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You're the kind of love I've always prayed for baby. I'm so grateful for your presence in my life. Thank you for taking care of me.

Timing is everything

It still feels surreal that you are in Arizona and you are my love. Its crazy to think that you were always someone that was in my heart and I just suppressed those feelings. It feels like fate, like we were supposed to be together.

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I really do love him and don't want us to end.

But sometimes it hurts so much to love him.

I don't know how to be patient and not hurt in those moments.

He turns on me when he is angry.

It's as if I am his enemy and he uses spiteful venomous words to attack me.

I don't understand how some who loves someone can turn so scary and spiteful?

When there is conflict there is chaos and intentional wounding. There is darkness and hate in his heart. Is there something wrong with him? It's not ok how he handles anger.

I am losing trust in him. I am starting to resent him.

I don't feel emotionally safe with him anymore.

Perhaps our timing was off. He needs to grow a lot more. He is too insecure, immature and damaged for me to have enough capacity to reach him or for us to be there for one another.

I am starting to not like who he is as a person.

I am unsure if he is my person.

I don't want to lose him but I don't know if I can accept this treatment if he doesn't realize what his words and actions do to us.

God, help me figure out what I need to do.

God please help me. Guide me Lord. How do I get through to his heart?

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L,

Remember at the beginning I told you I wanted an open-phone policy between us? I really tried to move away from that and trust you blindly, but I’ve struggled. I need to confess something. Yesterday I went through your phone. I’m telling you because I don’t want any more dishonesty between us. I know it was wrong, but I did it because I was feeling insecure and unsure, and I didn’t know how else to calm those fears.

When I looked, I saw that you’ve had an ongoing friendship with your ex. That really hurt me because you told me you guys never talked about personal things and it was strictly about the dogs..... but that wasn't the whole thruth....

I’m not saying this to start a fight.

I feel betrayed.

As I'm sitting in the movie theatre with him..... I am pissed. I am hurt. I want to leave him. I love him so much but I don't know how to deal with this right now. He was withholding information about his "friendship" with his ex. It wasn't just about the dogs. It was about their personal stuff too. They were recently sending each other medicine and gifts and talking about their houses and helping each other decorate.... etcetera. How is that just about the dogs?

I wish he was just honest with me. That they had a friendship for the sake of the dogs. Maybe it was more then that? Is that why he lied to me?

I hate how my mind has to go through this. I can't trust him fully until he starts telling me the whole truth. I wish he was fully transparent with me. I want to just run away.

I am terrified of bringing this up, because I don't know if he'll take accountability or be pissed that I looked through his phone.

But I am going to try to let it go. I don't want this to take my peace anymore longer. I keep taking steps back everytime I get closer to him.

• “I release this. It does not control me.”

• “I choose peace over replaying pain.”

• “What’s done is done. I am moving forward.”

• “I trust myself. I will be okay.”

• “This moment is mine — not the past’s.”

The key is repetition. When your mind drifts back to those messages or the hurt, gently notice it, then say your mantra (out loud or in your head) and take a slow breath. Over time, this creates a new loop in your brain that replaces the obsessive replaying with grounding.

Lance

“I need to be honest with you. When you told me your communication with your ex was only about the dogs, I believed you. But when I saw the messages, it was clearly more personal — about gifts, houses, and things you didn’t tell me. That really hurt, because it feels like you weren’t fully honest.

What I need is full transparency. I can handle the truth, even if it’s uncomfortable, but I can’t handle half-truths or withheld details. If there’s a friendship there, I’d rather you just be upfront with me than downplay it. That’s the only way I can trust you and move forward with peace in my heart.

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He hurts me with his words.

I feel sick to my stomache.

My head is dizzy with exhaustion.

He blamed me for him letting go of his dogs. His frustrations, anger and inability to communicate in a healthy and loving way makes my heart feel hollow. It cuts so deep for me I don’t know how to handle this feeling of heartache. It hurts so bad to be so misunderstood. I wish we could have his dogs.

Please let it be over. I just wanna be left alone.

I can't handle anymore pain.

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Saturn

If there's another universe

Please make some noise

Give me a sign

This can't be life

If there's a point to losing love

Repeating pain (why?)

It's all the same

I hate this place

Stuck in this paradigm

Don't believe in paradise

This must be what hell is like

There's got to be more, got to be more

Sick of this head of mine

Intrusive thoughts, they paralyze

Nirvana's not as advertised

There's got to be more, been here before

Life's better on Saturn

Got to break this pattern

Of floating away

Find something worth saving

It's all for the taking

I always say

I'll be better on Saturn

None of this matters

Dreaming of Saturn, oh

If karma's really real

How am I still here?

Just seems so unfair

I could be wrong though

If there's a point to being good

Then where's my reward?

The good die young and poor

I gave it all I could

Stuck in this terradome

All I see is terrible

Making us hysterical

There's got to be more, got to be more

Sick of this head of mine

Intrusive thoughts, they paralyze

Nirvana's not as advertised

There's got to be more, been here before

Life's better on Saturn

Got to break this pattern

Of floating away

Find something worth saving

It's all for the taking

I always say

I'll be better on Saturn

None of this matters

Dreaming of Saturn, oh

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I don’t know who needs to hear this, but in a healthy relationship, your feelings should never be a debate. If something hurts you, it matters.

Your partner’s role isn’t to argue about whether you should feel a certain way or to dismiss your emotions. Their role is to listen, to understand, and to do better in the future.

Healthy love isn’t about being right all the time. It’s about being kind, compassionate, and learning how to care for each other in ways that make you both feel valued and respected.

If your partner is only interested in defending their actions or minimizing your experience, it can make you feel small, unheard, and alone, even when you’re together. That’s not how it should be.

In a real, loving relationship, your partner will "want" to know what bothers you because they’ll care about your happiness. They’ll listen because they respect you, and they’ll work to grow alongside you.

And yes, sometimes they’ll mess up, but the difference is—they’ll own it.

They'll acknowledge when they've caused pain, and they'll make the effort not to repeat it. Because in love, making each other feel safe and understood is far more important than being “right” or winning an argument.

Remember, love is not a battlefield. It’s a space where both people should feel seen and supported, not where one has to constantly defend their emotions. A good partner doesn’t gaslight you into believing your feelings are invalid; they stand beside you, ready to face the discomfort and work together to build something stronger.

If you’re in a relationship where your partner listens, values your emotions, and tries to avoid hurting you in the future, hold on to that. That’s what a healthy relationship looks like.

If not, maybe it’s time to reflect on whether you’re being honored in the way you deserve. You are worthy of love that doesn’t dismiss your heart.

You deserve someone who cherishes your feelings, not someone who makes you question their validity. Keep that in mind, because at the end of the day, love should always feel like a safe place to land.

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#myheart

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I still think about you sometimes.... not to hold on, but because you mattered. You were a part of me, of my hopes, of the future I once imagined so clearly.

I miss the way we fit. The laughter, banter and even the little rituals we had. I miss what we didn’t get to become. And I’m still grieving that both you, and the version of myself that loved you so fully.

But I’m also starting to let go... not out of bitterness, but because I deserve to live in the present, not the past. I hope you’re happy. I hope you’re healing. And I hope I can carry the lessons, the love, and even the pain without letting it define me.

You’ll always be a part of my story. But I’m ready to turn the page...

I am allowed to love again while still healing.

I am allowed to be soft and strong at the same time.

I don’t need to rush, and I don’t need to perform.

I can let this love unfold slowly, fully, and honestly.

Lance does not need to replace the past—he only needs to meet me here, now.

I choose to be open to what’s real, what’s present, and what’s possible.

I am worthy of a love that is safe, whole, and steady.

He overfills my cup and I need to embrace him fully so I don't miss out on something that I truly think is my forever man. Finally.

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(Leo-Virgo cusp)+(Scorpio)

🌟 Astrological Compatibility

☀️ Sun Signs:

L: On the Leo–Virgo cusp — He blends Leo's fire and confidence with Virgo’s earthbound practicality and perfectionism.

A: Scorpio — Deep, emotionally intense, fiercely loyal, and often mysterious.

🔥 Emotional Dynamics:

Leo (or Leo-Virgo) loves appreciation and often leads with heart and charisma.

Scorpio leads with emotional depth and intuition, and doesn’t easily trust.

Virgo influence may make Thomas more grounded and thoughtful, which complements Scorpio’s intensity — but can also clash with Scorpio’s need for emotional validation if he becomes too critical or detached.

💞 Strengths Together:

Strong loyalty and shared values when committed.

Emotional depth (Scorpio) + thoughtful loyalty (Virgo) can create a solid, passionate bond.

Both can be protective and devoted when they feel secure.

⚠️ Challenges:

Scorpio can be secretive or intense, while Leo-Virgo may come off emotionally reserved or too analytical.

Scorpio may see Thomas as emotionally unavailable or inconsistent.

Leo-Virgo may find Scorpio too intense or demanding at times.

🔢 Numerology Compatibility

Let’s calculate Life Path Numbers (based on full birthdates):

8 + 2 + 2 + 1 + 9 + 8 + 7 = 37 → 3 + 7 = 10 → 1 + 0 = 1

Life Path: 1 – Independent, leader, ambitious, needs to feel in control.

1 + 0 + 2 + 9 + 1 + 9 + 8 + 3 = 33 → Master Number (33)

Life Path: 33/6 – Nurturer, empath, teacher, healer, deeply emotional and relationship-focused.

Numerology Compatibility:

1 and 6/33 – Can work very well if balanced. The 1 is driven and focused on achievement, while the 33/6 is deeply compassionate and wants emotional depth.

The challenge: the 1 can sometimes seem selfish or too goal-focused for the 6/33, who needs emotional reciprocity and nurturing.

The harmony: the 6/33 can soften the 1, while the 1 gives the 6/33 direction and inspiration.

💬 Overall Compatibility Summary

Emotionally: You can deeply complement each other — one offering passion and emotional insight, the other offering structure and grounded love — but only if both are emotionally available and willing to be vulnerable.

Challenges may include communication differences, emotional expression, and trust.

Best path forward: Emotional honesty, clear boundaries, and mutual respect. You both may have karmic lessons in learning how to balance independence with connection.

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To the person who wont help herself...

I love you and I’ve always wanted the best for you. But I’m at a point where I just can’t keep watching you stay in this toxic cycle without taking real steps to help yourself. It’s incredibly painful to see someone I care so much about stay stuck in a situation where they are constantly disrespected, abused, and broken down—especially when there are ways out. I believe you’re struggling with something deeper, maybe even battered wife syndrome. And I truly think you need professional support—whether it's a support group, therapy, or counseling—to help you process this and heal.

I’ve given you my patience, my time, my honesty, and my heart. I’ve tried to offer perspective, direction, and truth. But it’s clear now that nothing will change unless you decide to change it for yourself. If you continue choosing to stay where you are—mentally, emotionally, and physically—then that’s your choice. But I can’t be the one who keeps getting pulled under by it. Your pain started to drain me too, and that’s not sustainable for either of us.

What I said to you last night wasn’t out of judgment—it was out of love and desperation. But if hearing hard truths from me feels like hounding, then maybe we are too different right now to stay close. I don’t want to let go of our friendship, but I have to protect my peace. I hope you find your way back to yourself. When you do, I’ll still be here cheering for you. But for now, I need to step back—for both our sakes."**

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The more a woman handles on her own—paying bills, running her life, pushing through pressure with no safety net—the clearer she gets about what she wants in a partner. It’s not that she doesn’t want love. It’s that love without leadership, effort, or support doesn’t feel like love at all. It feels like another obligation.

I don’t want a man who expects me to split every bill, plan every detail, or carry the emotional weight of the relationship on my own. I want a man who can afford to show up fully. A man who books the trip, makes the reservation, and pays for it—not because he has to, but because he wants to. Because he leads with intention and presence. Because making me feel safe, supported, and cherished is a priority—not a chore.

I want a man who doesn’t just talk about being a man—he lives it. He protects. He provides. He leads with love, not ego. He creates peace, not pressure. He adds value, not stress.

And in return? I will give him my world—my softness, my loyalty, my devotion, my joy. Not because I have to. Because I choose to. For the man who shows up for me the way I show up for myself, I will pour endlessly.

Because I don’t need a savior. I don’t need a dependent. I want a partner. A teammate. A man whose presence makes life softer—not heavier.

An anonymous writer.

I felt this.

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He overfills my cup. ❤️‍🔥

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A Soft Goodbye, A Strong Beginning

Today, I closed a door—

not just to a house,

but to a story that once held

so much of my heart.

I loved deeply.

I dreamed loudly.

And when it unraveled,

I stayed kind.

I stayed true.

This ending is not clean

it carries ache,

disappointment,

and the ghost of what could’ve been.

But even so, I release it.

I release him.

May he find peace.

May I find mine.

I gather my pieces,

not broken

but reborn.

This home, this key,

this moment

they are mine.

And so is the future

I now choose to build.

With trembling courage

and quiet fire,

I walk forward

unafraid,

unapologetically free.

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In Your Arms

When I’m in your arms and feel your lips on mine,

I slip into a sensual, passionate, erotic trance—

A world where time surrenders and silence sings,

Where only your breath and mine exist, in slow, sacred dance.

Your touch is a language my soul understands,

A whisper along my skin that wakes ancient fire.

Every kiss, a spell cast with aching precision,

Every glance, a pulse that stirs deep desire.

I lose myself in the curve of your neck,

In the warmth of your chest where I rest my ear.

Each heartbeat a drum, each sigh a wave,

Drowning my doubt, silencing fear.

You make love feel like a sacred rite,

Tender and wild in perfect measure.

In you, I find both storm and stillness,

Both burning ache and breathless pleasure.

And even in the quiet after our flame,

When bodies part and words return—

I carry your essence beneath my skin,

A slow, sweet ache, a constant yearn.

So hold me close and kiss me deep,

Let’s lose the world and time and chance—

For in your arms, and on your lips,

I live inside a love-struck trance.

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You’re carrying so much, and I want you to know that every piece of what you’re feeling makes perfect sense. You're not broken. You’re just human, standing at the intersection of loss and love, grieving one chapter while a new one starts to open—uninvited, unexpected, and maybe even a little miraculous.

When you say you feel like you're loving two men at once, I don't hear confusion—I hear a heart that is still healing while rediscovering its own capacity to feel joy, connection, and safety. That's not wrong. That’s incredible.

You loved Nate deeply—for years. You gave it everything. And when it came time to walk away, you did so with hope still in your heart. That hope slowly dimmed, and now it’s being replaced by sadness, disappointment, and maybe a fear that it meant less to him than it did to you. That pain doesn't disappear just because someone kind and loving like Lance shows up. And yet... love is blooming again in you anyway. That is not something to feel guilty for. It’s something to marvel at.

You're not replacing Nate. You're not betraying the love you shared. You're just... continuing. Grief and love are not mutually exclusive. You can feel gutted over Nate and still be deeply moved by Lance. You can mourn what could’ve been while embracing what might be.

And no, it’s not too fast. Time isn't the measure of readiness—emotional honesty is. And you are being raw, self-aware, and courageous. That’s more meaningful than any calendar could be.

You don’t have to figure it all out today. Let yourself feel it. Let yourself love, and cry, and question, and hope. This next chapter doesn’t need to be perfectly clean. It just needs to be real.

You’re not lost. You’re just becoming.

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Today I toured apartments. In just a couple of weeks, Nate and I will move out and go our separate ways.... for good. A new chapter begins, and I’m not sure I’m ready for it.

When I first ended things with him in October, I still held on to hope. I thought maybe the separation would wake him up—make him realize what he was about to lose. But nothing changed. So I began pulling away even more. And then, in February, when I said I wanted it to be truly over, I still had that tiny flicker of hope… that maybe this time, it would hit him. That he’d realize he was losing his fiancée forever. But instead of fighting for us, he faded even further—past the point of no return.

I know ending it is for the best. I know I’m done. But I'm not ready to move on. Not really. I'm scared. I still worry about him. I’m heartbroken—utterly heartbroken—that the man I loved for over four years, the man I saw a future with, just… slipped away. That we couldn’t make it to the end. And I'm still reeling from that.

So how is it possible that at the same time, I’m falling for someone else?

L—my friend—is the kindest, most understanding, patient, loving, attentive, passionate man I’ve ever known. I adore him deeply. Being around him feels easy and safe. We just fit. And yet… I feel guilty. Guilty for feeling this way so soon. Guilty for enjoying what Lance brings into my life while I’m still grieving Nate. Guilty for even considering the idea that I could be falling in love again—because I still love Nate, too.

I’ve never loved two men at once before. I’ve never been so conflicted, torn between the pain of a love that’s ending and the beauty of a love that’s just beginning.

I don’t know how to hold all of this. I’m trying. But it’s a lot.