very difficult to vague in a small fandom. can't say give any details or someone will inevitably take it as a personal attack. can't offer a made-up scenario as an example because someone will misconstrue it as a personal attack that is also misrepresenting the "real situation." try to erase any and all identifying and referential characteristics and then all that's left is some banality like "racism is bad and you shouldn't let people's cryptic racism go uncommented on just because you don't want to escalate anything," and then your notes are full of the same type of people you're vagueing about agreeing with you. this is a theoretical situation that has not happened to me.




















