Gay guy here. Since discovering your content about 3 or 4 years ago, it’s really helped me get more in touch with my subby side and learn what turns me on. Here are 3 fantasies of mine I’d like to share with you:
The Ritual: A consensual claiming dynamic where a guy marks me with his scent while I relax on his filthy couch, specifically using his sweaty underwear. I want him to deliberately rub it over me: my chest, the nape of my neck, my arms, my torso. Honestly, I want to be covered head to toe so I smell like him everywhere. What turns me on is that territorial, possessive energy; The “you’re mine now and forever” feeling with him confidently leading and me fully leaning into it. The overall vibe is calm, but there’s a clear message underneath: I’m his toy, and I’m meant to remember it.
Trial-by-farting: A punishment play I jokingly think of as a “trial,” where I’ve pissed off my dom (such as by making a bratty comment) and he decides to punish me with a fart to the face. I have to plead my case and explain why I shouldn’t be farted on, but the whole point is that I ultimately fail. He stays unsympathetic, decides I deserve it, and goes through with ripping a giant fart right onto me anyway. What I like is that consensual-but-feels-nonconsensual vibe. The power imbalance, the teasing inevitability, and having to surrender to his decision once it’s made.
Living Furniture: I’m really turned on by the idea of a guy casually using me like I’m just part of the room: sitting on my face while he works on his laptop, resting his feet on me while he watches a game on TV, that kind of thing. What really does it for me is how unceremonious it is, like he’s almost not even thinking about me being there. That includes him farting on me without apology, just going about his day while I’m underneath him. The appeal is the objectification, the power imbalance, and vibe where I’m there to be used and ignored in a very intentional way.
I love these. The whole "marking my territory" thing is always in the back of my mind when I'm pressing my unwashed butthole into someone's face. There's definitely an intention of leaving them stinking of me, burning my scent into their brain.
I also always like when people beg me not to do it. Or even when they realize its way worse than they expected and they're begging for relief right away.