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Pronouns: they/them, he/him. I'm probably very black.

[lovelustquotes]

[love-personal]

By Andrea Basile

[eyeofscottie]

[the-real-eye-to-see]

ICONIC MOMENT FOR #LGBTQ

[beccotti-deactivated20200216]

Cute doggos with hats🐶 Thinking of turning these little bubs into some stickers.. message me if you’d be interested in buying one🌻🌻

[afrorevolution]

[pastel-pwussy]

NO y'all need to actually go and read this shit in its entirety AND donate cuz sis legitimately PREACHED A WORK!

[karayray1-deactivated20230129]

Fr… that made me feel some type of way

[nevver]

[honestlyyoungpersona]

This is amazing! Support black business! 

@quenblackwell

[thundercluck-blog]

Hey! Meg here for FEATHERED FRIDAY! Have some sweet, sweet chickens!

[eissibee]

Do you ever think about how supermarkets have no clear indicator of time passing visually? Like if u go into a supermarket in the morning or midnight it would look the same, same harsh white lighting. Time isn’t real. Nothing is real. Avocados are half off

[meme-theft]

[asexual-domme]

Things to Say to Someone in Top Drop/Dom Drop

I’m okay

I love you

Thank you

It’s alright

I’m not hurt

I’m not hurt too badly

You’re lovely/wonderful/kind

I enjoyed it

It was worth it

Take your time

Do you need anything?

Do you want a cuddle?

Do you want me to get dressed/take the collar off/put the crop away?

Do you want to talk about it?

I’m here

You’re not a bad person

Top drop/dom drop usually comes from shock, guilt or insecurity about the way you have just treated someone whose well-being you care about very much. Like sub drop, it is usually accompanied by a fall in endorphins and general energy levels. Especially for aces (who I find have a greater need to be in the right mindset/’zone’ for play and intimacy), a ‘snap’ moment where you break out of play mode can throw you emotionally, and the end of play causes a similar reassessment or double-take at what happened during the scene.

Dominants in drop require the same kind of care as subs, but a different kind of reassurance.

[zzthebean]

You know who you remind me of...?

[zzthebean]

I'm making new friends everyday!

[euphietan]

[zzthebean]

The Highlanders lost, so this happened.

[zzthebean]

Goin' to Narnia, y'all. Catch you on the flip side.