own country', no need to feel bad or annoyed, just feel sorry for whoever attacks you. Because: They are psychologically weak and their self-esteem need a lot of protection.