sonder

21 | Sydney, Australia | lumos

[24daysofseptember]

Merry Christmas from Rotorua NZ

[bebepreferee]

“Maybe we‘re just not meant to be.”

via @xmea

[manofpropriety-blog]

I want to be taken care of. I want someone to make me eat when I haven’t, someone to cuddle me when all I want to do is destruct. I want someone to tell me they love me and look out for what’s best for me when I can’t think straight. I want someone to smile through the pain with me, and laugh at stupid jokes with me. I want someone to be undoubtedly happy with…

[selfcare-suggestion]

Remember that not everyone who leaves wants to.

[thewanderingmillennial]

So fucking sad …

[onlinecounsellingcollege]

One of the hardest decisions you’ll ever face in life is choosing whether to walk away or try harder.

Ziad K. Abdelnour (via onlinecounsellingcollege)

[lyrics-and-music]

Wish You Were Gay // Billie Eilish

[her-minds-a-mess]

What a silly thought

to think that the point of a relationship

is to be forever.

I have had forevers last six months

and forevers last two years

and still they run through my veins

as lessons

as experiences

as growth.

Never minimize a relationship as a failure

just because it has completed its’ course

[bridgetcouncil]

So you gonna let me in? 

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[vvnnie]

[6lacksoul]

[merigoldcaroline]

Why you lost her

She was beautiful. The most beautiful girl you had ever seen, her brown eyes were like warm pools of honey, and her skin was always tan, like she had just come back from vacation. And her looks were the least beautiful thing about her.  Physically, she was stunning. But that paled in comparison to her heart and mind. She was exquisite in the way she spoke with passion. She saw the good in people. Hell she saw the good in you. Even when you couldn’t. She saw the person you could be if you tried hard enough. She loved you so much, more than she ever loved her self. She loved you deeply, madly, and incredibly. She fought for you. When everyone told her she was crazy for staying, she just smiled, she knew they were wrong. Or at least she thought she did. But she didn’t know. She didn’t know that it would be impossible to pierce your ferocious walls. She wasn’t simply a girl for you to play with. So why did you treat her like she was. You loved her, and you thought that was enough. She did too, for a long time. But eventually she realized, it wasn’t. You cant simply tell someone you love them. It loses meaning. Actions speak louder than words, and yours were no exception. Your actions were what caused her to leave. She didn’t want to. But she finally figured it out. Loving you wasn’t worth hating her self.  

[quotemadness]

Life’s pain. You just have to get over as much of it as you can.

Maggie Stiefvater (via quotemadness)

[wildestlovers]

[melodyhansen]

[nikest]

dm me for promos

[quotemadness]

It takes a moment to tell someone you love them, but it takes a lifetime to prove it.

Erich Fromm (via quotemadness)

[hatin]

“Do yourself a favor and learn how to walk away. When a connection starts to fade, Learn how to let it go. When a person starts to mistreat you, learn how to move on.. to something and someone better. Don’t waste your energy trying to force something that isn’t meant to be.. Because the truth is.. for every one person who doesn’t value you - there are tons more waiting to love you better. Do better.”

— Reyna Biddy (via perrfectly)