Little rant on how the AroAce communitly is shown cuz it bothers me and this is a unknown blog space i can vent in lol.
Anyway dont like dont read all that this is just my thoughts on things ive seen in the AroAce space. A little personal but not explicit under the cut. A
Things to know i am AroAce.
Im 24. He/they.
Sex is fun and feels great but i dont find other people attractive and am a pillow princess but i wpuld only have it with some one i trust a whole fucking lot so i gets that puts me somewhere on the DemiSexual spectrum of Ace.
Honestly dont i really look to much it to that just is yah know. I dont feel that connected to the Ace side of the AroAce community due to this but i am.
I do however feel more alined with the Aro side of things. Romance has never been somthing that felt good to me. It makes me skin crawl back when i did have partners or when people tried to say they loved me like that. Holding hands, cuddling, sleeping in the same bed, even sex. As soon as romanitc feelings were intoduced to these things it made my skin crawl and i was uncomfortable. Even when i could do them all platonicly just fine craved it even.
It took me some time to find out about the Aro commumituly and when it did it clicked.
All this to say i dont hate romance love to read it, but when it comes to my self i dont want it or need it. So i id my self more with the Aro side of the AroAce label. (Tho the sunset aroace flag is my fav so i use it The most hehe im an artist the colors are so nice leave me alone lol)
Now for my issue that i see so much. Is that Aro is so rarely shown as its own thing.
And its bad during pride month it feels like cus its always aroace and ace things and on Ao3 its bad to AroAce character taged but they are writitn as only an Ace character and i understand spectrums in the aro space but that is not what im talking about here.
Its in the people on tictok going these are my AroAce character HCs and its all AroAce or just Ace none are ever just Aro its allways aroace. Never just aro.
And i understand i do alot of more people are AroAce not just Aro. Hell me too by my own words above. But i dont really view my self as Ace i do veiw my self as Aro.
So my issue is the lack of acknowledgement that people can be just Aro that Aro = AroAce every time. I cant speek for others im just a random on the internet but what ever. I just wish that when i tell people that im Aro and they learn what it means im not compared to hook up culture. Or as a whore who just wants a quick fuvk. But sometimes thats what it feels like.
Anyway if you have read this far thanks a bunch i suck at writing and spelling. So your a real one. I mostly just need to vent a bit enjoy your day or night. I wish you the best.




















