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how are we almost halfway through the year

It makes me really sad that almost every woman I know who’s in a serious relationship with a man will eventually open up to me about how they’re pulling more weight in the relationship which leads to them feeling like a single parent and then the guy is upset because they don’t want to have sex or are irritable all of the time or whatever. It’s just so common and it always starts off with the woman wondering if they’re overreacting and being like but I love him so much. And then they’re like but I do the dishes and clean the house and pay the bills and he sleeps in late and plays video games all day and. Like seriously there’s this epidemic of unemployed loser men just leeching off of women and it’s the failure of second wave corporate feminism because he’s not even the breadwinner. There is no divide by race or class it’s just such fucking loserdom in all corners

brazillianprincess

The dream girl I'm trying to be

reads one book per week

is ahead of her college assignments and readings

is top of her class

is hyper feminine

has manners, grace, poise and elegance

is always put together: nails, hair and outfit always on point

listens to jazz and classical music

is extremely cultured

seeks validation within, not on other people

has flawless skin

cooks healthy meals for herself and is not a sweet tooth or impulsive about food

attracts masculine, high caliber men that wants to provide for her and apprecieates her feminine presence

diamondshapedaura-deactivated20

My daughter will be raised by a mature, gentle, feminine, soft spoken, emotionally intelligent, patient, optimistic woman.

brazillianprincess

We live in the best time to stand out.

The overwhelming majority of people barely read, write poorly, struggle to understand simple instructions, and can’t be bothered to look for information that is widely available.

They stay uneducated, avoid effort, and fear anything that isn’t comfortable.

They victimize themselves, blame others for their own failures, and place the hope of their success on someone else.

They think they’re the center of the universe and get offended easily.

In an environment like this, it’s not hard to stop being mediocre.

If you’re willing to read four good books a year, replace bad music with silence, and show real interest and commitment at work, you’ll already be ahead of most people.

If you also watch films that aren’t on everyone’s radar, exercise regularly, and refuse to consume personal information about other people’s lives, you’ll be ahead of thousands.

It’s not about being perfect.

It’s about doing what most people refuse to do: learning, working, improving, and taking responsibility.

And in today’s world, that alone makes you rare.

eatmangoesnekkid

If want to thrive in this world, you must remove yourself from the presence of those who subtly show you that they don’t like you, don’t support you, or are envious of you, and place yourself in the presence of those who love and adore you. Sometimes the hardest thing in the world to do is to get honest with the self by seeing people for who they really truly are. Environment matters and relationships shape wellbeing. You become more open, creative, sensuous, rooted, rested, and confident when you spend time around those who are warm, respectful, and encouraging. This is very basic math. -India Ame'ye, Author, What Does Your Social Ecology Look and Feel Like

ceruleanheaven

how to become good at everything no practice no effort no motivation no passion no talent fast free

pmamtraveller

Luca Ponsato - Does Anyone See My Suffering

illmadekn1ght

every day it gets harder to have a relaxed jaw and decent posture

funeral

In today's state of hyperactivity, where boredom is not allowed to emerge, we never reach the state of deep mental relaxation. The information society is an age of heightened mental tension, because the essence of information is surprise and the stimulus it provides. The tsunami of information means that our perceptual apparatus is permanently stimulated. It can no longer enter into contemplation. The tsunami of information fragments our attention. It prevents the contemplative lingering that is essential to narrating and careful listening . . . In the process of digitalization, . . . information acquires an altogether different status. Reality itself takes on the form of information and data. For the most part, we perceive reality in terms of information or through the lens of information. Information is an idea—that is, a re-representation. When reality takes the form of information, the immediate experience of presence withers. When digitalization gives everything the form of information, reality is flattened.

Byung-Chul Han, The Crisis of Narration

pposhspice

Ladies make your own money and instantly your self esteem and standards will increase.

hermajestyimher

I can't put into words the high and immediate self-esteem elevation that comes from knowing that you are financial free, intellectually capacitated through higher education, and building a top-tier reputation. It gives you something that your nervous system can't argue against: proof that your competency and capabilities have real impact in your life and the world around you. Understanding that you have options and agency will make your self-concept evolve much more than any form of affirmations or visualizations will, and as result, everything else begins to fall into place because desperation, inferiority complexes, and other forms of mental roadblocks become automatically lifted.