C'est la vie.

This is a confession blog. I take submissions. And I give advice. Feel free to ask anything - I will try my best to give a positive and helpful answer. I will assume all asks are submissions unless they are legitimate questions and you are seeking advice or an answer.

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My ex and I realized after two years apart the attachment we still have on each other's lives. How we grew as one. Or at least that's how i see it.

My ex and I dated for almost three years and I still feel a bit of an attachment to him. To be totally honest, It still hurts to not end a conversation with, "I love you." But I've moved on and in time, I think you will, too. But for all we know, he might be "the one," you know? If you think that's the case, then try and talk with him. Maybe you two can work things out and forget about whatever happened between you that resulted in you guys breaking up.

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I think I'm a lesbian.

And you just might be, love. But there's absolutely nothing wrong with that. Remember, though, that we live in a judgmental world and people will be surprised by your decision, if you are, indeed, a lesbian. Try not to let their hurtful words get to you - they are just words, after all. And while there are going to be plenty of people who won't be happy with your decision, it's your decision, your life, and your love, and there will be plenty of people encouraging you. Good luck, dear :)

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I am so sorry!

My computer is dead. Gone. Forever. ;-;

I'm working on fixing it and hopefully that'll be done soon.

For now, hi to all my new followers! Hi to all my old followers!

And sincere apologies to all of you! Secrets and confessions will be up soon.

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I have a question!

More like a proposal.

Please drop by my ask and tell me how your special someone makes you feel. It doesn't even really have to be your special someone - how your crush makes you feel, how your boyfriend/girlfriend makes you feel, how your ex makes you feel.

I'm trying to write a book and I need some help with perspective. It would mean a lot if you did it!

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This is true - books and movies make it out to be that you have to be pretty to have a fairy tale romance. But remember: things that you may not like about yourselves is someone else's favorite part about you. I think that everyone has a someone especially for them, so don't lose hope!

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These "friends" were never your friends if this is what they're doing to you. Friends should be in it for life, no matter what you're going through, who they're dating, or who you're dating. I don't really understand the bro code, but I'm sure it's a bunch of ridiculousness anyway.

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I need to get to work.

Hi, guys - sorry for my absence. It's finals week and my computer's been broken. Something to do with things I know nothing about.

Anyway. Tell me about it.

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"I hope I'm not single forever. That's one of my greatest fears."

I think there's everyone for someone, you just have to be patient when it comes to finding them.

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The only way your parents are going to know is if you tell them. I know that it may seem scary, but a situation like that can be emotionally damaging and they could help you in big ways. They won't blame you for what happened and if you want the law brought into it, they can make that happen as well. Just stay strong, love.