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"In Spite of his troubles, he never gave up hope" This is a blog for YOU. This is a blog made from 2 girls that have been through hell and back. We know how it feels to be kicked down, and we know how it feels to over come. We want to share that with you. Bring us your stories, questions, anything. What ever is on you're mind, if you're hurting, just want to talk, or need help. We are here for YOU. YOURE NOT ALONE. <3 Sam & Jamie

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"Sometimes to win a battle inside, you need to start a war." - The Color Morale | Suicide; Stigma

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Let Go

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The loneliness is so temporary. Just hang on, everything will be okay in the end.

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Be you!

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In light of Robin Williams passing, let’s remember that everyone we meet is fighting an invisible battle that we know nothing about. Let that inspire us to be kind and gentle in our words, including the way we speak to ourselves.

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So I just want to say I love you both and you are heroes to me. So for the past couple of months I have just one momen5 be happy and the next be sad and angry and irritated. I don't think I'm depressed,I just don't want to feel like this anymore.

Thank you so much for the love!! And remember life isn't a consistent road of happiness. There will be speed bumps and potholes all along the way, you just have to surround yourself with positive people and loved ones to help you through it! Radiate positivity and positive things will find you. Everyone gets down every once in a while, its natural. Just take the negative energy and turn it into a positive. And to be honest, sometimes a good cry can go a long way! There are times when i feel sad, that i just have to get a good cry out and i'll feel sooooo much better after! Let out your feelings, don't hold them in. Talk to someone, and stay positive. 

<3 Jamie

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Hi okay firstly I love this blog. okay so my boyfriend was recently put in jail for drugs and alcohol but because he was already on probation for it he is doing about 5 years, before he got put in there we had been friends for 5 years but only together (unofficially 2 months) and officially 3 weeks or so. Some people are telling me I should forget about him dont talk to him ect. but I dont know if I could just cut him out of my life after 5 years. DO you have any advise for me???

So for starters, do you want to be involved in the hectic and emotionally draining experience that comes with someone thats in and out of jail, and does drugs? Yes he may be a great guy, but i don't think being involved with someone like that is the best idea. You should find someone that isn't getting themselves into that kind of stuff. Be friends with him yes, you don't have to delete him from your life. But dating him may not be the best idea. If people that care about you are telling you its best to forget about him, i'd say its advice in your best interest that you should think about.

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I have been seeing someone for over a year and they really want me to commit to a proper relationship, but they knew getting into it I wasn't really into commitment. I do really want to make them happy and just say okay but then at the same time I am a little worried that once I commit I will just sort of lose interest in them and it will ruin everything. I'm not really sure what is the right thing to do and I don't know what is the right choice.

I've definitely been in this situation before, but on the other side. I do know the opinion of the person that was on your end though. With love comes risks. You have to understand that, and its just a matter of how much you are willing to risk. Think of yourself in this situation rather than the other person. Are you willing to take the chance and commit, is it worth possibly losing interest? Is being with this person and your happiness with this person worth taking the chance? 

In my opinion love is about taking chances. You will get hurt, you will lose people in your life, hearts get broken sometimes. But in the long run it was all worth the happiness that came with the relationship you were in. Think of yourself first in this situation about what you really want, because if you commit to this relationship only to make the other party happy, you could only end up hurting them worse in the end.

<3 Jamie

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There isnt enough space for me to explain what Im going through. I've never been so lost, sad, or hopeless. I have to fight myself to find some sort of happiness to get me through each day. I try not to, but I've recently resorted back to self harm. I blame myself for so the stress & chaos in my life, even though I know that most of it has been completely out of my control. I wish I could be specific, but I tried & went trough 500 characters before I got 1/2 way though. Idk how to help myself...

You need to surround yourself with positive people that love and support you. I’m sorry that you are going through this and can’t be more specific. But whether it be guys, family, or just life in general you don’t understand how much positivity can really change a persons life. We all, at some point in our lives, have been where you are. Lost, not knowing where you're going or what you are doing with your life. Not knowing who you are or who you want to be. Not knowing what the future will hold is a scary thing, what if you fail, what if you let people down? I’m here to tell you that its not as bad as most of the world makes it out to be. Everything happens in the world for a reason, and in the end everything gets better. Self harm is in no way okay, nor does it make any situations better. Find something you love to do, or that you are passionate about. Use that anger and sadness and all of that energy into something you absolutely love! When you get mad, convert that energy into being productive about something that you love! You’d be amazed by the outcome. You won’t find yourself in a day, this is definitely a process, but like i said in the end it always gets better. You just need a positive mindset and to surround yourself with people that love and support you. Push out all the negativity. 

<3 Jamie

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Sooo my friends are always getting new boyfriends and dating around and I'm happy being single. My friends keep pushing me to get a boyfriend and they dont understand that it has to be with the right person first. I have told them off before but they wont stop and its really annoying. What do I do?

For starters congrats on being single and happy with it! Not many people are strong enough to be happy being single especially when they are surrounded by couples. Have you sat your friends down and literally been like listen, i'm super happy being single. I don't want a relationship and y'all need to respect that. A true friend would understand and be very happy for you that you are single. Try and sit them down and have a serious convo about it and just let them know how you feel. Not aggressively by any means but tell them how annoying it is that they nag you about it all the time. Maybe they are just worried about you being single and don't realize you are genuinely happy as a single person! If that doesn't work, i suggest reevaluating your friends, as a real friend would be so happy for you.

<3 Jamie

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Relationship question...

My bf and I got in a fight not worth breaking up over but we did. It’s been almost 2 months since we broke up. We had been getting along still, going out to eat together, watching movies together even though we were technically not a couple anymore. A week before Valentine’s Day he asked me what I wanted for Valentine’s Day. I asked for something small considering we didn’t have the title. A couple of days before Valentine’s Day he starts acting distant. I see him on Valentine’s Day but he’s distant, barely says anything to me. Before he leaves he says things as if he’s not going to see me again. I text him from time to time but barely get an answer. Everything seemed fine. What could have happened. This May would have been our 4 year anniversary and I’m so confused. Part of me wants to take his advice and try to move on but it’s so hard! Thanks for your advice in advance!!

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I'm Sorry to hear that, i think that you should maybe try and talk to him about how you are feeling. Communication can make or break a relationship, when you don't have that clarity on what y'all are it hurts and it's not fair to either of you! Once you have this conversation, that will clear so much up for you. If he does say that he is not into it anymore and that he doesn't want to continue the relationship, i know it will hurt but you will have to move on! Everything happens for a reason, if you dwell on a past relationship you could be missing out on meeting the love of your life. Understand that you are worth waaaay too much than to dwell on a past relationship and on someone thats not willing to treat you like a damn queen!! You will find the one, and when you do it's going to be amazing!! 

<3 Sam&Jamie