anti ddlg

mod k: trans—minor—sapphic—they/them—mentally ill—NOT TERF FRIENDLY

[librius]

i see a lot of posts saying that asexuals aren't cishet, but some can be, thye just can't be straight, right?

i guess yeah? i dont like the term cishet in reference to aces tbh, bc it implies het of both kinds & cis, if you add a space and say cis het, its a bit better bc it implies that they arent the average cishet, which they arent ofc

now u can call them straight tbh, tho i suggest you only do it with permission from the person, and realize that its straight the label, and not Straight™ the privilege, bc asexuals and aromantics dont have Straight™ privilege

[abuse-isnt-cute]

they're... the same fucking thing..... putting a space between cishet doesn't remove the fact that cishet aces and cishet aros are privileged lmfao

likewise adding a capital S and the ™ doesn't change shit straight cis aces/aros have straight and cis privilege

[abuse-isnt-cute]

so I did this thing too where I went into the ddlg tag on omegle to see if people were fine with me being 13/14/15/16 and literally everyone except two people were fine with it.

if I said I was 13 or 14 I got called “little one” and one guy said “yummy” in response to saying I was 13

a 48 year old man TWICE said yes to me when I said I was 16 and asked me if I was a good girl or a naughty girl

I met one little who was 14 and asked me to be her friend because she had no little friends.

something I find interesting is that every person I came across, except for the one 14 year old, was a DD looking for a little, and they were almost always over 20. the only people who said I was too young were an 18 and 17 year old.

this is so disgusting and the next person who says that “it’s between consenting adults only!” bullshit can go fuck themselves

[pink-isntkink]

YIKES

[daddys-fucktoys]

THESE FUCKERS NEED TO LITERALLY BE WIPED FROM THE FACE OF THE EARTH.

[remorseless-pleasures]

Ddlg IS between consenting adults. The problem is that there are a lot of gross guys like the ones pictured above who claim to be a “Daddy” but are really just gross pedos. And if you’re into ddlg you need to make sure whoever you’re talking to actually understand those guidelines and such and isn’t just some creep 😒

[abuse-isnt-cute]

you literally can't say it's ONLY between consenting adults when there are LITERALLY men (and women) who groom and coercive young people into these relationships shut the fuck up and get off my post you pedophile apologist

[abuse-isnt-cute]

so I did this thing too where I went into the ddlg tag on omegle to see if people were fine with me being 13/14/15/16 and literally everyone except two people were fine with it.

if I said I was 13 or 14 I got called “little one” and one guy said “yummy” in response to saying I was 13

a 48 year old man TWICE said yes to me when I said I was 16 and asked me if I was a good girl or a naughty girl

I met one little who was 14 and asked me to be her friend because she had no little friends.

something I find interesting is that every person I came across, except for the one 14 year old, was a DD looking for a little, and they were almost always over 20. the only people who said I was too young were an 18 and 17 year old.

this is so disgusting and the next person who says that “it’s between consenting adults only!” bullshit can go fuck themselves

[pink-isntkink]

YIKES

[daddys-fucktoys]

THESE FUCKERS NEED TO LITERALLY BE WIPED FROM THE FACE OF THE EARTH.

[mrkittyboy]

Actually, the idea that thirteen and fourteen makes a child needs to be wiped from the face of the Earth. Only artificial Law is standing in the way here in an artificial society operating under a fraudulent system. Natural law says mate. Natural law only cares if the biological systems can facilitate reproduction. Everything else is a farce and a fallacy.

[abuse-isnt-cute]

yikes get off my post you fucking pedophile

[abuse-isnt-cute]

so I did this thing too where I went into the ddlg tag on omegle to see if people were fine with me being 13/14/15/16 and literally everyone except two people were fine with it.

if I said I was 13 or 14 I got called “little one” and one guy said “yummy” in response to saying I was 13

a 48 year old man TWICE said yes to me when I said I was 16 and asked me if I was a good girl or a naughty girl

I met one little who was 14 and asked me to be her friend because she had no little friends.

something I find interesting is that every person I came across, except for the one 14 year old, was a DD looking for a little, and they were almost always over 20. the only people who said I was too young were an 18 and 17 year old.

this is so disgusting and the next person who says that “it’s between consenting adults only!” bullshit can go fuck themselves

[abuse-isnt-cute]

btw if you reblog this post to tell me about how THESE men are bad but ~daddy doms aren't like this and these aren't REAL daddy doms~ you're literally fucking disgusting and can choke

[abuse-isnt-cute]

so I did this thing too where I went into the ddlg tag on omegle to see if people were fine with me being 13/14/15/16 and literally everyone except two people were fine with it.

if I said I was 13 or 14 I got called “little one” and one guy said “yummy” in response to saying I was 13

a 48 year old man TWICE said yes to me when I said I was 16 and asked me if I was a good girl or a naughty girl

I met one little who was 14 and asked me to be her friend because she had no little friends.

something I find interesting is that every person I came across, except for the one 14 year old, was a DD looking for a little, and they were almost always over 20. the only people who said I was too young were an 18 and 17 year old.

this is so disgusting and the next person who says that “it’s between consenting adults only!” bullshit can go fuck themselves

[pink-isntkink]

YIKES

[daddys-fucktoys]

THESE FUCKERS NEED TO LITERALLY BE WIPED FROM THE FACE OF THE EARTH.

[aeryn74]

Rapist are men but not all men are Rapist. These are pedophiles using BDSM to stalk naive kids who think they know what being a little is. A Daddy Dom is not a “dad” tryng to have sex with his kids or any other kids. It’s an adult who has a very caring way to lead and help a “little” grow. I’m a proud little with a Daddy Dom and we have NEVER once done any incest play. So before you blame kink look at where you are and know most of those assholes are probably already registered sex offenders or 10 year olds playing around hoping to see their 1st boobie.

[abuse-isnt-cute]

wow you're right literally no daddy Dom has ever groomed young children into a ddlg relationship lmao get the fuck off my post

[petefoxshend-deactivated2018062]

people getting called homophobic over headcanons of fictional characters is astounding. simply amazing

[abuse-isnt-cute]

wanting gay characters to be something other than gay is homophobia lmfao

[abuse-isnt-cute]

so I did this thing too where I went into the ddlg tag on omegle to see if people were fine with me being 13/14/15/16 and literally everyone except two people were fine with it.

if I said I was 13 or 14 I got called “little one” and one guy said “yummy” in response to saying I was 13

a 48 year old man TWICE said yes to me when I said I was 16 and asked me if I was a good girl or a naughty girl

I met one little who was 14 and asked me to be her friend because she had no little friends.

something I find interesting is that every person I came across, except for the one 14 year old, was a DD looking for a little, and they were almost always over 20. the only people who said I was too young were an 18 and 17 year old.

this is so disgusting and the next person who says that “it’s between consenting adults only!” bullshit can go fuck themselves

[katsuki-yuri-against-kink]

The fucking comments on this are disgusting. “Well these literal pedophiles who are provably a part of the kink community I’m defending don’t meet my standards so that means I can just pretend they’re not ~really~ part of my community and go on about my merry way!” fucking no.

[abuse-isnt-cute]

this post has been up for like.. 8 months now? and literally any time I check the notes on this post I see some annoying fucking abuse apologists saying this shit lmao it's awful

[abuse-isnt-cute]

so I did this thing too where I went into the ddlg tag on omegle to see if people were fine with me being 13/14/15/16 and literally everyone except two people were fine with it.

if I said I was 13 or 14 I got called “little one” and one guy said “yummy” in response to saying I was 13

a 48 year old man TWICE said yes to me when I said I was 16 and asked me if I was a good girl or a naughty girl

I met one little who was 14 and asked me to be her friend because she had no little friends.

something I find interesting is that every person I came across, except for the one 14 year old, was a DD looking for a little, and they were almost always over 20. the only people who said I was too young were an 18 and 17 year old.

this is so disgusting and the next person who says that “it’s between consenting adults only!” bullshit can go fuck themselves

[antiddlg-thankyoubutnope]

I agree those men are totally in the wrong! Just a reminder not all “ddlg” men and women are like this. Only the assholes who take advantage of people deserve to be labelled pedophiles. Like with dating and in the kink communities, just remember to be safe! And yes minors, do not seek to date adults.

[abuse-isnt-cute]

shut the fuck up for the love of god the new post button costs $0.00 if you want to make ~friendly reminders~ for ddlg people

[feminismandmedia]

I think one thing that scares me about ace exclusion is that it’s very similar to TERF logic and rhetoric.

[ace-feminist]

They seem like the same people honestly

[the-nerdy-curvy-feminist-archiv]

@courteousmingler has been saying this for months and months, and has been actively attacked by both aphobes and terfs for it. But there is actually a list (somewhere) of I think 50 aphobic terfs? It might be higher now.

[feminismandmedia]

Now is there a true correlation? Damn.

[the-nerdy-curvy-feminist-archiv]

Yep. I mean a ton of trans people have called it out because for trans and nonbinary people it’s been super obvious that this is terf rhetoric

[aerospace-agenda]

For reference, it’s apparently about 133 or so.

(the same person, I believe, runs another blog that tracks terfs who are for inclusion of a-spec people; there’s… 2, I think, last I heard/checked?)

[abuse-isnt-cute]

anyways you blocked me on my other blog lmao so: I mean alright lmao but: -I've literally never seen the URLs of most of those blogs, meaning they probably aren't a prominent actual discourser. the ones who are prominent/post in the tag, where we can see them, are repeatedly called out by those of us active in discourse and are a shitty minority w/in discourse. -despite how much we try to call them out, the inclusion side rarely- if ever- calls out the homophobes, transphobes, sexists, racists, ableists, and serophobes on their side. I used to spend time actively compiling receipts on terrible blogs until I realized none of y'all have a shit, no matter how many receipts I gave of actual proof of oppressive/abusive/shitty behavior (something the inclusion side rarely does in callouts). if you want to look at the receipts/the multiple masterposts I made of blogs, just search "for masterpost" on @discourseful -usually above pattern tends to be us giving a blog/multiple blogs who's been shitty and them going "what do you expect us to do!!!!!" and then turning around and throwing some truscum blog at us and saying "why don't you call out THIS blog!" ..... even though most of us regularly active blogs have each called them out and repeatedly warned other blogs not to reblog from/interact with them. I've watched this happen for the entire eight months I've had this blog. -like I already said most discoursers are literally trans, w most being nb. this has been shown multiple times through multiple surveys, the longest of which was done by me on @discourseful which included over 600 people from both sides. (if you want this you can search "discourse survey" on that blog and it should be there) -anyways so many trans people on this side have repeatedly said that its harmful, wrong, and a complete misunderstand of what the fuck is actually happen to routinely compare a group comprised of a majority of trans people but y'all fuckers don't care about us unless we want to accommodate cis people lmao -also "don't comment on my posts" sorry the big mean trans ppl don't like your transphobia lol!

[ace-times-three]

MGA Lesbain/Gay: PSA

If you’re a lesbian attracted to women and women-aligned nonbinary people, you are a multiple gender attracted lesbain, because yeah, the genders are similar, but they’re still separate genders.

If you’re a gay man attracted to other men and men-aligned nonbinary people, you are a multiple gender attracted gay man. Because yes; the genders are similar, but they’re still separate genders.

Thanks.

[abuse-isnt-cute]

words have no meaning apparently

[jeongsin-isang]

lol

[ace-times-three]

I searched discourseprincesa on mobile an THIS popped up. Whoops, nice transphobia

[istudyhumanhope]

well if you search trans on ther blog now there is quite a different picture. Still advocating for the use of cishet by everyone even tho multiple trans people have said they are not comfortable with, but i don’t think this post shows  what this person thinks. Maybe its an old post and they changed their mind, maybe former use of the blog or idk. I mean, I still do not think they are a person that I would ever want interact with but I would be careful about that one *reciep* here

[ace-times-three]

Yeah, I didn’t tag it as receipt for that reason, it just made me laugh in that painful “what the fuck” kinda way.

And yeah please for the love of fuck don’t use cishet unless you’re trans/nb and not straight.

[abuse-isnt-cute]

y'all this post is literally photoshopped lmao @istudyhumanhope that's what OPs blog did months ago. they photoshopped posts and switched "cis" to "trans" and "white" to "black and the like so they could make people on our side look bad.

[misogynistowner-deactivated2017]

We know how you feel about men and women's relationships, but what about women and women (with, and without, a man in charge of one of them)?

I think women are great. I understand why women think other women are great. 

However I think that a woman in a relationship with another women are inevitably missing out. It’s not penis envy that plague the lesbian but rather the fact that women so adore being told what to do. In a lesbian relationship either one woman must be dominant which is to her detriment or both women need to be equally dominant which is to the detriment of them both.

Women are biologically programmed to be submissive.Their genetic programming over the course of millennia has made sure that they are happier obeying then ordering. Happier being the beautiful housewife than the entrepeneur. And that’s fine. 

If its just about the sex, then I can’t contribute to the conversation. People can get off on anything. But if its about happiness then there needs to be a dominant male involved. 

I also wrote something similar here

[daddy-doms-are-gross]

I feel like women are happiest when away from men like you ;)

[landlordkiller69]

bad post, op

[abuse-isnt-cute]

do me a favor and never fucking date a woman

[autistictaramaclay]

it costs $0 to masturbate instead of guilt tripping yr sex-repulsed partner into having sex with you

[witchydiscourse]

Ya see this? This is called “guilt tripping”. Like holy shit, wouldn’t you rather have an ace person be with someone who’s fine with not getting laid instead of forcing people to be in an unhappy relationship where they’re not getting what they need? Like I know y'all hate literally everyone who isn’t 100% repulsed by sex but I would never think that y'all are totally fine with people being outright miserable as long as it’s in the name of the discourse but hey. Y'all surprise me every day.

[discourseful]

it costs $0 to stop manipulating people into staying in relationships they want to end

[help-im-a-ghost]

also like… i have major gender dysphoria. i CANT masturbate. having a sexual relationship with my partner would be really important to me? like yeah i want to have giggly, happy sex, and finally manage to get off. so i wouldnt date a person who didn’t want to have a sexual relationship with me! stand tf down!

[autistictaramaclay]

im literally not forcing you to date an ace person oh my god i understand not wanting to date someone who doesnt want sex im just saying if you do have an ace partner to not force them to have sex please leave me alone

[anti-transphobia]

also adding on: you dont have to be ace to be sex repulsed. op never mentioned forcing anyone to stay in any relationships. it was directly stated that they were already in a relationship. saying not to pressure someone into sex isnt forcing them to stay in a relationship. and clearly @help-im-a-ghost you wouldnt be in a relationship with a sex repulsed ace so how is this, a post about not guilting someone into sex, about you?

[thatlittle-monster-deactivated2]

More additions! I have PTSD, and sometimes, that means I’m repulsed by sex. Guess what? That doesn’t mean I don’t FUCKING LOVE my boyfriend. It just means he needs to: a. fucking wait b. do it himself Like, these replies need to stop. It’s so completely disgusting that people think that sex repulsed people are making their partners miserable because they won’t do the dirty. There are so many more facets than sex. Seriously.

[witch-apologist]

^^^^

[thatfeministkilljoy]

OP: Dont coerce your partner into sex that’s fucked

Y’all: Why are you forcing me into relationships with asexual people

[the-nerdy-curvy-feminist-archiv]

People will literally do anything to tear ace people down, God damn. And FYI having gender dysphoria is not an excuse to force people into sexual relationships.

[colon-backslash]

What the fuck kinda logical leap do you have to make to decide undermining your partner’s consent is the same as breaking up with your partner cause you want different things? Aphobes are fucking wild. 

[courteousmingler]

why is “do not rape your datemate” a controversial statement to acephobes

[frick-it-all-to-hecc]

“Don’t rape” “Don’t tell me what to do you scum, I’ll rape someone if they refuse to satisfy my wants.” y'all are gross

[abuse-isnt-cute]

literally where the FUCK did anyone say it was okay to rape their partner

[frick-it-all-to-hecc]

they didn’t, I was showing how they took one thing (don’t force your partner into a sexual situation) and made it about something else (don’t force me to be with aces). sure i may have done it in an extreme, and probably not the best, way. and i am sorry about that. but there was a point I was making and that was, “y'all are being gross about this situation and need to back tf up. and don’t touch your partner in a way they don’t want you to touch them.”

[abuse-isnt-cute]

you literally said that they did, lol, and your extreme exaggeration was inappropriate as fuck. if you wanted to say "don't touch an unconsenting partner" then fucking say that, don't imply all "aphobes" are out to rape their partners.

(most of) the people involved also said that they misunderstood the context of the post bc of the "DONT DATE ANYONE EVER IF YOU THINK SEX IS IMPORTANT!" discourse and apologized or cleared things up with the op but y'all are acting like everyone is condoning sexual abuse. shut up.

[autistictaramaclay]

it costs $0 to masturbate instead of guilt tripping yr sex-repulsed partner into having sex with you

[witchydiscourse]

Ya see this? This is called “guilt tripping”. Like holy shit, wouldn’t you rather have an ace person be with someone who’s fine with not getting laid instead of forcing people to be in an unhappy relationship where they’re not getting what they need? Like I know y'all hate literally everyone who isn’t 100% repulsed by sex but I would never think that y'all are totally fine with people being outright miserable as long as it’s in the name of the discourse but hey. Y'all surprise me every day.

[discourseful]

it costs $0 to stop manipulating people into staying in relationships they want to end

[help-im-a-ghost]

also like… i have major gender dysphoria. i CANT masturbate. having a sexual relationship with my partner would be really important to me? like yeah i want to have giggly, happy sex, and finally manage to get off. so i wouldnt date a person who didn’t want to have a sexual relationship with me! stand tf down!

[autistictaramaclay]

im literally not forcing you to date an ace person oh my god i understand not wanting to date someone who doesnt want sex im just saying if you do have an ace partner to not force them to have sex please leave me alone

[anti-transphobia]

also adding on: you dont have to be ace to be sex repulsed. op never mentioned forcing anyone to stay in any relationships. it was directly stated that they were already in a relationship. saying not to pressure someone into sex isnt forcing them to stay in a relationship. and clearly @help-im-a-ghost you wouldnt be in a relationship with a sex repulsed ace so how is this, a post about not guilting someone into sex, about you?

[thatlittle-monster-deactivated2]

More additions! I have PTSD, and sometimes, that means I’m repulsed by sex. Guess what? That doesn’t mean I don’t FUCKING LOVE my boyfriend. It just means he needs to: a. fucking wait b. do it himself Like, these replies need to stop. It’s so completely disgusting that people think that sex repulsed people are making their partners miserable because they won’t do the dirty. There are so many more facets than sex. Seriously.

[witch-apologist]

^^^^

[thatfeministkilljoy]

OP: Dont coerce your partner into sex that’s fucked

Y’all: Why are you forcing me into relationships with asexual people

[the-nerdy-curvy-feminist-archiv]

People will literally do anything to tear ace people down, God damn. And FYI having gender dysphoria is not an excuse to force people into sexual relationships.

[colon-backslash]

What the fuck kinda logical leap do you have to make to decide undermining your partner’s consent is the same as breaking up with your partner cause you want different things? Aphobes are fucking wild. 

[courteousmingler]

why is “do not rape your datemate” a controversial statement to acephobes

[frick-it-all-to-hecc]

“Don’t rape” “Don’t tell me what to do you scum, I’ll rape someone if they refuse to satisfy my wants.” y'all are gross

[abuse-isnt-cute]

literally where the FUCK did anyone say it was okay to rape their partner

[advxntures]

Congrats on being a fucking rapist/slave owner supporter lol

Congrats on being an awful human being. Literally all I’m saying is don’t post hate in our tags. Do you see ANY hamilkin doing that to you? Its not cool, it gives people panic attacks, and all the suicide ideation just makes it that much worse

[abuse-isnt-cute]

p sure supporting rapists and slave owners make you worse than someone telling y'all you're racist ❤️

[pobopolybius]

Just wanted to drop by and say

I hope y’all Hamilkins are having a great day! Yeah, we may have been shitty people in our past lives, but what matters is now, the present, we changed. We are no longer slave owners, nor are we racist. And if you still are one of those things, there is always time to change. ~ Hamilton

[abuse-isnt-cute]

nah you're still racist for identifying as slave owners 💫

[abuse-isnt-cute]

so I did this thing too where I went into the ddlg tag on omegle to see if people were fine with me being 13/14/15/16 and literally everyone except two people were fine with it.

if I said I was 13 or 14 I got called “little one” and one guy said “yummy” in response to saying I was 13

a 48 year old man TWICE said yes to me when I said I was 16 and asked me if I was a good girl or a naughty girl

I met one little who was 14 and asked me to be her friend because she had no little friends.

something I find interesting is that every person I came across, except for the one 14 year old, was a DD looking for a little, and they were almost always over 20. the only people who said I was too young were an 18 and 17 year old.

this is so disgusting and the next person who says that “it’s between consenting adults only!” bullshit can go fuck themselves

[pink-isntkink]

YIKES

[babygirls-closet]

I will condemn the behavior of these doms. It’s disgusting. However, I don’t think you should use the doms that go on omegle to debunk all daddies. Most of the time people on omegle in general are creepers, and to use that to say that the “consenting adults” argument is invalid is just intellectually dishonest in my opinion. /:

[abuse-isnt-cute]

anyways

until there aren't adult men (and others but mostly men lmao) literally ACTIVELY SEEKING OUT CHILDREN TO FUCK you can't say shit about "only consenting adults ever!!!!"