14100420

adult it/its ONLY

[14100420]

generic intro post

hi, i'm 14100420. no, you do not get a better name than that. if that’s too long you can call me 1, 4, 0, or 2. feel free to spell it out too (one/four/zero/two)

i am an adult

i am intersex. my pronouns are it/its. you do not get to know any more about my gender than that.

tbh that's all you rlly need to know.

[luxiomahariel]

if you tell an indigenous trans man to cut his long hair so that he "passes better" then im tying you to an anchor and dropping you in the middle of the ocean

[14100420]

ok i did not think this needed to be said but apparently it does?

yes i believe in transandrophobia, no i do not believe perpetuating transmisogyny is the way to get them to listen to us?

the pro transmisogyny tag is disgusting.

yes, a lot of the people who are anti transandrophobia happen to be transfem. Not all of them, but an overwhelming number for sure. No, this does not mean all transfems are evil or bad or whatever you pro transmisogyny people are spreading. a loud minority does not define the entire group.

if anyone from the pro transmisogyny side of things is reading this: you're making this whole movement look like a joke, and reinforcing all of their stereotypes about us. We can be better than this.

Infighting is the worst thing we can do under a fascist regime. Do not turn on all of them just because a few of them have turned on us.

crosstagging for reach.

[lonelydesolate]

genuinely just saw someone say transmascs 'transition into the highest form of privilege society allows'. what are we doing here

[4lien8telier]

trans women please stop calling other trans women "brick" and trans men please stop calling other trans men "pooner."

its very insecure behavior.

[14100420]

are we woke enough to acknowledge that trans men & mascs get degendered too? no not yet? okay I'll check in later.

[gaydiation-poisoning]

I'm gonna be so real some of y'all think you can't be trans if you were born with a vagina

[my-autism-feeds-on-robins]

Hate it when someone who used TME/TMA makes a good point. Like yes, being a trans women is VERY brave! Extremely brave! Why did you just say trans men (sorry sorry “trans TME’s”) aren’t part of the trans community.

[cadaverer]

we NEED to reintroduce "cis" to the regular tumblr lexicon. which men get to play in the world cup? which men are used in medicine trials? the world is designed for which men, exactly?

[gender-incinerator]

not wanting to be a woman is not an act of misogyny but some of y'all are not ready to hear that

[egorenegadeboi]

if a marginalized man starts talking about his struggles and you make it about how much you hate men you are not a good person tbh

[manykinsmen]

“men can’t be oppressed” -> men of colour

“white men can’t be oppressed” -> gay men

“heterosexual men can’t be oppressed” -> trans men

“cis-het men can’t be oppressed” -> intersex men

“perisex men can’t be oppressed” -> disabled men

“able-bodied men can’t be oppressed” -> neurodivergent men

“cis-het perisex white able-bodied neurotypical men can’t be oppressed” -> buddy let me tell you about wealth and class and homelessness and immigrants and minority languages and cultures and being a child and being an elderly person and and and

we can keep doing this all day but the reality of the world is that very few people don’t face any kind of oppression at all and everyone exists in a complicated, intersecting web where they have privileges over some people in some contexts and some others are have privilege over them in other contexts. no one individual is incapable of enacting oppression and if you think that about yourself you need to go away and interrogate that belief.

[learn-how-to-love]

That “cringe” nonbinary xenogender genderfuck therian who uses neopronouns and may or may not go on HRT while being loudly, proudly themselves will always be more revolutionary and subversive than a binary trans person who aggressively reproduces the cis status quo and shames anyone who doesn’t do the same.

[jamjarblues]

i truly think that this recent trend of “if you relate to a post about a different identity than your own you are ~derailing~ and taking over the conversation” is incredibly harmful.

i recently experienced some pretty severe transphobic abuse in my workplace (children’s home) that included having food thrown at me, being called slurs, being told i was a pervert because i am trans. one of the managers talked with me afterwards and shared that he had had a similar experience as an Asian man. this wasn’t him derailing my experience, or talking over me, or making things about himself. he was communicating “hey, i know how it feels and how much it sucks. you’re not alone.”

THAT is what solidarity IS. i don’t know what it’s like to be Asian, he doesnt know what it’s like to be trans, but we both had a similar experience and we were able to turn a horrible experience into an opportunity for bonding and comfort.

stop looking at people’s attempts as solidarity as an attack. and hey, you never know - you could find an opportunity to grow closer to other people.

[apollosfallen]

The only way forward is to stop treating masculinity as synonymous with harmful, monstrous, or dangerous.

[zk-j]

“Where are the trans men in history?” See. When you're born a gender that was forcefully married off, who had to live most of their life indoors, when you had to raise children, and had a lobotomy if your family thought you were a tad too odd, it's kinda hard to come out as a trans man now ain't it.

[14100420]

TRANSandrophobia not transANDROphobia.

It is transphobia experienced only by trans men & mascs, not transphobia as well as androphobia.

Trans men & mascs deserve a name for their experiences. Watering it down to just "transphobia" does not convey the full extent of what is happening, because unlike transphobia, this does not happen to every trans person. It is the same concept of masculinity being demonized from poor men, or disabled men, or men of colour. This happens to men in nearly every marginalized group. Trans men & mascs are no exception.